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Posted by dark_tenshi on Mar-19-2003 13:46:

Yes it does feel like that time of the year. A LOT of my friends have recently broken up with their BF/GFs, including myself.

Some of them are still crying until today, others have gotten better. Life goes on and I think you'll find someone better.

Posted by DJ CLUSTER on Mar-19-2003 13:52:

Errrrr, me and my girl are taking a break as of a few days ago.
Tough decision but I think it was in the relationships best interest.
Although I feel it will bring us back together in the end, thats the whole idea of this break up to get back together and have it feel 'fresh' again. But who knows, that may not even happen, you never know who you could meet in between, or you just never know how your feeling may change.

As for why it happens this time of year, it's likely the weather that manipulates your way of thinking in some shape or form, a new season so time to start fresh maybe, who knows.

So how long have you been in your relationships for anyhow?
My relationship has been going on for over 1yr 8mnths.

Maybe us singles should get together and have a few drinks

Cheers,
Zigg's
www.djcluster.com

Posted by indiorunner on Mar-19-2003 14:00:

Spring time can also be a time for....new relationships.

Posted by DJ CLUSTER on Mar-19-2003 14:02:

quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
yeah i actually just broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. it is DEF this time of year- maybe everyone has spring fever or something. but girl, it's aight- being single isn't such a bad thing!!!

Originally posted by miss_e
arent you with tranceman78?

LMFAO!!

I have a date coming up with beachbunnychick69 ! Our internet talks go very deep. I feel like she touches me deeply with her BOLD & Anti-Times Roman text, really gets my blood flowing!! LOL!

Cheers,
Zigg's
www.djcluster.com

Posted by Rostros on Mar-19-2003 15:27:

It Is in the Stars , all my friends relationships have gone really shit , there has been 3 split ups in two weeks , and another very soon, and loadsa fall outs , wierd .

Posted by trancefeen02 on Mar-19-2003 16:20:

quote:
Originally posted by HardTrance81
ARE you kidding me? i can't get out of them, i haven't been single since my sophmore year of high school...(i am 21 now) everytime i am single and i meet one girl in like 2 days and they're like "hi whats up, yeah, moved my stuff in while you were sleeping....... hope you don't mind"..... i try to break for the door and i noticed i am shackled to the floor and can only view the internet under supervision lol.... damn it! ha ha ha ha, no matter how hard i try i keep getting suckered into commitment..... i am such a softy

i can definately relate to this! i haven't been single since the beginning of my freshmen year! beat that! (i'm 22) i've had several long term relationships. but they were always back to back. i have no idea what its like to be single! evrytime i get the itch to be single,i get scared of being alone..go figure! you guys!..can't live with em' can't live without em'!

Posted by trancefeen02 on Mar-19-2003 16:30:

Re: Roll Call: Recently broken up

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
My bf recently broke up with me and I have been consoled by several other people in the same situation. And then someone said that it is very common this time of year. So who is in the same boat as me? It is so hard....

butterfly..sorry that your going through this, but just remember the pain will pass , it just takes time .. and as for this time of year being "break up time" i agree..well at least in my case this has always been around when i have had breakups..its got to be spring fever for some people..i USED to love spring time !! i'm in a relationship now..lets see if this one makes it

Posted by trancEyes22 on Mar-19-2003 17:20:

quote:
Originally posted by indiorunner
Spring time can also be a time for....new relationships.

Posted by decibel08 on Mar-19-2003 18:17:

quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22

erin maybe you should teach a class on sexual liberation... you're starting to come across as a fiend ! (not in a bad way)

--dannyB--

ps, anyone seen 'shes gotta have it' by spike lee ? is it any good ?

Posted by capricorn15 on Mar-19-2003 19:33:

at the beginning of the school year in october, 5 of my friends had their girlfriends break up with them, all within a week, very strange

but anyways, for you, i guess he wasnt the right person

Posted by HardTrance81 on Mar-19-2003 19:37:

quote:
Originally posted by trancefeen02
i can definately relate to this! i haven't been single since the beginning of my freshmen year! beat that! (i'm 22) i've had several long term relationships. but they were always back to back. i have no idea what its like to be single! evrytime i get the itch to be single,i get scared of being alone..go figure! you guys!..can't live with em' can't live without em'!

AAAHHH .... i can't...... stop.... zoning-out... on... your avatar.....

Posted by trancefeen02 on Mar-19-2003 20:38:

quote:
Originally posted by HardTrance81
AAAHHH .... i can't...... stop.... zoning-out... on... your avatar.....

hehe...is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Posted by George Kendall on Mar-19-2003 20:41:

It's all about make up sex

Posted by trancefeen02 on Mar-19-2003 20:46:

quote:
Originally posted by X-Hale
It's all about make up sex

i agree make up sex is good

Posted by tranceaholic on Mar-19-2003 20:51:

it takes some bad relationships to get to the good relationship and learn to appretiate it.

Posted by George Kendall on Mar-19-2003 20:53:

quote:
Originally posted by tranceaholic
it takes some bad relationships to get to the good relationship and learn to appretiate it.

Yeh wether it be your own or not. I've learned from my parents mistakes...

Posted by butterfly on Mar-20-2003 15:50:

thanks for the kind words... this one has been particularly hard for me. we weren't toget her long at all but i haven't been able to deal with losing him. i remember when my ex of 1 1/2 yrs broke up with me 2 years ago i cried for maybe 2 hours then saw the bright side and began to move on and flourish in being single. with this one i have been crying for over 2 weeks and i have yet to see anything positive in not having him anymore. hopefully i find a distraction soon...

Posted by Endlesswave on Mar-20-2003 18:31:

^^^^^^^ you'll find a distraction. It'll pass...something will just come along and then it'll be over. I had a date last night with a girl my friend is trying to set me up with...she's nice...looks are alright but I mean there's no spark. I hate that.

Posted by butterfly on Mar-20-2003 18:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Endlesswave
^^^^^^^ you'll find a distraction. It'll pass...something will just come along and then it'll be over. I had a date last night with a girl my friend is trying to set me up with...she's nice...looks are alright but I mean there's no spark. I hate that.

yeah i hear ya. i went to lunch with this guy yesterday. he seems nice enough but he is vastly uninteresting to me and full of pessimism. my standards are so much higher having had someone who i couldn't see any flaws in. now i look for men with all thde qualities i want cause i know at least one out there exists like that and i have a feeling it will be hard to find again.

Posted by Endlesswave on Mar-20-2003 18:40:

Yepz. I mean I don't see me not being friends with her, it's just anything more I can't see myself doing. It's like nothing grabbed my attention and made me go "WOW!".

Posted by butterfly on Mar-20-2003 18:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Endlesswave
Yepz. I mean I don't see me not being friends with her, it's just anything more I can't see myself doing. It's like nothing grabbed my attention and made me go "WOW!".

yeah i hear ya. that is what my ex is telling me he feels about me.

Posted by decibel08 on Mar-20-2003 21:23:

butterfly et. al.

here is a song for y'all (be sure to read the whole thing to get the message) :

THE EAGLES - WASTED TIME

Well, baby, there you stand
with your little head down in your hand.
Oh my God, you can't believe it's happening again.
Your baby's gone and you're all alone and it looks like the end.

And you're back out on the street
and you're tryin' to remember.
How do you start it over? You don't know if you can.
You don't care much for a stranger's touch but you can't hold your man.

You never thought you'd be alone
this far down the line
and I know what's been on your mind,
you're afraid it's all been wasted time.

The autumn leaves have got you thinking
about the first time that you fell.
You didn't love the boy too much,
no no, you just loved the boy too well.
Farewell.

So you live from day to day
and you dream about tomorrow, oh.
And the hours go by like minutes and the shadows come to stay.
So ya take a little something to make them go away.

And I could have done so many things, baby,
if I could only stop my mind
from wond'rin' what I left behind
and from worryin' 'bout this wasted time.

Ooh, another love had come and gone.
Ooh, and the years keep rushing on.
I remember what you told me before you went out on your own:
sometimes to keep it together we got to leave it alone.

So you can get on with your search, baby,
and I can get on with mine.
And maybe someday we will find
that it wasn't really wasted time.

--dannyB--

Posted by butterfly on Mar-20-2003 21:29:

Re: butterfly et. al.

quote:
Originally posted by decibel08
here is a song for y'all (be sure to read the whole thing to get the message) :

THE EAGLES - WASTED TIME

Well, baby, there you stand
with your little head down in your hand.
Oh my God, you can't believe it's happening again.
Your baby's gone and you're all alone and it looks like the end.

And you're back out on the street
and you're tryin' to remember.
How do you start it over? You don't know if you can.
You don't care much for a stranger's touch but you can't hold your man.

You never thought you'd be alone
this far down the line
and I know what's been on your mind,
you're afraid it's all been wasted time.

The autumn leaves have got you thinking
about the first time that you fell.
You didn't love the boy too much,
no no, you just loved the boy too well.
Farewell.

So you live from day to day
and you dream about tomorrow, oh.
And the hours go by like minutes and the shadows come to stay.
So ya take a little something to make them go away.

And I could have done so many things, baby,
if I could only stop my mind
from wond'rin' what I left behind
and from worryin' 'bout this wasted time.

Ooh, another love had come and gone.
Ooh, and the years keep rushing on.
I remember what you told me before you went out on your own:
sometimes to keep it together we got to leave it alone.

So you can get on with your search, baby,
and I can get on with mine.
And maybe someday we will find
that it wasn't really wasted time.

--dannyB--

that doesn't realyl help any.

Posted by montie on Mar-20-2003 21:55:

well its spring break time.
lots of people wanna go on trips and screw as many people as they can like rabbits.

nothing wrong with that but id be happy with one cute girl i could go on a trip with and screw like a rabbit.

Posted by beema on Mar-20-2003 21:57:

quote:
Originally posted by montie
well its spring break time.
lots of people wanna go on trips and screw as many people as they can like rabbits.

nothing wrong with that but id be happy with one cute girl i could go on a trip with and screw like a rabbit.

so true, fucking filthy hoes
I can't take it anymore

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