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it definatly is.
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| Originally posted by biznology are we talking about drugs or love here? hey sugah, maybe youre in love with the master of your sig!? maybe not. |
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| Originally posted by GeneDefekt Being UNDOUBTFULLY in love is the best thing in the world! Especially when you can share your life with that "someone". Sharing differences, experiences, and all the time you have to get to learn and know from eachother makes a relationship grow so healthy. It's awesome. You never sit down and have a doubt in your mind about the relationship. It's all about moving to the next level WITH that person. A lot of you may not understand that yet, but like myself, you will learn as you mature what it is to really be in love.  |
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| Originally posted by Endlesswave I think love sucks ass imo because it has never worked out for me. Ever |
�Love is the greatest feeling you will ever have, yet it is also one of the greatest sorrows. There is so much suffering, but then there are times when the crying, pain, and heartache is worth it. Those moments are perfect, they are right. Those moments make all the suffering worthwhile. It's those moments we should live for.�
*This is one of my favorite quotes and I strongly believe it. So, do I feel like falling in love is worth the pain?? YES, absolutely. Especially when you have found that person that makes your life alittle bit more complete each day! I have been with my boyfriend for just a little over a year now and we were best friends for a year before that. We have our good days and our bad days but I couldn't imagine having them with anyone else. 
.. Being in love is worth everything in the end!
you can't appreciate the sweet without tasting the sour
This is a topic that wil forever be talked about for eternities on end... there are things in love we can't explain... why this why that, fuck him, fuck her, lust her love her... all confusing...
But simply put it.. there are 2 kinds of people in this world.. those that fall in love and there are those who run away from it... both has its advantage... i.e, you let yourself fall in love with someone and then you realise that they don't love you back, or they only THOUGHT that they did...
The other one are those ppl who run away from it... has its advantages like never been heartbroke, but tell me? what do they really gain from it?
To be able to trust someone fully with all your heart is one of the greatest feelings in the world... is it better to run away from the possibility or is it better to try?
Hope that answers your question...
Ahhh...love. I remember that feeling. That's the feeling that gave me a different view on life. That's the feeling that made me feel that life was worth living. It was the same feeling that made me joyful, when I was sad, and it was the feeling that gave me inspiration, when I ran out of ideas. It was the feeling that made me float, when I was too down in this world; and it was the feeling that opened my eyes when they were closed. Love is the ultimate emotion that reverses negative energies...ah yes.
But, I have lost love. I have loved, but have not received it in return, ah yes.
But what to do? What can you do? Must I take my life away? If I lose love, then all those negative energies return...ahh...
There is only one thing to do...
Take that love that was there before, and store it in a place that'll be safe. In order to continue on, learn to love yourself!
Yes, we need to work on ourselves people! If those people don't love us in return, what good are they? Do they control our bodies? Do they feed us? Do they do what is necessary for us to stay alive? NO! We take care of ourselves, and WE make sure we stay alive!
WE are the vessels that matter. If another earthly creature DOES not share the same beautiful vision as love as us, then they are at loss; if you are honestly in love, and good at heart, and the person doesn't return it, then it is NOT always your fault, but perhaps the other person; Remember, we are humans with freedom, of thought, and expression, and sometimes, things get in the way of our feelings; fear, experience, pain, and suffering can be reasons to be afraid to 'love' others. So we cannot blame others ALL the times, but perhaps, immaturity, can be to blame for this injustice.
Now this may sound like I'm cold hearted, but it's true. If we love ourselves, and do good for others, we can 'take' this love that we had for that person, and 'convert' it to do good for YOURSELVES, and others. Take that joy and love and pour it into positive things. Music, entertainment, friends, family, hobbies, religion, sports, YOURSELVES! Anything that makes you happy in this world.
There's hope; there's hope for us all in this world. We are young, so it's easy to get tangled up in the booby traps of this world. It's all up to us to have knowledge and wisdom, to watch out for the wicked snares in this world. Until then, don't be depressed, and 'suppress' that love, but let it shine, and shine bright on the things that matter. Later. -Mental
Re: LOVE! Is it worth the risk?
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| Originally posted by brainfried What do you guys/girls think? is falling in love worth the risk of getting heart broken and completly destroyed? It feels soooooo good but then it can feel so bad. |
real love is worth it.
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| Originally posted by butterfly who needs internet porn when i have my vibrator? (although it broke  ) |
no love nothing
if you're attractive, it's probably worth it.
if you're not, it's probably not worth it.
just have one thing in mind, never convince yourself that the one you love loves you back. it'll fuck up your life if the feeling is not corresponded. it's the story of my life and i always commit the same mistake like a fuckin' idiot. so always remember that love can fuck up your life.
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| Originally posted by tranzMental Ahhh...love. I remember that feeling. That's the feeling that gave me a different view on life. That's the feeling that made me feel that life was worth living. It was the same feeling that made me joyful, when I was sad, and it was the feeling that gave me inspiration, when I ran out of ideas. It was the feeling that made me float, when I was too down in this world; and it was the feeling that opened my eyes when they were closed. Love is the ultimate emotion that reverses negative energies...ah yes. But, I have lost love. I have loved, but have not received it in return, ah yes. But what to do? What can you do? Must I take my life away? If I lose love, then all those negative energies return...ahh... There is only one thing to do... Take that love that was there before, and store it in a place that'll be safe. In order to continue on, learn to love yourself! Yes, we need to work on ourselves people! If those people don't love us in return, what good are they? Do they control our bodies? Do they feed us? Do they do what is necessary for us to stay alive? NO! We take care of ourselves, and WE make sure we stay alive! WE are the vessels that matter. If another earthly creature DOES not share the same beautiful vision as love as us, then they are at loss; if you are honestly in love, and good at heart, and the person doesn't return it, then it is NOT always your fault, but perhaps the other person; Remember, we are humans with freedom, of thought, and expression, and sometimes, things get in the way of our feelings; fear, experience, pain, and suffering can be reasons to be afraid to 'love' others. So we cannot blame others ALL the times, but perhaps, immaturity, can be to blame for this injustice. Now this may sound like I'm cold hearted, but it's true. If we love ourselves, and do good for others, we can 'take' this love that we had for that person, and 'convert' it to do good for YOURSELVES, and others. Take that joy and love and pour it into positive things. Music, entertainment, friends, family, hobbies, religion, sports, YOURSELVES! Anything that makes you happy in this world. There's hope; there's hope for us all in this world. We are young, so it's easy to get tangled up in the booby traps of this world. It's all up to us to have knowledge and wisdom, to watch out for the wicked snares in this world. Until then, don't be depressed, and 'suppress' that love, but let it shine, and shine bright on the things that matter. Later. -Mental |
It's definitely worth it, it might have it's setbacks and knockdowns but I also think it can help shape you as a person.
Love sounds like a routine of human emotions which randomly occurs - based on who you meet and how he/she interacts with your behaviours and life style. Due to the complex nature of this... my own beliefs has developed this main rule of thumb:
Don't bother with the idea of "love" until your own life is in full swing & you're very comfortable w/yourself. In the bigger picture - you'll generally save precious time for both you and any prospective life mates.
the biggest problem is that most ppl. dont realize, that 'love' in the romantic sense, does not exist
so ppl. spend yrs. and yrs. of their lives looking for sumthing which doesn't exist, and then they get bitter
once u realize this, life becomes much easier, and u get to fuck around alot more
Ok I retract my previous statement. Love is worth the risk only if it ends up working out. If not then you end up feeling like shit but at least you know that you have gone for it and are aware of how the person feels. If you don't go for it or try you will forever be kicking yourself for not having the guts to do it. Plus things happen for a reason whether you are aware of it at the time or not, and eventually it will get better. I just have one question? Where is my girl? I used to have times when I looked like a madman, then others where I didn't look, now I just party my ass off with friends, and hopefully I will end up meeting her just by doing that and living my life.
i think it depends on personalities...
some ppl want love, they dont like being alone, they like having a constant companion etc
some ppl dont want love, but still find themselves suckered in time and time again
some people want love, but can't find what their definition of love is
some people are "alone", but not alone, and like it that way.
in the words of robert de niro, i am alone...but i am not lonely.
i personally find security in my own mind and soul, i dont need a constant companion to help solve my problems. the mind is a powerful tool on its own, able to solve and adapt to any situation that presents itself in life without needing a 3rd party's opinion and/or input.
shouldn't confuse this with the 'partying 24/7, one night stand, prime of my dating life' kind of ppl, who inevitably end up 40 years old, feeling alone, and grasping for straws in relationships
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| Originally posted by tranzMental Ahhh...love. I remember that feeling. That's the feeling that gave me a different view on life. That's the feeling that made me feel that life was worth living. It was the same feeling that made me joyful, when I was sad, and it was the feeling that gave me inspiration, when I ran out of ideas. It was the feeling that made me float, when I was too down in this world; and it was the feeling that opened my eyes when they were closed. Love is the ultimate emotion that reverses negative energies...ah yes. But, I have lost love. I have loved, but have not received it in return, ah yes. But what to do? What can you do? Must I take my life away? If I lose love, then all those negative energies return...ahh... There is only one thing to do... Take that love that was there before, and store it in a place that'll be safe. In order to continue on, learn to love yourself! Yes, we need to work on ourselves people! If those people don't love us in return, what good are they? Do they control our bodies? Do they feed us? Do they do what is necessary for us to stay alive? NO! We take care of ourselves, and WE make sure we stay alive! WE are the vessels that matter. If another earthly creature DOES not share the same beautiful vision as love as us, then they are at loss; if you are honestly in love, and good at heart, and the person doesn't return it, then it is NOT always your fault, but perhaps the other person; Remember, we are humans with freedom, of thought, and expression, and sometimes, things get in the way of our feelings; fear, experience, pain, and suffering can be reasons to be afraid to 'love' others. So we cannot blame others ALL the times, but perhaps, immaturity, can be to blame for this injustice. Now this may sound like I'm cold hearted, but it's true. If we love ourselves, and do good for others, we can 'take' this love that we had for that person, and 'convert' it to do good for YOURSELVES, and others. Take that joy and love and pour it into positive things. Music, entertainment, friends, family, hobbies, religion, sports, YOURSELVES! Anything that makes you happy in this world. There's hope; there's hope for us all in this world. We are young, so it's easy to get tangled up in the booby traps of this world. It's all up to us to have knowledge and wisdom, to watch out for the wicked snares in this world. Until then, don't be depressed, and 'suppress' that love, but let it shine, and shine bright on the things that matter. Later. -Mental |
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| Originally posted by butterfly i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh* |
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| Originally posted by Endlesswave Ok I retract my previous statement. Love is worth the risk only if it ends up working out. If not then you end up feeling like shit but at least you know that you have gone for it and are aware of how the person feels. If you don't go for it or try you will forever be kicking yourself for not having the guts to do it. Plus things happen for a reason whether you are aware of it at the time or not, and eventually it will get better. I just have one question? Where is my girl? I used to have times when I looked like a madman, then others where I didn't look, now I just party my ass off with friends, and hopefully I will end up meeting her just by doing that and living my life. |
Love is definitely worth it! I love my cygnusx and i couldn't live a second without him!
Love you honey!
Greetz
TatanaGirl
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| Originally posted by TatanaGirl Love is definitely worth it! I love my cygnusx and i couldn't live a second without him! Love you honey! Greetz TatanaGirl |
is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all...? that is the question...
my answer- it depends upon what you have lost...
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| Originally posted by KLINGKLANG77 is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all...? that is the question... my answer- it depends upon what you have lost... |
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