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i wasnt single till a month ago, i was with a girl for bout a month, then i went to canada for amonth and it kind of dissolved.....

sucks... but she didnt like electronic music anyways.

stardate 4:15 am

So i was just peeing and thinking about life. Not 20 minutes ago I subconsciously hear the phone ringing and ringing. Luckily I had put it in my room this morning, normally i leave it outside so i DONT hear it.

anywho I answer, with a sense of dread. My sister says "Walker?" and i say yes...

she starts crying.

I dont know what you guys would think at 3am, but all I could think of was that she got raped. I was already planning murder. Finally after saying whats wrong she answers.

"I got arrested"

THANK GOD

She got nailed for DUI which she does all the time, but this time she blew a .078. Legal limit being .08. The officer made her blow again after a few minutes and she hit .082. Then arrested her. Bullshit. I might be able to get her off the ticket, but im not sure i want to. She does this too often.

Oh yeah, point of story. So i was thinking about the friend I just cut off this Friday as I peed. It was very fitting.

I was thinking "If there were four words that were never truer about someone it would be 'hes being a bitch'"

Why did that bother me so much? Id been friends with "bitches" before. Then I realized what it was. Whenever the going gets rough, he bitches out. Until then hes normal.

and THATS what pisses me off. The lack of character inherent in such a thing.

Bible said it great "If you falter in times of trouble how SMALL is your strength?"

I hate hanging out with weak people. People who change. I cut them off usually without knowing why until later. Its my human instinct, if there is such a thing, to surround yourself with people who will be good in trouble.

Hes the kind of guy that if I was in a foxhole with I would cap his ass and then worry about the line.

Point of all this:

I think women are looking for character. I think most PEOPLE are looking for character. Most guys will hang out with just about anyone, they usually arent too worried about whether or not theyll be able to have fun drunk with the dudes. Women dont get it that easy.

They cant just get drunk. They have to know you , know you wont do anything, try any shit. And someone who has never for a second changed how they behave is a safe person to be around.

They also have character though. I was thinking how id rather hang out with a total asshole than a bitch like him. And most of my friends (myself included) are considered jerks a lot, because we dont care where we are, we act like we do when we are drunk at 1 am. Making off color jokes, fuckin around, hitting on waitresses humorously..

So think in many ways an asshole is someone who is confident about who they are, doesnt make excuses, and generally has a solid core of character, albeit thinly veiled. At least you know who it is though.

So yeah, theres my deep thought, it felt right when I thought it, it might just be the time though.

People dont like weak people. And there are many forms of weakness. Women are looking for potential mates. Guys dont fuckin care, they just want someone to drink and play video games with.

So next time youre out there think about that. Are you acting differently towards this girl than you would if you were 100% confident she would be your girlfriend if all you had to do was ask?

Probably, and I get the feeling people can sense when someone is acting a little off. They arent going to be consciously thinking it, itll just be one of those little things that their brain processes and says "warning" on.

Maybe its time for some self honesty. Know what you dont like about yourself, and try to fix it, because you can bet your ass other people arent going to like it if YOU dont.

Why cant you be confident? People who dont want to hang out with you are probably good riddance. Have you ever noticed how you go to a party and there are people you instantly click with? One person you all of a sudden spend the whole night with and get crazy shit done?

Why would gender matter? Yeah, sucks having a hot girl shoot you down. You just got your ass SAVED. She doesnt like you! thats the test on whether youd like her! YOU DIDNT CLICK BE HAPPY YOU ARENT DATING HER.

Am I way off?

edit: im listening to Pink FLoyd: Comfortably Numb.

I love it when he says "you dont understand, this is not how I am"

god i love floyd.

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Originally posted by Orbax People dont like weak people. And there are many forms of weakness. Women are looking for potential mates. Guys dont fuckin care, they just want someone to drink and play video games with. So next time youre out there think about that. Are you acting differently towards this girl than you would if you were 100% confident she would be your girlfriend if all you had to do was ask? Probably, and I get the feeling people can sense when someone is acting a little off. They arent going to be consciously thinking it, itll just be one of those little things that their brain processes and says "warning" on. Maybe its time for some self honesty. Know what you dont like about yourself, and try to fix it, because you can bet your ass other people arent going to like it if YOU dont. Why cant you be confident? People who dont want to hang out with you are probably good riddance. Have you ever noticed how you go to a party and there are people you instantly click with? One person you all of a sudden spend the whole night with and get crazy shit done? Why would gender matter? Yeah, sucks having a hot girl shoot you down. You just got your ass SAVED. She doesnt like you! thats the test on whether youd like her! YOU DIDNT CLICK BE HAPPY YOU ARENT DATING HER. Am I way off?

Dead on. It's called intuition. The problem is that most people just don't listen to it.

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Originally posted by Orbax god i love floyd.

Floyd owns u, greatest band ever

spot on... the whole thing.

Orbax, right on the money with deep thoughts.

Allow me to add one thing.

Self Love.

A lot of people suffer from a lack of this.

Some people think they are nobody and nothing, if there is not a sifnificant other to love them.

You have to love yourself first, and not rely on love from others. Cuz if you can't love yourself, why should anyone else?

The significant other should compliment who you are, not complete who you are, because if that is the case, then you are incomplete to start with.

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Originally posted by GHOSH You have to love yourself first, and not rely on love from others. Cuz if you can't love yourself, why should anyone else?

stole the words right out of my mouth. if you feed someone's self confidence, then they are relying on YOU to feel good about themselves, which strangles the relationship. a person has to make themselves happy before they can even think about making someone else happy.

*busts into song (with changed words to avoid gay comments )*

i know what girls like...i know what girls want...they want to touch me...but i don't let them...i know what girls like...girls like me nanana nanana

I agree with Orbax on many points...


Minus the part about the "asshole" part. Sure some assholes are confident, hence them being themselves and often considered to be assholes - cuz they won't change for anyone.

But i also think a lot of "assholes" are stupid weak bitches that get off on appearing to be confident and tough. I think there's a flip side to the oh so popular "asshole".


Regardless of which, the key words orbax discussed were CONFIDENCE and CHARACTER, both of which women are definitely looking for.
Right on zee money Orbz, good job

Yeah, im not really talking about the sideways hat wearing, civic driving 120 lb bitches who never been in a fight yet step assholes.

A lot of dumb albeit good looking bitches date them, but that entire subcommunity is a closed system.

Im talking about people think youre an asshole when someone behind me had a screaming baby and I loudly asked if anyone needed to borrow a pair of rolled up socks.

The girls were horrified.

I dunno. I give and get a lot of respect for people who have logical coherent thoughts on issues and things, without necessarily knowing EVERYTHING or even much. Someone who will apply what little they know and try to figure stuff out.

One girl even said it right out "walker, I respect that about you so much" (was debating a guy on how its gay to use body wash for a man, because showers arent supposed to be "me" time its supposed to be a brillo pad and battery acid for men) I asked "what"

and she said "You have so many strong opinions...thats awesome."

its also kind of sad that most people wont debate with you because they think its confrontational or something. Its fun to see who can persuade the other person.

There are just a lot of weak watery little people out there who expect someone to know that they are a nice, charming gentleman who got a degree in ___ from ___ and likes to drink, play soccer, go clubbing, and you have a passion for poetry all from a glance across the room, or a "I dunno" at a bar.

Ive gotten so sick of people side stepping issues, and being wusses about stuff. Its funny, because Ive gotten offers for management at every place I have worked. A no-bullshit/drama attitude does help

I think it just boils down to you have to tell people about yourself. and only by expressing opinions and saying what you think, and trying to have a little spine sometimes (like when someone refutes something or misunderstands it, dont just be silent and continue, address it till its resolved, then move on) is lacking horribly these days.

Sooo many people bore the shit out of me. They dont know, do, or say anything. Oh wait, the convert Oxygen into C02, which isnt really a good thing.

Fuck what girls want! I want a girl who knows something other than what kind of lip gloss tastes fruitier than the other. Try politics, mechanics, sports, environment, the world, psychology, sociology, anything!!@ try HAVING AN INTEREST in SOMETHING.

*whistles and wanders off*

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Originally posted by Orbax Yeah, im not really talking about the sideways hat wearing, civic driving 120 lb bitches who never been in a fight yet step assholes. A lot of dumb albeit good looking bitches date them, but that entire subcommunity is a closed system. Im talking about people think youre an asshole when someone behind me had a screaming baby and I loudly asked if anyone needed to borrow a pair of rolled up socks. The girls were horrified. I dunno. I give and get a lot of respect for people who have logical coherent thoughts on issues and things, without necessarily knowing EVERYTHING or even much. Someone who will apply what little they know and try to figure stuff out. One girl even said it right out "walker, I respect that about you so much" (was debating a guy on how its gay to use body wash for a man, because showers arent supposed to be "me" time its supposed to be a brillo pad and battery acid for men) I asked "what" and she said "You have so many strong opinions...thats awesome." its also kind of sad that most people wont debate with you because they think its confrontational or something. Its fun to see who can persuade the other person. There are just a lot of weak watery little people out there who expect someone to know that they are a nice, charming gentleman who got a degree in ___ from ___ and likes to drink, play soccer, go clubbing, and you have a passion for poetry all from a glance across the room, or a "I dunno" at a bar. Ive gotten so sick of people side stepping issues, and being wusses about stuff. Its funny, because Ive gotten offers for management at every place I have worked. A no-bullshit/drama attitude does help I think it just boils down to you have to tell people about yourself. and only by expressing opinions and saying what you think, and trying to have a little spine sometimes (like when someone refutes something or misunderstands it, dont just be silent and continue, address it till its resolved, then move on) is lacking horribly these days. Sooo many people bore the shit out of me. They dont know, do, or say anything. Oh wait, the convert Oxygen into C02, which isnt really a good thing. Fuck what girls want! I want a girl who knows something other than what kind of lip gloss tastes fruitier than the other. Try politics, mechanics, sports, environment, the world, psychology, sociology, anything!!@ try HAVING AN INTEREST in SOMETHING. *whistles and wanders off*

Orbax for president!!!

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They dont know, do, or say anything. Oh wait, the convert Oxygen into C02, which isnt really a good thing.

ROFLMAO!!

Something I asked my current GF before we even started dating.... you know, those moments where yer shooting the shit- trying to get to know someone.

I asked her what her Passion was.........


and she couldn't answer me.

I thought those were grounds for ditching the girl and moving on. A person without a specific passion, or just a passion for learning in general.....meh, not for me.


LAter on, she did say a passion, which was understandable. So I didnt ditch her lol

but still- Passion is important.

I agree, Orb. One of the first important lessons in life you learn as a guy is that no matter what you look like, or how you act, or how great your personality is (or whatever) - some girls just WON'T like you. Bottom line. A lot of people take this to heart and let it get at their self confidence.

We just gotta keep our heads up - our girl is out there somewhere, looking for the exact same thing.

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Originally posted by Terry Bones Here we go again Spec, You seems really lost. Each time you are spreading your shit here, we can ALL see the problems you may encounter in your life. You just show us how that some humans (if you are one) could be idiot and imature. You know, when you have a friend (thing that you may not have for sure), you have to maintain the relation with him/her. That's why a lot of people here are against you and your point of view. Like I already told you, people will respect you once you will respect them. You are so stupid to try to find any "difference" or "reason" that people defend other people than you. Yes, I'm defending my girlfriend. That's love, man. You know, LOVE, the thing that is missing in your life. Trancebrat's friends are defending her too, because they love her personality and her honesty, among many other qualities of which you will never have the chance to know. She is the most respectful person I ever met. I will not allow you to say any shit about her. RESPECT is what you need to have with everybody. I think that you don't need more education, because you don't have any. That's a tiny part of what is missing in your (poor little) life. People don't care about your believes, you are free to think what you want. People who are "insulting" you have just their honorable reasons. Those reasons are just made of what you wrote. You will never blow an artery, just because you don't have a heart. You don't have a clue about the definition of the word "TOLERANCE". What you are doing here could be called "racism". You need a good psychiatrist. If it's too expensive for you, I reckon you to be sterilized to stop the "Brainless" epidemy, it's cheaper and it will be really safe for the future of the mankind. Go out more often, speak with trees, bring some flowers to your mum, buy some icecream, go wash your mouth... and STOP to post some pathetic replies ! Thank you Terry Bones

The expert on human life speaks again to impart his endless wisdom on those in need. Have you ever thought of going on the public speaking circuit? This would allow more people to be helped by your skills, and the world would become a much better place, and fast.

Hell, I'll go one step further and suggest that if someone took the time to follow you around with a pen and paper, we could give the bible a run for its money after you die. Although one must question whether such a god could in fact die.

I understand you probably feel some sort of instinctual need to back up your girlfriend, and tell the world she is great whilst telling me how bad and evil I am, its quite noble. But please save us the sentimental pain and annoyance of having to bear it, because I hate being brought to tears by stories of true love and romance.

Its fair to say that the box of your life is quite small and your nice guy approach is rather sickening honestly. Be a man for once.

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Originally posted by starglider Why was spec unsuspended? I see no reason for him to be allowed to post. We have enough argumentative brats as it is.

Would you be happier if I just agree with everything you post?

Maybe your idea of perfect human life is a total lack of diversity where everybody are robots that simply agree with each other in unison.

I mean what a joke, suspend me because I don't agree with what people say. Tranceaddict one day, nazi Germany the next.

starglider, the little hitler.

Im drunk...thinking about getting drunker...whos with me?'

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Originally posted by Orbax Im drunk...thinking about getting drunker...whos with me?'

Committments are not allowing me to share in your alcoholic binge unfortunately.

But apart from getting a different haricut, I'd suggest going out and picking up some local tart, and having some fun.

I'm guessing its Sunday night, which is an awesome night to party generally, less glamour, more relaxed subjects on which to target.

My haircut rules

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Originally posted by Orbax My haircut rules

+1.




i want your haircut.

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Originally posted by Orbax My haircut rules

Indeed it does. Don't listen to unsolicited advice. Not that you ever would.

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Originally posted by Orbax My haircut rules

Personally I'm not really for the drug dealer, army jock, I just stole a car look, but each to their own I guess.

hey spec,

why don't you do us all a favor and fucking kill yourself you stupid peice of shit.

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Originally posted by spec But apart from getting a different haricut

What the fuck is a haricut?

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Originally posted by Floorfiller hey spec, why don't you do us all a favor and fucking kill yourself you stupid peice of shit.

Don't feed the trolls.

Use the "ignore user" button and he'll eventually give up

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Originally posted by Delay Llama Don't feed the trolls. Use the "ignore user" button and he'll eventually give up

Nice location!

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