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Originally posted by bettsy #cassiopeia Girls need to realize one thing and stop being naive (dont know if you belong in that category but here it goes). Usually when a guy is nice to you, being understanding and so on, he wants to get inside your pants. The difference between young and old men are that the later have more skills in the art of missleading girls. Of course, if you ask your boyfriend if this is the case, he will answere no. Well thats bullshit pretty much, although its sympathetic bullshit.

Too funny...so what you're saying is that anyone you go out with just wants to sleep with you? I mean I don't know of anyone that would go out with a guy/girl who's opening line is "What's going on you fat *explitive*?..."
So, anyone looking to go out is going to be nice to you...be it a front, or not...and since you believe the ONLY reason they are nice is for bedroom olympics...and you agree to it, only means you would let the person into your pants. That's about as shallow answer about guys I've heard...Obviously it is based on some truths...but it's simply another stereotype...and the only scapegoat you have is you started out with "Usually".

It's sad to think some people think that a nice guy is just faking being nice. They do make nice guys you know...that don't necessarily want to shag everything that walks.

Bahhhh and I thought I was a nice guy...and I'm flaming...ROFL..oh well...I'll probably fit in better now.

....
Out here, us older people (i.e. 26) are more limited to younger women (below 25). They are more of them that are not married yet, never been married, have kids etc. No one has mentioned it's simply a percentages game. The older a person gets...the more likely they are already taken.

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Originally posted by cassiopeia And what is that supposed to mean?

you know what you want.

enough said!

if any of you are hearing shitty remarks about guys from canadians or Americans, it is because our culture/s is/are currently undergoing a gangster stage where sucking and fucking to a bass beat is the onllllly cool thing to do. Love and tenderness is something you MIGHT do alone, but we have the f332ing "dont hate the player hate the game" mentality going on.

heres more food for thought (that was clever youll see why)

developed countries are hitting puberty earlier and earlier because of our rich diets and access to proteins and fatty foods and stuff. My dad just came back from a medical expidition in Africa and he said that most kids there dont hit puberty until 16-17

in the US the average is 12. people arent teaching their kids to cope with this stuff, so you get a 12 year old girl with huge tits and a 12 year old boy who gets BFNRs (boners for no reason) and has to hide after class until it goes away sometimes sitting there staring at eachother as flashes of raw hormonal energy spark about their little heads. Their lack of judgment ignites the mixture and now you get 18 year olds whove been fuckin for 6 years. then they realize they are still fucking 12 year old minded guys because they never needed to mature to land girlfriends. So girls finally snap out of and (unfortunately without a "used goods" sticker across their forehead) and go looking for a "nice guy" whos older and didnt fall into that bullshit trap. Then he finds out shes been having sex for approximately ever. its all bullshit. I hate everyone. Im surrounded by players and whores. The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces.

/rant

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give me dem haploids bitch!

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Originally posted by eye_03 im only 17.5 and i got my eye on a very nice woman, who is 1month my junior. i hope it works out for me

ok, with your sig i'm wondering how you don't have hundreds of hoes lining up down the street just to pleasure you.

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Originally posted by Orbax ..The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces. /rant

Hometown: West Glacier, MT...Population 0 (it's evacuated due to fire (Glacier Park)...normally bout 200 peeps...i.e. Hobumkin.
nice to meet ya ...and thanks for the indirect compliment.

[edit] and i do agree...pop culture doesn't shock and awe small towns as much..course pickins is mighty slim...I'm just glad I'm not related to any of them...ROFL [edit]

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Originally posted by bettsy Usually when a guy is nice to you, being understanding and so on, he wants to get inside your pants. The difference between young and old men are that the later have more skills in the art of missleading girls. Of course, if you ask your boyfriend if this is the case, he will answere no. Well thats bullshit pretty much, although its sympathetic bullshit.

I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants.

I have to agree with the main topic though, HS girls dating guys in college is stupid as hell. And I'm not talking like she is a senior and he is a freshman in college. I mean when he is like a junior in college and she is a sophomore in high school. It makes me want to smack the girls and be like 'don't you realize he's taking advantage of you, you idiot?'. I will agree there are tons of scummy guys out there, but girls don't have to be afraid of EVERY single guy there age. If my little sister ever starts dating a guy who is like 6+ years older, I'll find the guy and beat him. Girls need to be more mature and look at who is around them. I don't go out looking for a 23 year old! Some girl who is my age (going to be a junior) wants to start dating my brother. My brother doesn't know much better, but that girl is sick. That's just wierd. I've never had a girlfriend but I'm not so desperate as to go out with an eigth grader.

If you're dating a 14 year old and you are 20 you're probably really ugly.

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Originally posted by TheTornado If you're dating a 14 year old and you are 20 you're probably really ugly.

yet that still poses the inquiry, if you are in fact,
DAMN UGLY (yes it happens, beautiful girl that was
in my class got a 19 year old UGLY ass boyfriend
when she was 14) HOW THE HELL do they manage to get
these girls?

i mean, these days, if she's your same age, she says
"he's immature", if youre mature, she says "he's ugly",
if your both mature and good looking, "he's no fun",
and finally if youre everything, "he's not my type."

yet an immature ugly ass 19 year old cradle robbing
thug gets a beautiful girl that is 14! sorry for the
generalization, no offence to women, but damn, i think
its this country...

/rant

Well ive dated 1 girl that was 4 years younger then me, and let me tell you its hell, she gets bitchy, is possesive and always questioning your actions, even if they are positive towards her.

Not only that, she became very boring conversation wise, it sucked as she hadn't developed in her brain matter...

She looked older but that was about the only thing...

Never again my friends...

Society sees this as a negative because that is exactly what it is... a NEGATIVE thing, since you are both in different stages of life.

But here's a thought...

Here i am... 21 and doing 1st year of Uni, since i went to college before this... anyways... there's this girl who is 17 that likes me, and im like.. you are nice and all.. but i don't think its gonna work out, cause of the age differences, since she's in her last year of HS.

But there's this other girl, 19 and doing her first year of Uni with me... so im like hmmm.. but this girl is a little weird.. lol...

I don't know why but... since I'm 17.. I always found easier for me to get girls older than me than ones younger...
maybe you should try looking for some older girl... who could be more "mature" and see what kind of guy you really are.
I'm not talking about dating an old mom.. lol nah like 1 to 3 years older... It might work out ... you never know..
it did for me 3 times !


I also believe it is wrong to date a young girl with more than 4 years of age difference... that is until she's 21. after that well if she wants an old man well its up to her.

but hey... when they get older...
a 45 with a 37 is ok
a 57 with a 51 is ok
a 38 with a ... you get the picture

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Originally posted by eye_03 [/b] im only 17.5 and i got my eye on a very nice woman, who is 1month my junior. i hope it works out for me

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Originally posted by Abject Silver ok, with your sig i'm wondering how you don't have hundreds of hoes lining up down the street just to pleasure you.

ROFL!!

oh yeah, and for those of you who rememver highschool:

dont you remember the "cool" kids. they were assholes, and my question.. why do these assholes get all the women. you hear the stuff about them wanting sensible men who wont take advantage of them.. but they go for the anus folk. again and again

PhloTron, Thetornado.
Perhaps I was a bit blunt, but I belive that in some way or another sex controls the way we act. Somepeople admit it, somepeople dont.

Say you are out dancing or whatever.. if you are nice to a girl its either you want to fuck her (perhaps not right away but ultimatly), you feel sorry for her,(maybe because she's too drunk and you dont want her to get in trouble, doesn't rule out that you want her )
or she is your friend (doesn't rule out that you want her).

"I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants. "
Honestly..
Perhaps that hasnt been your only goal, but if you belive that it doesn't effect what you say, you are either wrong or lying.
And btw, you have no idea what goes on in your friends heads.
As i said before, not everyone admit it..

Thinking like this doesn't make you a bad person, I consider myself to be a nice person...
Just because you are feeling and thinking one way, it doesn't mean you express it right away.

Well I shouldnt be argueing with you, because of your age, you should definitly be more experienced and wise. But anyways this is what i belive is true.

Kisses~

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Originally posted by AnotherWay83 it all depends on the situation...if both are adults, then ppl. usually dont give (as much of) a fuck...like if the woman is 30 and the guy is 40, ppl. will usually be alot easier on them than if the guy is 25 and the girl 15 guess its the whole "women crave confidence, security " blah blah blah thing

True

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Originally posted by bettsy PhloTron, Thetornado. Perhaps I was a bit blunt, but I belive that in some way or another sex controls the way we act. Somepeople admit it, somepeople dont. Say you are out dancing or whatever.. if you are nice to a girl its either you want to fuck her (perhaps not right away but ultimatly), you feel sorry for her,(maybe because she's too drunk and you dont want her to get in trouble, doesn't rule out that you want her ) or she is your friend (doesn't rule out that you want her). "I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants. " Honestly.. Perhaps that hasnt been your only goal, but if you belive that it doesn't effect what you say, you are either wrong or lying. And btw, you have no idea what goes on in your friends heads. As i said before, not everyone admit it.. Thinking like this doesn't make you a bad person, I consider myself to be a nice person... Just because you are feeling and thinking one way, it doesn't mean you express it right away. Well I shouldnt be argueing with you, because of your age, you should definitly be more experienced and wise. But anyways this is what i belive is true. Kisses~

Your view is quite cynical and you seem very sure of yourself... I used to have this mentality in the eraly stages of puberty (about 12-15), however there are whole groups of older guys who do think this way, they usually cling together and wear similar clothing, talk similarly (these things vary depending on which part of the world you are in)... So i guess my question is... what makes u so certain its guys in general and not just the guys you hang around with?

Personally I have female friends who I'm very close with, who I know are objectively attractive, ... but the thought of having anything sexual to do with them is as repulsive as the concept of fucking your sister...blyaahh
I have even helped to set them up with other guys...

PS - I am not gay...



"Not that there's anything wrong with that."

Astroboy
*sigh*
I agree I'm cynical and somewhat sure of myself. Its not convinient to be correct all the time plus its boring. If you are objective and act political correct all the time not alot of people will react to what you have to say. I'm not stupid nor(omg I rock) ignorant, I know everybody's different and special etc...

You are also right about that other thingy, I really have no idea if everybody is like this or if it's just a stupid stereotype. I can't prove it or anything. And ofcourse I get alot of opinions from the enviroment I deal with, just as everyone else does...

However, my views on this matter isn't "based" on social behavior, I think its strictly biological. That's why I'm sure of myself really..

My female friends, are either girls I dont fancy, "dont touch girls" or girls I have had an intrest in but it has cooled of... so ofcourse you can have "girl-friends" that you dont wish to have sex with.

dunno if there are more things that I need to explain in order to not come of as a dumbass to you but anyways

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Originally posted by Orbax if any of you are hearing shitty remarks about guys from canadians or Americans, it is because our culture/s is/are currently undergoing a gangster stage where sucking and fucking to a bass beat is the onllllly cool thing to do. Love and tenderness is something you MIGHT do alone, but we have the f332ing "dont hate the player hate the game" mentality going on. heres more food for thought (that was clever youll see why) developed countries are hitting puberty earlier and earlier because of our rich diets and access to proteins and fatty foods and stuff. My dad just came back from a medical expidition in Africa and he said that most kids there dont hit puberty until 16-17 in the US the average is 12. people arent teaching their kids to cope with this stuff, so you get a 12 year old girl with huge tits and a 12 year old boy who gets BFNRs (boners for no reason) and has to hide after class until it goes away sometimes sitting there staring at eachother as flashes of raw hormonal energy spark about their little heads. Their lack of judgment ignites the mixture and now you get 18 year olds whove been fuckin for 6 years. then they realize they are still fucking 12 year old minded guys because they never needed to mature to land girlfriends. So girls finally snap out of and (unfortunately without a "used goods" sticker across their forehead) and go looking for a "nice guy" whos older and didnt fall into that bullshit trap. Then he finds out shes been having sex for approximately ever. its all bullshit. I hate everyone. Im surrounded by players and whores. The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces. /rant

excellent!!

being brought up by people who lived in small towns, I still am shocked about the quantities of sexual partners a girl or boy had, then they bitch about being treated as a whore/player... no self-respect left in this part of the world.

... anyways, we think alike we should have a chat

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Originally posted by occrider Your sister? Haha don't lie, we see you leering at her in pics.

thats wat brown guys like to do, heheheheh, i wonder why they wont let u date their sisters!!

OK where do i start !!
Me and my b/f have a 6 year difference!
but my youn years i mean 12-16 i spent going out parties blah blah blah
ayways you get the point now all i want to do is spend time with the one i love sit home wach movies go out togeter with 1 or 2 friends
do something . OR just cuddle and talk !! you kan say im a little far from my age group cause im only 17 and able 2 say that in 2 or 3 years i could start family life which i wont till im done UNIVERSTY or close to finshing but i know that when im going thrugh a hard time my b/f will be done and prepared t help me out !!!
Guys my own age r way 2 imature for me!!
tere is my reason !! sorry if i ofend ayone wth the last statement but its the truth in my case not al cases!!

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Originally posted by ~*AngelsEyes*~ OK where do i start !! Me and my b/f have a 6 year difference! but my youn years i mean 12-16 i spent going out parties blah blah blah ayways you get the point now all i want to do is spend time with the one i love sit home wach movies go out togeter with 1 or 2 friends do something . OR just cuddle and talk !! you kan say im a little far from my age group cause im only 17 and able 2 say that in 2 or 3 years i could start family life which i wont till im done UNIVERSTY or close to finshing but i know that when im going thrugh a hard time my b/f will be done and prepared t help me out !!! Guys my own age r way 2 imature for me!! tere is my reason !! sorry if i ofend ayone wth the last statement but its the truth in my case not al cases!!

Unless that's you in your avatar..fuck off.. lol

Jokes, but okay, seriously...
Don't generalize now that ALL GUYS that are your age are too immature...some arn't, so don't think that you've dated every single 17 year old there is! Btw, I'm not categorizing myself in any way...!


BTW>> You're still in your young years!! lol...geeeeez!

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Originally posted by Provitex Unless that's you in your avatar..fuck off.. lol Jokes, but okay, seriously... Don't generalize now that ALL GUYS that are your age are too immature...some arn't, so don't think that you've dated every single 17 year old there is! Btw, I'm not categorizing myself in any way...! BTW>> You're still in your young years!! lol...geeeeez!

is that BT with a mullet in your avatar?

Not really

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Originally posted by Provitex Unless that's you in your avatar..fuck off.. lol Jokes, but okay, seriously... Don't generalize now that ALL GUYS that are your age are too immature...some arn't, so don't think that you've dated every single 17 year old there is! Btw, I'm not categorizing myself in any way...! BTW>> You're still in your young years!! lol...geeeeez!

HEHEHE i hpe thats not u in yours
jokes
yehh i know things might change but st of the guys i talk 2 in scool ad friends my own age group do not satisfy my criteria for a good guy for me !!! hehehehe
I know im still young

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Originally posted by ~*AngelsEyes*~ HEHEHE i hpe thats not u in yours jokes yehh i know things might change but st of the guys i talk 2 in scool ad friends my own age group do not satisfy my criteria for a good guy for me !!! hehehehe I know im still young

Okay, you just joked about offending my fav. music producer of all times

lol... WELL! I suggest for you to get outta your school and exp with other guys...NOT 20 year olds...just other guys from other schools/places who share the same age as you...Not hard!! But I must say it really annoys me to hear girls complain about majority of 17z guys being immature or not being able to provide them with god knows what! AngelEyes (or whetever it is) I suggest you use your young years to exp with a guy who's going through the same problems as you, a guy who can relate to most things happening, a guy who doesn't have to be 20 years old to know how to treat a girl, a good guy who is simply your age...

hey im not saying all guys are immature but Ill jut stick with the guy i love and age dont matter
not gonna fight you 2 it we'll be nie and live our lives in peace
lol
ok now im talking BS!

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