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Posted by wienerschnitzel on Sep-02-2003 13:16:

does anyone know his real name or if there is any way we can follow up on him?


Posted by TranceGiant on Sep-02-2003 13:29:

by no means do i wanna doubt the truth of his post, but im just wondering if it is "normal" for some1 who's entered the suicidal stage, to announce it publically, or to tell others about it in general. I always thought one would keep it deep inside oneself etc....but whatever. I hope he's alright.


Posted by arj1o1 on Sep-02-2003 13:36:

quote:
Originally posted by TranceGiant
by no means do i wanna doubt the truth of his post, but im just wondering if it is "normal" for some1 who's entered the suicidal stage, to announce it publically, or to tell others about it in general. I always thought one would keep it deep inside oneself etc....but whatever. I hope he's alright.


remember that guy on irc, that was real too


Posted by wienerschnitzel on Sep-02-2003 13:41:

some people get so close to the edge that they don't know what to do anymore and they use it as a last resort... like "give me a good reason not to" not meaning "give me attention" but "im really serious and i don't know what else to do!"


Posted by Psygnosis on Sep-02-2003 13:47:

OMG DON"T!!!!!!!!

Please, there is always a solution in life to the misery and yes suicide is the easy way out but please don't do it...i'm not sure this is a bluff or not, but either way, i don't think anyone should do this..

NEO GEO, please don't.


Posted by Psygnosis on Sep-02-2003 13:48:

quote:
Originally posted by arj1o1
remember that guy on irc, that was real too


what happened??

and also i'm concerned about neo geo now.

and in life i have seriously tried to kill myself over 5 times but it's only a small time i'm angry at life, i quickly get over it.


Posted by DrUg_Tit0 on Sep-02-2003 14:09:

quote:
Originally posted by J-LoOks
I hope hes alright , 3 of my friends have comitted suicide and its very hurtful to everyone around them being friends , family etc going to 3 funerals of your friends doesnt make you feel good.


Quite a cheerful bunch of guys you must be.

Sorry for my sarcasm, but on a more serious note I urge you not to kill yourself. Look, I didn't have a girlfrend untill I was 21, I still live with my parents and don't work cause I'm going to university. It's not the end of the world if your friends are getting married. Plenty of peope get married in their 50s for the first time. Just go out of the house, meet new people, do anything that involves social activities and pretty soon you'll stop feeling depressed.


Posted by arj1o1 on Sep-02-2003 14:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj_Psygnosis
what happened??

and also i'm concerned about neo geo now.

and in life i have seriously tried to kill myself over 5 times but it's only a small time i'm angry at life, i quickly get over it.


http://www.stepzero.org/temp/ripper.html


Posted by YuVaL on Sep-02-2003 14:22:

he's real name is jeremy

dude
dont do it
for me man!!!
talk to me on msn....!!!!!


Posted by arj1o1 on Sep-02-2003 14:30:

quote:
Originally posted by YuVaL
he's real name is jeremy

dude
dont do it
for me man!!!
talk to me on msn....!!!!!


if you know him contact him


Posted by wienerschnitzel on Sep-02-2003 14:33:

quote:
Originally posted by arj1o1
http://www.stepzero.org/temp/ripper.html


simular to this story:
http://www.budzsack.com/crazy.html


Posted by Shock on Sep-02-2003 15:57:

Dude suicide is never the solution, you are depressed coz things arnt going well for ya now, but things will change later. BTw it better if you post again and stuff. Just listen to your fav trance tracks or cd's it will definetlty make you feel better. And most importantly do remember that if you commit suicide it would be a crime, also think about the people that love you coz you will kill them too when you take your own life.

Berson or whatever your nick is if you dont care about this you should prolly stfu and mind your own business coz you are doing nothing but making the situation hard for everyone. Imo you are also unknowingly becoming an accomplice in a crime, so in case this thing which i hope wont, ever go through you could be arrested for encouraging him to do it. Hope that clears things up. See ya.


Posted by Lira on Sep-02-2003 16:12:

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: suicide

quote:
Originally posted by dj_moonshine
p.s. BAN MR. BERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Pronto... I did what I had to do, now I'm going to bed. I'm glad that this arse won't be posting for a while

What do you think I said when I typed this message, mate?


Posted by Streakfury on Sep-02-2003 16:38:

quote:
Originally posted by erdega
On the more serious side, You know what man we are all going to die anyway but think how much trance , sex and ice cream you will miss out on if you go sooner rather than later and think of people left behind you . It's simply not worth it man.


Took the words right outta my mouth. Everyone goes through good and bad times, but you've just got to keep going. Dont take the selfish, easy way out. Think how the people you'll leave behind will feel. You may even end up making other people feel exactly how you feel right now, surely thats not what you want.

Just think about it.


Posted by DaveSZ on Sep-02-2003 16:44:

Sad

I saw this thread yesterday, but I didn't really know what to say...

Like most people I've also thought about suicide, but my family keeps me from ever doing it...

Like Arbiter said, the good things in life don't come to you easily. You have to work hard for them (whether they be relationships with people or whatever).

You can add me:

msn:

[email protected]

Hope you are ok.

Dave


Posted by Streakfury on Sep-02-2003 16:48:

Re: Re: Re: Re: suicide

quote:
Originally posted by berson
Post Censored


wtf?? LOSER!!!

You're only saying sh*t like this coz if this guy isn't serious and he's not gonna commit suicide, you're gonna look like a fool for being sympathetic. Is that it??

What a knob. Wouldn't you rather feel like an ass for being the butt of a joke, than be banned from the forum for telling a suicidal guy to kill himself.

Christ, there's always one.


Posted by SebG on Sep-02-2003 16:56:




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Posted by tiesto14 on Sep-02-2003 16:58:

We have all been in shitty situations....life goes on...

My brother didnt graduate college till he was 33 after a battle with minor drugs....NOW at 35 he is married, with a son, a house, a promising job and 2 nice cars....yet only 8 years earlier he was commited to a psych-ward for attempting suicide....he thought it would never get better....but it usually does.....

Personally i have thought about it before...i think most people have when things arent going so well...but you just have to push forward....nothing else you can do....people feel this way because they are usually lacking something in their life...best thing to do is make a list of everything you hate about yourself...then FOCUS on changing yourself just 1% each day with small changes and eventually you will see life is all what desicions you make....you control it...you descide what emotional state your in...never let outside events dictate your life....easier said then done i know...

Or go take a walk through a children's hospital and look at all those 5-12 year girls and boys who are DYING of cancer and nothing can change that, no medicine, no surgery, no doctor..NOTHING...yet these little children continue each day to FIGHT...even though they KNOW nothing will really help them live another few months....yet they FIGHT....on the other hand you want to hurt yourself for little problems that msot peopel got through.......take some of their fortitude....

I wish you the best....and seek help....their are so many places to go...friends, family, doctors, church, police, hospital, call centers, even here....you have ALL those resources to help you...


Posted by tiesto14 on Sep-02-2003 17:00:

quote:
Originally posted by djSlain

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. and i stress the word TEMPORARY!!!!




SO TRUE....


Posted by DaveSZ on Sep-02-2003 17:04:

quote:
Originally posted by tiesto14
We have all been in shitty situations....life goes on...

My brother didnt graduate college till he was 33 after a battle with minor drugs....NOW at 35 he is married, with a son, a house, a promising job and 2 nice cars....yet only 8 years earlier he was commited to a psych-ward for attempting suicide....he thought it would never get better....but it usually does.....

Personally i have thought about it before...i think most people have when things arent going so well...but you just have to push forward....nothing else you can do....people feel this way because they are usually lacking something in their life...best thing to do is make a list of everything you hate about yourself...then FOCUS on changing yourself just 1% each day with small changes and eventually you will see life is all what desicions you make....you control it...you descide what emotional state your in...never let outside events dictate your life....easier said then done i know...

Or go take a walk through a children's hospital and look at all those 5-12 year girls and boys who are DYING of cancer and nothing can change that, no medicine, no surgery, no doctor..NOTHING...yet these little children continue each day to FIGHT...even though they KNOW nothing will really help them live another few months....yet they FIGHT......take some of their fortitude....

I wish you the best....and seek help....their are so many places to go...friends, family, doctors, church, police, hospital, call centers, even here....you have ALL those resources to help you...


Volunteering in a children's hosptial is a GREAT idea.


Posted by UWM on Sep-02-2003 17:11:

I was going to keep my nose out of this, but I figured I should step in.


You are complaining that you live at home, have a dead end job, and don't have a girlfriend. Now let's discuss a real scenario ...

How would you like to have been in a terrible 2 year depression, had to leave school, became mired in drug addiction and abuse, and pretty much alienate everyone and everything that meant everything to you. At that point is when you hit rock bottom. Trust me, I know.

Then you realize how selfish your behavior is, and how even more selfish it would be to take your life from everyone who cares about you. Do you realize how much more pain and sadness you would be inflicting upon the world through committing suicide than by just having the courage, the strength, and the heart to deal with it? Fuck man, my parents could've given two shits about me at that time, and I hardly had any friends. I still came to the conclusion that as much as I had hurt them, that they still cared for me. It took me over a year to even build some sort of relationship with them, and I went through a lot of counseling. I got my friends back and now I am back in school and holding two jobs. Fuck me, I'm 23, have no girlfriend, and am still in school ... but just look ahead to all you have to improve on, not how 'bad' your situation is now.


Because trust me, it can get alot worse.


Posted by robin on Sep-02-2003 17:13:

quote:
FUCK LIFE, I'M OUT


did he responded to anything since then?!?! or is he.. 'out'?

dude, go do something you have never done before, go some place you haven't been yet, don't trow your life away, make something out of it!


Posted by DR86 on Sep-02-2003 17:15:

neo geo,
we've all been in shitty positions before for whatever reason. I know plenty of people that are in your position in terms of job and being single, etc. But, they decided to go out and change their lives. Everyone has the capacity to become someone new. Go out and meet people, have fun, do whatever it takes. You gotta strive. Like most people say it's only a phase, and you have to believe that it will pass.


Posted by tiesto14 on Sep-02-2003 17:26:

To be honest i think this should be taken serious....never doubt anything like this.....not worth the chance...

I wonder if there is a way for Swamper to track his IP through here and then maybe report him or somehting...i really do not know just throwing out a suggestion....is there a way to track him?..or to report him to the proper authorities?.....


Posted by Lira on Sep-02-2003 17:30:

quote:
Originally posted by robin
did he responded to anything since then?!?! or is he.. 'out'?

He was on-line and off-line a couple of times yesterday night, but that's all I know


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