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agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship.

its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

DUDE JUST ERASE THE THREAD AND GO TO BED!!!

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

make sure you shag her first, then break up with her. might aswell get the most of the situatuion

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Originally posted by Mod1 agreed... i dont think im gonna tell her. tonights episode has just pointed out a rather large hole in the relationship. its not working and my eyes are wandering. best for me to be single i think.

Sounds like a smart move, even better if you can get casual root off the 19 year old.

And also remember that after 2 months you are allowed to hook back up with ex like nothing ever happened, and with no responsibility to reveal previous mistakes. Its like an unspoken universal rule.

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Originally posted by Trancer85 This could be a lose win situation if you like the 19 year old and she lieks you back.

30 - 19 ?

i dont see a future lasting more than 6 months in that.

to be honest i dont feel any different being 30 to what i did when i was 25. age has kinda failed to have a lot of importance to me. im always told i dont look my age. people are usually shocked when i tell them.

the 19 year old is young and seems it to me. tonight was a fling. i wouldnt seriously consider gettng seriously involved to be honest.

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Originally posted by malek DUDE JUST ERASE THE THREAD AND GO TO BED!!!

if it offends you or you dont wanna read it then fck off.
im just chatting to people with a real life situation here.

FFS. get a life.

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Originally posted by Mod1 if it offends you or you dont wanna read it then fck off. im just chatting to people with a real life situation here. FFS. get a life.

it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex?

and you're telling HIM to get a life???

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex? and you're telling HIM to get a life???

at least he had sex, which is something 90% of this board it seems havent...........ever

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Originally posted by politicsofdancin well being that you are 30 if you are telling the truth, then maybe you can talk to her in a "mature" way instead of being a jerk ass and cheating on her. thats my 2 centavos! THE END!

A bit testy, are we?

I agree, cheating isn't the way to go (who in their right mind would ever appreciate being cheated on) but for the sake of telling her or not, I say not to.

If you know that the relationship is over and that there is no hope for the two of you, then just end it. Telling her that you cheated is only going to cause more frustration and possibly emotional scares for her. It's better off that she doesn't know. You need to end it and LEAVE IT THAT WAY. Start a relationship with this 19 year old if you prefer but learn from your mistakes, if you can, and respect the fact that you have a girlfriend before you go pulling the snake out it's cage.

xoxoxo


~Natalie~

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex? and you're telling HIM to get a life???

He's 30, who just nailed a 19yo, thats life enough for me.

Nothing wrong with that.

Your not in any serious relationship, and if your a dj? you should get a chance to find a proper relationship, not being rude, but maybe with someone closer to your age. Ive done it be4, and i look back on it now and couldnt give a toss. You only live once. But if u just shagged her, i would leave it at that for the night, incase you want to think things through.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf it's 3am there WTF are you doing posting on a messageboard after sex? and you're telling HIM to get a life???

girl has gone home cos she has work in the morning.
im off work all week. ive sobered up and am not tired.

I have a life. (all be a complex one at the moment)
Do you?

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Originally posted by Mod1 30 - 19 ? i dont see a future lasting more than 6 months in that. to be honest i dont feel any different being 30 to what i did when i was 25. age has kinda failed to have a lot of importance to me. im always told i dont look my age. people are usually shocked when i tell them. the 19 year old is young and seems it to me. tonight was a fling. i wouldnt seriously consider gettng seriously involved to be honest.

the point of a relationship is the commitment, or something like that.......coming from me, a man that dislikes commitment

at least she was legal.

Mate, in order to have a proper good life, we need balance. One balance we need is "hormones and neurones". If you use neurones too much, you'll always hurt others, and possibly yourself (assuming you're single in this situation). If you let yourself be driven by your hormones, you'll always hurt others, and possibly yourself aswell.

Don't use "testosterone" as an excuse. It was a selfish and thoughtless act. It's done now though, try to use your neurones a bit this time. Why did you cheat? Is your relationship really going well? Or are you well? Then, after you think about this, YOU decide what to do.

At least, that's how I see things.

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Originally posted by Lira Don't use "testosterone" as an excuse.

i wasnt.

the relationship is stale. i dont see her often enough.
the offer was there elsewhere.

nobodys hurt, unless i tell her then act like a cock about it. which im not going to. im not a heartless bastard.

too many 'holier than thou' types kicking around on here.

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Originally posted by Mod1 i wasnt. the relationship is stale. i dont see her often enough. the offer was there elsewhere. nobodys hurt, unless i tell her then act like a cock about it. which im not going to. im not a heartless bastard. too many 'holier than thou' types kicking around on here.

Oi, oi, oi!

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Originally posted by Mod1 well. testosterone. makes you wanna fight or fuck. i know what id rather do.

Easy now, I'm not judging you: this is the only reason why I said not to use testosterone as an excuse.

If nobody's hurt (nor will get), than that's even better that you knew how to handle the situation.

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Originally posted by Mod1 too many 'holier than thou' types kicking around on here.

werd! dont worry too much abt it...what she doesn't know won't hurt her but IMO if as you said the relationship wasn't working anyway, then its time you broke it off with the 23 yr. old

dude i was serious, get some sleep and tomorow morning think things thru...


the delete post part is because you'll find no good advices here (except mine )

hehehe.

this is why i stay clear of relationships, so if i sleep with 3 different women in the same week, i'm guilt free.

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Originally posted by Jessica.S im not your typical online female

[nerdy voice]
ahhhh!

females!!!

Retreat to the bridge!
[/nerdy voice]



oooooh Cayman islands.... beautiful place. Wanna switch homes for awhile?

Collingwood has lots of.... old... grouchy... conservatives.

as long as theres stuff to do there sure!

CHOOSE TEH 19 YEAR OLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!11


i mean what better way to start off a mid life crisis?

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Originally posted by Matt oooooh Cayman islands.... beautiful place. Wanna switch homes for awhile?

don't you live in cottage country?

That a boy, cheating is the best!!!

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Originally posted by Jessica.S as long as theres stuff to do there sure!

ummm... that's the catch. There ISN'T.

Well... I guess you could go snowboarding when there's snow... or you could... light ants on fire.... umm... yeah.

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