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Re: Why Does It Hurt So Bad???
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| Originally posted by TyBy7996 OK,why are girls so mean? I like this girl, she has a boyfriend,so why do I have to like her? I don't understand, I need advices PLEASE , what would you do if you fell for someone that had a boyfriend? the worse thing is, her boyfriend is out of town and i have the chance to try something with her now that he is gone, but i saw her once with her friends and she almost ran over me,I ran after her car, all because i like this chik. I just can't stop thinking about her,I went to Extravaganza's house tonight and she was there, as soon as I stepped in the door, she left because she saw me, Im sorry I know people don't think it hurts because I am a guy, but it does, I want to forget about her, but why can't I? Fuck, what is wrong with everything?, dont even think I ever felt like this before. I just want to know if anyone has ever felt like this before and what did you do? thanks tyby |
Re: Why Does It Hurt So Bad???
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| Originally posted by TyBy7996 OK,why are girls so mean? I like this girl, she has a boyfriend,so why do I have to like her? I don't understand, I need advices PLEASE , what would you do if you fell for someone that had a boyfriend? the worse thing is, her boyfriend is out of town and i have the chance to try something with her now that he is gone, but i saw her once with her friends and she almost ran over me,I ran after her car, all because i like this chik. I just can't stop thinking about her,I went to Extravaganza's house tonight and she was there, as soon as I stepped in the door, she left because she saw me, Im sorry I know people don't think it hurts because I am a guy, but it does, I want to forget about her, but why can't I? Fuck, what is wrong with everything?, dont even think I ever felt like this before. I just want to know if anyone has ever felt like this before and what did you do? thanks tyby |
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| Originally posted by x-dream And she did not choose me.... |
Well, I just asked my girlfriend about this 
First of all - in response to penguin's woes - I was "strictly friends" with my girl for over a year before we actually started dating. And I'll just say that it was worth it - I know her very well now, and I'd say that we're both better off because of it. So just hang in there, man, these things will come in time. And it'll be worth the wait. Because strong relationships only come through lots of effort.
And to TyBy - either get over it or face her and talk to her about it. And DON'T think that you can get her to hit the sack with you just by following her around and HOPING that she gets the point sooner or later. Either she'll call the cops or her BF will come cut off your balls while you sleep. Or both. So bone up, man, and either tell her or leave her alone.
But that's just my $0.02.
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| Originally posted by Eugene her loss. |
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| Originally posted by Trypsin Well, I just asked my girlfriend about this First of all - in response to penguin's woes - I was "strictly friends" with my girl for over a year before we actually started dating. And I'll just say that it was worth it - I know her very well now, and I'd say that we're both better off because of it. So just hang in there, man, these things will come in time. And it'll be worth the wait. Because strong relationships only come through lots of effort. And to TyBy - either get over it or face her and talk to her about it. And DON'T think that you can get her to hit the sack with you just by following her around and HOPING that she gets the point sooner or later. Either she'll call the cops or her BF will come cut off your balls while you sleep. Or both. So bone up, man, and either tell her or leave her alone. But that's just my $0.02. |
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| Originally posted by Lynx but don't get yourself caught up in all that shizit because there's so much more to life than that. live it up man. |
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| Originally posted by InsomnEac say: "im sorry for acting like a weirdo." "im sorry for stalking you." "im sorry for making you uncomfortable and scared." "im sorry for making this issue viewable to the whole world." "i will stop this nonsense immediately." and then, dont say anything else...find a new girl that likes you. if you truely care for her that much, then respect her wishes and leave her and abt alone. (easier said than done, but its necessary) ps ur dream grl: wasn't there some other dude from the net harrassing you before, or is this the same one? hmmmm. pps imilk: whats bertad foser? ive been wondering what the hell that meant...heheh...explain.  |
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| Originally posted by hypronix Don't speak I know just what U're saying So please stop explaining Don't tell me cause it hurts! YBEE, maybe there are exceptions, right? |
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| Originally posted by YELLOWBEE hey,, well I dont really know in what situation you are at this point. but It is so funny becaus eme and my boyfriend would always make fun of each other, and try to hook each other up with some other people, even when he lost his virginity to his first girlfriend, and i did to my first boyfriend, we told each other, then out of the blue we fell in love, isnt that funny? So, you never know whats going to happen....cause i never thaught that i woudl go out wiht him, so there are exceptions... cyaaaaaa Ybeeeee |
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man the fuck with her...shes not feeling ur vibe..The most important part about playing thye game is knowing when to quit..here ill give u anexample...this girl i wanted was a very close friend but from what i heard she was intrested in me too...so i went to bar with her only to realize she was meeting another guy there...so she introduces me to him and i act like i would to any other person...acted nice..but deep inside i was crying..i mean my first date with this broad just me and her she goes and meets up with another guy...luckily a few of my boyz where at the bar and walkedby as i was talking to this dude....so i decided fuck this broad and ill go chill with my boys get hammered and drink my problems away....so anyways after i consume my alchol i start having a better time then obviously she was having....i could see her at the table the whole night with that guy him trying to work on her and her staring at me with my boys knowing she fucked up....so she finally escaped him and came up to me near the end of the night and asked me if i wanted to come with her somewhere alone....I knew what that meant and i said "Nah you better go home you got work tommorrow. Im going to another bar in a few minutes with my friends." and i left her there....It was THE SMARTEST thing i ever did....the girl was crazed about me afterwards...u got to know when to fight temptaion bro....honestly
hehe, GOOD CHOICE vivid boy!
On a side note the way you talk about girls is pretty rude overall.
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i dont mean to....honestly girls have caused alot of pain in my life...every painful experience i ever had was caused by girls except for one....i love my gf to death....and tempestrips little sets always makes her animalistic if u know what im saying..i have alot of respect for women...and they have tons of respect for me...i uess its my use of language that fools ppl
people are mean
yeah please dont judge all girls by the ones that f*cked you over. im a girl and im not mean...
and guys are just as mean--i got my heart smashed into a thousand little pieces by a guy not too long ago but i know all guys arent as cold and evil as he is.
i'm glad to hear that you haven't branded all guys as evil bluegirl. a lot of girls have unfortunately. gives the good guys a bad rep and a harder time. hehe. but it's all good because good guys win in the end.
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| Originally posted by torontotrance See tta always viewed this as life. Life is never easy. Hey what has happened to you has happened to almost 99.9% of guys at one time and you know what, either get an available girl or wait till she dumps her boyfriend. I would do the first example but what the hell do i know about relationships. |
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| Originally posted by Echo of Silence lmao... Andy, you'll never change! |
Damn- you are the man, vivid. My ass would have been all over her by the end of the night, haha.
EDIT 6 pages, 3 years and how can we forget....
PICS OR STFU!
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| Originally posted by Iyrlk to TyBy7996: you are feeling feelings that you will not have often. what you feel is great. however it is not love. love happens when two ppl build it. life isnt the hollywood type "love in first sight". your feelings towards her is most likely true. however no matter how much you crave, need, want, lust after her, without her interest in you you'll need to start slowly forget her. ive had feelings towards a girl but it passed away after a long while. listen to songs that make you feel better, remind you of her, remind you of your passion. instead of fueling your passion it will make your let go easier. when you later meet someone who you will fall in love with, and she too, you will realize how important a relationship is once you commit yourself and finally realize how important it is to recognize and realize things when you put yourself in her or her bf's position. (p.s. treat her how you would like to be treated. unless you are a machosist or a necrophiliac i doubt that will get you in the wrong direction) stalking is not the way.. making her feel as if your stalking her is not the way. that will lead you into your own fall. i know many ppl who wouldnt mind laying their hands on stalkers. its not a pretty idea. its not worth it. i know its hard, your feelings towards her very strong. but unless you and her can build a relationship nothing will happen. you blew away your chance the moment she felt you stalking her. take ppl's advice and keep yourself busy with other things even if you cant help thinking about her. to other ppl: ppl who suggested him go for it, her bf's out of town, you might be able to treat her better, please shut the fuck up and be more considerate. do you have any clue what you are saying? how would you like to have your bf/gf getting hit on while you are away for a while? dont you ppl know how much a relationship means to a couple? if you had a shitty relationship its YOUR fault. not everyone is like you. if she decides her bf is someone she shouldnt be with, let her decide then give her time to recover from that relationship. DONT start hitting on her during her relationship with her bf. i feel strong about this because i have a girl that i care so much about and know what it would feel like. i'd rather torture ppl who are irresponsible and think those thoughts than TyBy7996. it is evident TyBy7996 doesnt know how to effectively learn how to build a relationship with someone he's infatuated with. that needs to be changed. not fueled. /end rant and good for you two ur dream grl and your bf. im glad that some ppl are having mature relationships. i understand how you two feel about this situation. my condolences. |
This should go in the Drama Thread.
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| Originally posted by Iyrlk to TyBy7996: you are feeling feelings that you will not have often. what you feel is great. however it is not love. love happens when two ppl build it. life isnt the hollywood type "love in first sight". your feelings towards her is most likely true. however no matter how much you crave, need, want, lust after her, without her interest in you you'll need to start slowly forget her. ive had feelings towards a girl but it passed away after a long while. listen to songs that make you feel better, remind you of her, remind you of your passion. instead of fueling your passion it will make your let go easier. when you later meet someone who you will fall in love with, and she too, you will realize how important a relationship is once you commit yourself and finally realize how important it is to recognize and realize things when you put yourself in her or her bf's position. (p.s. treat her how you would like to be treated. unless you are a machosist or a necrophiliac i doubt that will get you in the wrong direction) stalking is not the way.. making her feel as if your stalking her is not the way. that will lead you into your own fall. i know many ppl who wouldnt mind laying their hands on stalkers. its not a pretty idea. its not worth it. i know its hard, your feelings towards her very strong. but unless you and her can build a relationship nothing will happen. you blew away your chance the moment she felt you stalking her. take ppl's advice and keep yourself busy with other things even if you cant help thinking about her. to other ppl: ppl who suggested him go for it, her bf's out of town, you might be able to treat her better, please shut the fuck up and be more considerate. do you have any clue what you are saying? how would you like to have your bf/gf getting hit on while you are away for a while? dont you ppl know how much a relationship means to a couple? if you had a shitty relationship its YOUR fault. not everyone is like you. if she decides her bf is someone she shouldnt be with, let her decide then give her time to recover from that relationship. DONT start hitting on her during her relationship with her bf. i feel strong about this because i have a girl that i care so much about and know what it would feel like. i'd rather torture ppl who are irresponsible and think those thoughts than TyBy7996. it is evident TyBy7996 doesnt know how to effectively learn how to build a relationship with someone he's infatuated with. that needs to be changed. not fueled. /end rant and good for you two ur dream grl and your bf. im glad that some ppl are having mature relationships. i understand how you two feel about this situation. my condolences. |
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| Originally posted by Massive84 you know that this topic is 3 years old.. |
I wonder if tyby ever hit it....
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| Originally posted by Iyrlk someone just told me.. didnt notice.. why is in on top of cor anyway? |
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