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Posted by Massive84 on Nov-22-2004 20:52:

stay single and it will never happen.


Posted by e*motion on Nov-22-2004 20:53:

shes sounds like a headcase.. dont even bother.
If shes avoiding you, and your finding those kinds of text messages on her phone, trust me, shes a trick.
ditch'er.


Posted by TweeK on Nov-22-2004 20:56:

^^Wow thats some good shiet

*takes notes*

I laugh at times good letter though


Posted by speedracer_mec on Nov-22-2004 20:57:

BTW when she dumped me online and logged off....I called her..she was in shambles as well....I struck guilt in her by saying its sickening to drag this for a whole week then dump me. We agreed to meet in 1hr to talk one last time. SHOULD I EVEN BOTHER TO READ THIS SHIT I DRAFTED UP in 2 days.....??? LONG SHOT?


MAN i knew this girl for 8yrs.....we dated for these 2months 24 7....we live in a small town of 40,000 people you know.


Posted by SID133 on Nov-22-2004 20:59:

quote:
Originally posted by speedracer_mec
We agreed to meet in 1hr to talk one last time.


DONT FUCKING SHOW UP!!! that'll teach her


Posted by TweeK on Nov-22-2004 21:00:

quote:
Originally posted by speedracer_mec
BTW when she dumped me online and logged off....I called her..she was in shambles as well....I struck guilt in her by saying its sickening to drag this for a whole week then dump me. We agreed to meet in 1hr to talk one last time. SHOULD I EVEN BOTHER TO READ THIS SHIT I DRAFTED UP in 2 days.....??? LONG SHOT?


MAN i knew this girl for 8yrs.....we dated for these 2months 24 7....we live in a small town of 40,000 people you know.



No no read her the letter man.......


Posted by speedracer_mec on Nov-22-2004 21:00:

I FEEEL LIKE SHIT MAN...


SHE NEEDS TO FEEL LIKE SHIT TOO....I think Im reading it.


Posted by PhloTron on Nov-22-2004 21:00:

You got dumped on IM....

...bwahaha...that's pathetic...

sorry bro



Posted by UWM on Nov-22-2004 21:02:

If you actually do show up, which you shouldn't, the only thing that will make it worthwhile is if you can get off a solid cock-slap to her face.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-22-2004 21:04:

quote:
Originally posted by ShadoWolf
I laughed out loud after reading that!


+1


Posted by speedracer_mec on Nov-22-2004 21:04:

gosh im a fuckin mess...2breakups in one year. One bitch gives me an eternal gift...then this girl is neglectful to a truly nice guy that I was towards her...and doesn't forgive me for one mistake I made.
Maybe she was hiding from the fact that the txtmsg was right...she was waiting for a small mistake..

Only thing Im thinking of right now at this point is a NOOSE


Posted by Ondrayce on Nov-22-2004 21:08:

If you're meeting her, don't read the letter. It won't make any difference. Just see if she can level with you.


Posted by speedracer_mec on Nov-22-2004 21:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Ondrayce
If you're meeting her, don't read the letter. It won't make any difference. Just see if she can level with you.


level?

explain pls


Posted by D Dubya on Nov-22-2004 21:09:

don't read her that letter. That one guy is right, it makes you sound a little too attached. the thing is, if you want to make her feel guilty do it but don't overdo it. Instead of saying "i was going to take you to spongebob and eat pie" say something like "i'm tired of going out of my way for you and you fucking me over". Don't tell her the things you were going to do for her just let her know shes acting like a bitch.

Don't expect to get anywhere with her now. I am not being an asshole, that is just the truth of the matter. You can either break this off by keeping your dignity and telling her shes a bitch or you can be chumped and beg her back.

And the whole story about the soldier is overkill. if you are going to read her the letter omit that. This is the best advice i can give you.


Posted by Vlad on Nov-22-2004 21:09:

oh god, dont be an idiot.

Some people have it worse than you. *cough*me*cough*

Just go find someone else, preferably a hot and easy whore, fuck her senseless, and you will be A-Ok.


Posted by bobba lou on Nov-22-2004 21:10:

Dont go, salvage whatever dignity you have left, or if ya want go hand her your other testicle.


Posted by xKaoSx on Nov-22-2004 21:13:

Hold her tightly and look her in the eyes and say

"Baby- I want to do you in da butt"


Seriously though- Do yourself a favor walk away and dont talk to her. Drama Queens like that will come frothing back in no time and you'll either not want her back by then or you will and she'll realize.

Right now you're lookin kinda pathetic. Sorry.
When you look at it from outside the box you realize how
lame the whole situation is and wonder wtf you're thinking.

(Not trying to be mean- just the truth)

I've been there too - no worries :P


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-22-2004 21:14:

That really was a very nice letter, but as UWM said, it's sort of unfair for you to compare yourself with a soldier whose pregnant wife was shot in the head.

The value on a relationship isn't necessarily quntified by time, alone. It's whatever value has been placed on the time you two had together - 2 months may not seem very long to a lot of people, but remember, there are marriages out there where, even after 30 years together, the people still don't really love one another. It's about appreciating the time spent together for what it was - it may have been very sweet, but it's important to accept when it's truly over. Ask yourself, did you really love her? Or were you more in love with the idea of her? What about just the idea of being loved? These seem to be the most common points of error that work themselves out towards the inevitable end of any relationship, as most people are mistaken at the time who or what they've truly invested their feelings in (myself included).

I'm sorry you got dumped, and I'm sorry she didn't appreciate you, but, in retropsect, was she truly worth the investment if she didn't feel the same way? You may have at one time thought so, and you still might, but accept the truth when it comes and takes a big shit on your face - to ignore it would be to go through life...shitfaced.

Then again, that's probably exactly what you need right now. Go crawl into a bottle of liquor somewhere, and don't send the letter to the undeserving!


Posted by Ondrayce on Nov-22-2004 21:14:

quote:
Originally posted by speedracer_mec
level?

explain pls


Maybe she has a fairly good reason for dumping you. Maybe you turned into something else during these last two months other than what attracted her to you when you were just friends. And maybe a drawn out, heartfelt(I'll give you), though sappy love letter will dig you into a deeper hole.


Posted by Rodrico on Nov-22-2004 21:16:

This is Bush's fault Speedracer, remember that.


Posted by UWM on Nov-22-2004 21:16:

Find out her credit / debit card number and order some hookers.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-22-2004 21:17:

Ok, those last two posts were actually pretty funny.


Posted by speedracer_mec on Nov-22-2004 21:18:

I dont get it....Her other Bf's were fat and ugly...SHe said I was the sexiest dude with a nicest ass she dated.....I was extremely nice...

I bought her a vase of flowers and I made her dinner a few times..She even cooked for me as well...SIGH..** life sux


Posted by UWM on Nov-22-2004 21:19:

Maybe she wanted dick. You said you'd slept together but not slept together.


Posted by sensorium on Nov-22-2004 21:19:

quote:
Originally posted by speedracer_mec
I dont get it....Her other Bf's were fat and ugly...SHe said I was the sexiest dude with a nicest ass she dated.....I was extremely nice...

I bought her a vase of flowers and I made her dinner a few times..She even cooked for me as well...SIGH..** life sux


Seems like she's hiding something.


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