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Date get awkward or annoying?

Tell her to pull your finger.

Problem solved.

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Originally posted by Cuzo Date get awkward or annoying? Tell her to pull your finger. Problem solved.

I'd do it, but that's just me...




I'm twisted

ok i didn't read the whole thread...but in response to the first post...


fuck that bitch...that shit would piss me off. i'll be damned if my generosity is taking advantage of like that...fuck if i'm paying for your gas and shit...

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Originally posted by Cuzo Date get awkward or annoying? Tell her to pull your finger. Problem solved.

id hope youd be able to back that up if she did.

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Originally posted by DJ_Elyot I've never paid for one thing for my GF... I mean, I'll get her a birthday present or something, but she can pay for her own drinks and her own tickets. We've been together for 1.5 years. There is absolutely no reason you should be paying for other people unless they're planning on paying for you at some time as well.

I'm with Malek here...

I mean, unless you're like 15 yrs old and don't have a job, there's no excuse for that. Don't expect that rule of thumb to work when u get older, buddy.

I am in NO WAY a golddigger at all. In fact, the few times people offer to buy me anything or pay my way, I end up fighting them on the matter, even if I have no income. That's just the way I was brought up- there was always a fight for the bill when families or friends went out together, LOL! I have no problem paying for things for my boyfriend, and I am lucky enough to have found one (finally) who wants to pay for me when he can. It's a great feeling.

That's not cool at all.

Women aren't the only ones to do this. I am willing to go splits on stuff, and have it completely fair, but one guy I dated, I ended up paying for everything. That totally sucked because I was becoming super poor, and he was enjoying the benefits of it.

I think relationships need to be even, because once they aren't, one or the other is going to become resentful, and therefore cause issues in the relationship.

If you think someone is using you, for any reason or purpose, ditch them. You do not deserve to be leeched off of. If they cannot appreciate you for who you are, without the perks, then you are in a meaningless relationship, and you will never be happy.

so you basically fucked the woman for $15 and still complaining?
fuck man! get a life

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Originally posted by Espresso so you basically fucked the woman for $15 and still complaining? fuck man! get a life

who said that?

Anyways, its the personality that im complaining about. Actually its more the way society allows people to think in this manner that i'm complaining about.

i'm sensing that noone got any, except for the gas pump.

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Originally posted by Sly_Guy that's pretty cheap. What intersection did you pick her up at again? [I'm sorry, that one was uncalled for]

No it wasnt dood - VERY relevant

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Originally posted by Jayx1 who said that? Anyways, its the personality that im complaining about. Actually its more the way society allows people to think in this manner that i'm complaining about.

i understand what you are saying about her, and c'mon you knew how she's going to be acting (not hard to guess, and you're not dumb), yet decided to see her and went along the whole night, didn't complain about her requests, and whatever happened btwn 3-5 a.m (which you are cleverly avoiding/censoring) and it's behind you.history.done.
what remians a mystery is your motivation to go out on a date with a person you already knew wants to milk you (my guess :sex), and now you post the story and want feedback? if you got laid, then you're a cheap bastarrrrd:2 hours sex for $15, if not then why the heck fall into this thing in the first place?(given your age/experince/maturity).

+100 If you go after this girl after this you are a TOOL

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Originally posted by Miss Julia Ok, this chic was 2 and 1/2 hours late in meeting you guys up. Not only that, but she made you guys pick her up, pay for her food & drinks, and she f*cked you on the first date. That shows no respect towards herself, or you, or your friends. Don't bother talking to a chic like that again. You could do so much better. That's my feedback.

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Originally posted by avikonen +100 If you go after this girl after this you are a TOOL

I prefer the 24 VOLT! (if ya knwo what I mean!!)

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Originally posted by dallastar I prefer the 24 VOLT! (if ya knwo what I mean!!)

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Originally posted by Espresso i understand what you are saying about her, and c'mon you knew how she's going to be acting (not hard to guess, and you're not dumb), yet decided to see her and went along the whole night, didn't complain about her requests, and whatever happened btwn 3-5 a.m (which you are cleverly avoiding/censoring) and it's behind you.history.done. what remians a mystery is your motivation to go out on a date with a person you already knew wants to milk you (my guess :sex), and now you post the story and want feedback? if you got laid, then you're a cheap bastarrrrd:2 hours sex for $15, if not then why the heck fall into this thing in the first place?(given your age/experince/maturity).

I decided to give her a chance anyways seeing as the situation would not have been date oriented anyways. Sadly she came through as a gold digger with flying colours.

So not being suckered makes me cheap?

I feel sorry for you.

PS: its amazing what people assume happened in those 2 hours.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 PS: its amazing what people assume happened in those 2 hours.

Obv u shouldn't care what ppl assume -
from these forums, i don't think u do

wow that story is unbelievable!!! That Cougar should realise what year we are living IN!!!

Don't get me wrong, it's really nice when a guy shows he wants to treat you for the night. But honestly..it's something that when it is offered is very cool, bt shouldn't be expected like that...

who does she think she is......

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Originally posted by TheVrk

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Originally posted by Jayx1 I decided to give her a chance anyways seeing as the situation would not have been date oriented anyways. Sadly she came through as a gold digger with flying colours. So not being suckered makes me cheap? I feel sorry for you. PS: its amazing what people assume happened in those 2 hours.

jay, plz don't play your shitty tricks on me,thanks!.
no one assumed anything, i asked you directly and you just don't have the guts to admit you did something stupid/silly and are looking for sympathy or for help to justify it.you got what you already knew was coming, now if you wanna play stupid go ahead.
that's all.

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Originally posted by Espresso so you basically fucked the woman for $15 and still complaining? fuck man! get a life

well its still less expensive than the hookers he gets usually



















ooooo that was low

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Originally posted by Cuzo Date get awkward or annoying? Tell her to pull your finger. Problem solved.

Hahaha that and laughing at her puts the icing on the cake. A bitch like that never deserves good treatment man

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PS: its amazing what people assume happened in those 2 hours.

well you said something like " me being true gentleman i'm not gonna say what happened in those 2 hours" so normally everybody will assume that u 2 had some hot, steamy, backseat sex, right???

cause if you knew that she was milking you and you were talking for 2 hours you would say it, not leave it to out imagination to figure it out what actually happened.

my 2 cents about that situation :

it was your first date, so of course you should pay for dinner and drinks, it's not gold digging its just mating ritual, woman love gentleman they wanna feel safe and secure and im pretty sure they'll not go for "lets split bills on a first date" kinda guy. now im not saying "we gots to pay everything", but you wanna present yourself in best light so......

BUT for that gas money situation hehehehe, hey IF she didnt have any money, fuck it i would pay for it even if she was golddigging, but i would laugh my ass off. and then she would never see me again.

but hey, thats just me.

i like the way that vividboy and espresso are thinking.

jayx1 how old are you???

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Originally posted by arek so did you get laid or what.

lol straight to the QUESTION


i agree with u all the way jaxy


btw, u got a pic of this chic?

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Originally posted by tatgirl I'm with Malek here... I mean, unless you're like 15 yrs old and don't have a job, there's no excuse for that. Don't expect that rule of thumb to work when u get older, buddy. I am in NO WAY a golddigger at all. In fact, the few times people offer to buy me anything or pay my way, I end up fighting them on the matter, even if I have no income. That's just the way I was brought up- there was always a fight for the bill when families or friends went out together, LOL! I have no problem paying for things for my boyfriend, and I am lucky enough to have found one (finally) who wants to pay for me when he can. It's a great feeling.

Well I mean, if she needs help paying for something, I'll chip in, and she'd do the same for me. It's a mutual thing... not me putting a net sum of money out for her or her putting a net sum of money out for me, and that's the way it should be. If we're going out for a night, we both bring some cash. If she pays for one, I'll pay for the next one.

Maybe, in revenge, you should send her a link to this thread. It would probably make her feel terrible to realize what she did.

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