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Originally posted by arek hehe, it's a trap!

I think this situation is fairly obvious. New girl and Old girl know each other. Old girl wants to see if you are really faithful to her, so she asks New girl to act like she likes you, and tries to convince you that you should break up with Old girl.

If you believe New girl's obvious trick, you'll end up with no one. If you see through this fault ridden plan then you succeed in keeping a healthy relationship with Old girl.

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Originally posted by starsearcher ...He? say I know what I want And I want it now I want you, cause I? Mr Vain...

Now I've got that song stuck in my head..!





PS. I do think its a trap as well.

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Originally posted by Callie5 Question for everyone reading this thread... Do you completely separate yourself from an ex or do you remain friends????

I've always found complete separation is best... i hate all my exes. I don't know why but i can't stand even looking at them after my "mourning" period is over.

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Originally posted by DJ Chrono I think this situation is fairly obvious. New girl and Old girl know each other. Old girl wants to see if you are really faithful to her, so she asks New girl to act like she likes you, and tries to convince you that you should break up with Old girl. If you believe New girl's obvious trick, you'll end up with no one. If you see through this fault ridden plan then you succeed in keeping a healthy relationship with Old girl.

For some strange reason I think that you are on to something and are perhaps even 100% correct in this case study.

Keep in mind the law of karma and remember--What goes around, comes around...ten folds...........Just ask Deepak Chopra!!!

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Originally posted by maxpain I can't say the truth because the new one has told me not to so if I did say the truth then that would possibly ruin any chances of ever going back to the old one

i can't believe you just said that.

you sound like you don't know what the hell you want. don't lie so that you can keep the possibilities of hooking back up with the one girl when this new relationship fizzles out like it inevitably will. fucking around with people's feelings does no one any good.

honesty's the best policy no matter what.

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Originally posted by nadezhda i can't believe you just said that. you sound like you don't know what the hell you want. don't lie so that you can keep the possibilities of hooking back up with the one girl when this new relationship fizzles out like it inevitably will. fucking around with people's feelings does no one any good. honesty's the best policy no matter what.

now that sounds exactly right

Think before you act upon something like this, you might regret it all and wish you have never even thought of breaking with your current girlfriend.

"Money can buy you everything until you found something no money can buy" -- weight what is important for you in a relationship besides comfort and beauty in a person. Sit down and write down all the values you want in a relationship and please THINK THINK THINK! Have some epiphanies in your life.

Being straight up wiht the person is all you really can do. Beating around the bush will only make things worse in the end. I personally don't like breaking up with a guy...nor am I good at it. I'm used to being the one being dumped which is sad but at the same time...I would rather not be the one hurting someone..b/c I know that feeling very well. Knowing I can cause that pain that I have once felt on someone ...I don't wish that pain on anyone.


Life's a bitch sometimes...one thing I have learned, no matter how bad your heart gets broken...time heals and life goes on......

burn the song fuck it by eamon and mail it to her

no offence but its silly to ask for advice on how to break up cuz it could only mean to things, firstly shes bugging you 24/7 in which case you shouldnt have a problem dumping her or you really have feelings for her in which case you should think twice before calling it of and if you really dont see a future just sit and talk with her and tell her it wont work out .. shel prolly appreciate it and make sure you delete her number from your cell phone cuz to avoid those drunken middle of the night phone calls


could maxpain be diabolic in disguise?

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Originally posted by raveed could maxpain be diabolic in disguise?

WHOA... talk about conspiracy theories.

Re: Best way to break up?

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Originally posted by maxpain If you are happy and have to break up with the first one then which is the best way to break it to them?

Listen, VERY simple:

Be open and JUST TELL HER

dude, trust me, a pipe bomb in the mail is the way to break her heart.

you need to ask some strangers on this board how should you break up with a girl????

seriously buddy (and no offense and no flaming intended), be a man and do it one way or another cause i doubt it that you'll actually take anybody's suggestion !

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Originally posted by maxpain and to be honest I would like to keep both and do them on different days

so, what's the problem now? keep them both... don't tell the old one about the new one and keep on hanging out with her on certain days, and then get the new one to see you on all the other days.

UNLESS it's not a trap (by the two of them), and the old one gets to find out about a new one, just be a man and tell her that you love more than 1 girl (what's the word again, polyamoric?) and that you've got certain needs which she didn't fullfil and the new one did (new one likes to play x-box or some shit ) and see how she reacts to that. if she flips out, well, too bad, she didn't understand your needs and she's gotta go. if she doesn't and she accepts it, well, then my friend, then you're pimping both of them!

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Originally posted by Miss Julia To maxpain: Every girl on here has told you to be honest with her. So just take our advice. You will see that things will be easier for both you & your ex, if you are just blunt & honest.

Taking an advice about women from a woman? That never led to anything good... (especially with that honesty issue, since 99% of them can't handle the truth!).

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Originally posted by malek how about you post naked pics of both chicks and then we'll be able to help ya out with proper advices.

I think this is the best idea so far... +1



but then again, seriously, you don't look like you know what you want, and until you clear that up with yourself you won't get anywhere with either one. If you still can't figure shit out, ask d1abolic for help.

Well the issue here was never if I was going to break it up but when and how? But the bitch made my decision easy because she is such a rude bitch so fuck her and ever going back and keeping that option open. The more I looked at things the more I realized that this was heading no where and some additude adjustments need to be made which will not because you can't change the stripes on a Zebra or whatever.

I was only happy with things because I am usually pretty happy anyways and have a positive out look on life and the only reason I wanted to keep the option of getting back together open was in case of getting screwed over in the future as opposed to not knowing what I want. Usually I am pretty loyal to those who are loyal to me but it's hard to meet loyal people now at days so I always try to have back up plans just in case.

PS I hope the old chick sees me with the new chick because the new one is way hotter

Grass is always greener on the other side....
Been there done that, regretted it so much, were lucky enough to be back. Very happy now...
Don't throw away what's good.
The "other" relationship may be good just because you're with someone else. I mean every relationship has it's ups and downs. Those are the things that show that the relationship's still there, the love, the caring, the feeling, the passion.

Don't be a foot, stay with your girl.
You'll be tempted by others many times, the trick is to learn to know, or not even learn just to know that what you already have is great and resist temptation!

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Originally posted by ~Delicious~ You'll be tempted by others many times, the trick is to learn to know, or not even learn just to know that what you already have is great and resist temptation!

which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music.

Hahahaha ohh man thats jks

Anyways best advise is to be honest..it will get you farther in the long run, b/c once you lie, it's hard to turn back man.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music.

yups I do have plans, damn it, you shold have told me the GHB will be present before I made plans man....

By the way I have been drugged by it not as much fun as one would think....

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Originally posted by E2EK1EL If a relationship is perfect, then you have a problem ... you need conflicts to understand each other better. No such thing as a perfect relationship, I once thought I was in one ...

I beg to differ John... because I'm in a perfect relationship
perfect doesnt mean no conflicts... it means a harmonious equilibrium

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Originally posted by newr I beg to differ John... because I'm in a perfect relationship perfect doesnt mean no conflicts... it means a harmonious equilibrium

You mean to say you guys never argue, disagree, spat????

somebody here said "resist temptation"?!

you are not being serious, are you? depriving yourself of all kinds of beautiful things/people on this planet just because you think you should resist the temptation? oh man...

�You just pick the right one to be in the foxhole with, and when you�re out of the foxhole you keep your dick in your pants.�

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Originally posted by malek how about you post naked pics of both chicks and then we'll be able to help ya out with proper advices.

replace chicks with boytoy's and i would say

shaaaaa~wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwing!!!!!!

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Originally posted by Callie5 Question for everyone reading this thread... Do you completely separate yourself from an ex or do you remain friends????

I try to remain friends - which Sometimes~ lasts? It's kind of detrimental (SP?) on ya (soul/temple of the body)- and sometimes maybe not - but u can try to "Stay" friends but sometimes it just fades anyways - (really why put yourself thru something you TRULY didn't want anymore?)

as for the question at hand:: best way to break up!??

First of all stupid THREAD! Hopefully you'll get

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Answer: �adult� like and I think to talk and discuss the matter rationally ~! Maturely!

I have MNAY stories of the WORST way to BREAK up � but I am not about to through my self and stories out there to TRY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





anyway ciao for now!

*SM : ) e y�all!

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Originally posted by arek �You just pick the right one to be in the foxhole with, and when you�re out of the foxhole you keep your dick in your pants.�

hehehe in good company

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