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Posted by t�bias on Feb-20-2005 23:17:

Where the body goes, the head follows.

Unless you are particularly mentally tough...

Posted by mto on Feb-20-2005 23:23:

Re: shag buddies

quote:
Originally posted by Billabong
I just agreed to be shag buddies with someone. Who has done this before, what were your experiences, reprecussions. Did it come back to bite you on the arse.

We both have no desire to get into a relationship, we are both single, and we are both friends, and have agreed to tell each other if things get to heated.

Stories please.

I've had a fuck-buddy few times. Its fun, 'till the bitch tells you she has a boyfriend and your have to jump from a 2nd floor to escape. Thank God for the tree that was close to the window.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Feb-20-2005 23:38:

quote:
Originally posted by PhloTron

LMAO

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis86
Yeah right...its cause j00 have a proffesional cock-blocking team with you all the time...

and yeah, this is true

Posted by Chris T. Dot on Feb-21-2005 02:30:

I've been offered twice to be a fuck friend. Once from a Polish gal and another time a spanish one. Too bad I'm like Orbax. Morals always come into question when you're horny.

Posted by t�bias on Feb-21-2005 08:01:

Only fuck friends with an ex-girlfriend = denial.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Feb-21-2005 08:05:

quote:
Originally posted by t�bias
Only fuck friends with an ex-girlfriend = denial.
exactly

i am the most fuked up i jhabe ebver neem pm TTA.

and all i have to say is that this man need sa vclue.

za clue
clue.......

this woman wants the dick, and he needs to find more than one p00n.

you know it.

i know it.

heknoqws i.t

bootya

Posted by CyberneticAngel on Feb-21-2005 08:13:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
exactly

i am the most fuked up i jhabe ebver neem pm TTA.

and all i have to say is that this man need sa vclue.

za clue

I'm s0ber...........

I tease

Posted by Clovis on Feb-21-2005 10:22:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
exactly

i am the most fuked up i jhabe ebver neem pm TTA.

and all i have to say is that this man need sa vclue.

za clue
clue.......

this woman wants the dick, and he needs to find more than one p00n.

you know it.

i know it.

heknoqws i.t

bootya

Best post ever.

Posted by Bernd_Gradish on Feb-21-2005 11:29:

quote:
Originally posted by stren
+1

one of you will probably start to feel something and the other won't. Can be messy

+1

I experienced that 2 months ago. Shagged with my co-worker. Damn she was hot as hell, but me idiot felt something afterwards. I wanted more, she didnt. Made me go nuts and angry.
Right now I am still trying to keep a friedship up.
Btw, she is a slut too. Fucking with someone else every weekend. Still I like her... HOW THE HELL CAN I DO THAT???

Posted by insecurity on Feb-21-2005 11:57:

Posted by insecurity on Feb-21-2005 12:12:

re: shag buddies

If you can honestly, without a doubt, 100% guarantee, that if you saw her walking down the street with some other guy or knew she was in the next room bumping uglies with someone else, that you wouldn't bat an eyelid, then go for it.

(Also ask yourself the same question if the roles were reversed) i.e. if she was 100% cool with seeing you with someone else, then by all means hit that shit.

But if you have any doubts, any at all, look elsewhere!

(otherwise I look forward to reading your 'what do I do/relationship thread' in a few months time)

Posted by Billabong on Feb-21-2005 14:28:

quote:
Originally posted by insecurity
re: shag buddies

If you can honestly, without a doubt, 100% guarantee, that if you saw her walking down the street with some other guy or knew she was in the next room bumping uglies with someone else, that you wouldn't bat an eyelid, then go for it.

(Also ask yourself the same question if the roles were reversed) i.e. if she was 100% cool with seeing you with someone else, then by all means hit that shit.

But if you have any doubts, any at all, look elsewhere!

I wouldnt honestly mind, its just an extension of the friendship in my eyes, i have no plans to get into a relationship any time soon, and would reject someone if they asked me, because i dont need to the whole hassel of getting to know someone.

(otherwise I look forward to reading your 'what do I do/relationship thread' in a few months time)

Posted by Mr. Pink on Feb-21-2005 19:52:

Posted by CyberneticAngel on Feb-21-2005 19:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink

stay away from tequila, kiddies

+1 lol

Posted by dallastar on Feb-21-2005 20:24:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
A number of years ago I was in a serious relationship & started a shag buddy relagtionship with my ex right before her. The reason is that we both knew how to fuck each others brains out good. It was going on for about a year on & off & then I found myself falling in love with her again while I was still in a relationship with my girlfriend who I loved also. So I had to cut it off with the ex again. She went a little nuts but things were ok. It was just as hard cutting it off with her as it was breaking up with her originally. Even though I had a girlfriend it hurt.

As of now im not in a shag buddy situation but more of a bj buddy situation. Since the past 4 months of me being single I have been occasionally partying with this skank im friends with. I originally met her a year & half ago & liked her. But then aft5er dating her a couple weeks I realized that she was the dirtiest slut ive ever met. So I told her we were just friends with benefits & everytime im single again we party alot. I wont stick my dick in her because of her dirtyness & i like dirty girls but she is way too dirty for me to fuck. So she likes giving head so I let her do it. A couple weeks ago she had a boyfriend who worked at a local club called Crobar. We went to another club called Sound Bar that night & were on our way up to Crobar to see her boyfriend. Well on the way there the skank blows me & swallows. Then we get to Crobar & not even 10 minutes later she was making out with her boyfriend. I thought the guy was cool & he hooked me up with free drinks so I felt very bad. But I was hammered, so thats my excuse.

In conclusion fuck buddies are great as long as theres an agreement before hand & no true feelings are involved.

this story is great! I am currently single and have been for a long freakin while, we are talkin' at least over 3 years and in that time I have slept with one dude named rob , and made out with two others ironically named Rob (I don't like Rob's anymore). I have remained really good friends with my ex boyfriend, whose name is Tom, we don't have sex anymore - havent' for at least 2 years! last time we did, it was his birthday and we dranks so many martini's at the rooftop hyatt bar - in Toronto and I got so fuc*ken' drunk that we came home and shagged and i passed out - to later be found in a pool of vomit. it was sickenin' I was so sick and I could have died, IF he never found me! anwyays I am fine - I bought the bed from him - since it was discusting and I cleaned it and all is well now -

but to get back on track with the topic at hand ~ I wouldn't recommened havin' a shag buddie - it always gets more involving as time passes (feelings, emotions & attachment) u know what i mean! ( I hope) I just think that the older we get and the more maturly we see life, the more things will become clearer.

basically stay AWAY from the dirties and stay true to your body, mind and soul!

good luckw ith you decisions and wear a condom!!!!!!!!

Posted by l�cid on Feb-21-2005 20:28:

quote:
Originally posted by Falcon-X
make sure you dont MAKE LOVE..... just FUCK and I'm really serious saying that, it's very important or things will become weird. And if you keep following this line you might have the best sex ever.

soooooooo damn true.

fuck-buddies are great, as long as you have 100% open communication and honesty. it can get weird if emotions get involved or one person wants to call it off because they met someone they want to be serious with, but as long as both people are straightforward about what they want then there should be no issue.

i've got my share of fuck-buddy stories, but the best is this...

5 years ago i met this guy and we were fuck-buddies for a few months. i sort of snubbed him since i was all boy-crazy and had a serious bf at the time, but we remained friends and talked all the time. he helped me through a lot of shitty situations and was always there for me.

to this day we are still best friends.

Posted by NiteMer on Feb-21-2005 20:36:

I tried the friends with benefits thing, and it's alright, but can get messy. It was a girl I had dated for a bit, but knew I couldn't be with. The only problem was that she didn't feel that way. She acted like she didn't care, but gave me the "I'm in love with you" eyes. I continued to be open and honest about the fact that we were just having fun and nothing would EVER be more than that between us. Eventually I decided to stop doing it, as I felt guilty about it. She got a boyfriend, whom she has broken up with, but we already discussed the situation and I will never hit it again. Worked out alright for me, but even when I was doing the right thing, I felt a little bit bad about the situation. So it really depends on each of your mindsets. If you think she can handle it, go for it!

Posted by UWM on Feb-21-2005 20:40:

There was this one girl I knew who was a straight up head-case but she was a real vixen in bed so pretty much every weekend night between 2 and 4 I could expect a call from her and we'd fuck each other senseless and then usually I'd split because I didn't want to deal with her crazy ass. She ended up really liking to me and going to my frat house and knocking on the door and shit looking for me, but this was after I had moved across the street to another house so my friends and I would be all shit-faced up on the balcony laughing at that crazy bitch crying and looking for me.

Posted by igottaknow on Feb-21-2005 20:44:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
...on the way there the skank blows me & swallows. Then we get to Crobar & not even 10 minutes later she was making out with her boyfriend.

too bad she swallowed, she could have treated her bf to a snowball

on topic: commence operation shag buddy

Posted by {b.s.e.} on Feb-21-2005 20:48:

UWM, you so craaazy.

Posted by UWM on Feb-21-2005 20:59:

Posted by Ory on Feb-21-2005 21:00:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
There was this one girl I knew who was a straight up head-case but she was a real vixen in bed so pretty much every weekend night between 2 and 4 I could expect a call from her and we'd fuck each other senseless and then usually I'd split because I didn't want to deal with her crazy ass. She ended up really liking to me and going to my frat house and knocking on the door and shit looking for me, but this was after I had moved across the street to another house so my friends and I would be all shit-faced up on the balcony laughing at that crazy bitch crying and looking for me.

You so cruel.

Posted by UWM on Feb-21-2005 21:11:

Yeah, and that's the nice version of the story.

Posted by NiteMer on Feb-21-2005 21:13:

Posted by fbgdavidson on Feb-21-2005 22:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Zombie0915
I had this kinda weird situation, I met the girl who I'm with a now a long time ago, I was her shag buddy while she was figthing with her real bf, they had a dramatic breakup and she stopped seeing me for a few months after that happened. I met another girl and we had some good times, but while we were fooling around she decided she wanted to keep me, I cared about her too but for reasons which I dont care to explain here I knew I couldnt stay with her. I met a different girl who was more interested in a real relationship, I thought I was too, so I broke up with my shagging friend to go out with this other girl for a while. Then the first girl entered the picture again, we were gonna go see PvD, but he got sick and cancelled the party so we had this whole night to ourselves, which we spent doing a very bad thing. I decided to get out of the relationship that I just started before it got too deep, then got together with the girl who I took to the party, which was the person I wanted the entire time, so I guess it all worked out, except for that one girl who got her hopes up after I dumped my 2nd fuck buddy for her, only to dump her shortly after so that I could get back with my 1st shagging friend, I probably made her really sad, which is kinda a shitty thing to do, but it had to happen.

Most confusing paragraph I have ever read!

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Maybe I am too draconian but I just can't get my head round the whole fuckbuddy concept although I do get the whole one night stand with someone I don't know concept (although don't partake myself). I just thought fuckbuddies were for people who were just a tad on the desparate side but it appears I am wrong. Nevermind

Am I right in reading that some of you have still fuck buddies while you are in relationships with other people???? Am I the only person that sees that as wrong?

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