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dude sounds like an asshole
Are you sure about her being your girlfriend? 
If she's that shy with you..........she's either VERY young...
...or she's just not comfortable with the idea of you being her boyfriend....
...........ORRRRRRRRRRR yer a stalker and yer just saying she's your 'girlfriend' so we can give you advice on how to be more stalkerish! 
either way- she sounds like she's not into it.
NEXT!
wear a smiley face masks until she over comes her shyness
btw, lucid you have way hot convos <3
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| Originally posted by l�cid him: omghi2u her: omg hi! him: sup? her: brb him: ok lol her: ok hi him: <3 her:  him:  her:  him: rofl her: OMG look her: link him: wtf!!!! him: lmao! her: gtg bye him: lataz |
idb, thats how you gotta do it with her
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| Originally posted by st3nc idb, thats how you gotta do it with her |
man your girlfriend sounds really boring, i suggest going for another girl, shes not worth the time and effort, even if shes hot. i remember i try to hook up with a hot girl and we had lot of things common, we flirted, stuff like that, but when it came down to it, she had a Crappy Personality. Might be the case with your girl wizniz. if more than anything she could be
A:not comfortable with you
B:not into you
C:inexperienced
D:she thinks your ugly
E:Boring
F:NOT CONFIDENT(like confident in herself with you)
G:Clueless as what to do now that she is with you
H:trying to figure out where the relationship is going to go
I:Testing you how much your willing to try to make things work[sacrifice basically] (This is fucking Frustrating, becuase sometimes women like to play games)
J:Got influence from her friends that you not worth it(especially when a women has second thoughts about you, her friends will could easily manipulate her, unless she really doesnt give a shit about what her friends think)
K:Too self-involved (does she have a job, extracirrucular activities, and school altogether, then she aint gonna have time for you, and when she does, shes gonna act a little wierd around you)
but also try some of the good stuff:
1.Talk, and talk lots (make sure its interesting though, otherwise she will forget what you say and stop listening)
2.Have Fun(Theme parks, arcades, walk in the parks, movies, take her to interesting places she might have never been before, a restuarant, find out what she likes, and try to have something in commmon, this makes a better connection between two people)
3.Be patient(if your goal is to make a long term relationship, be patient, as you will go through some hectic moments)
4.Make her Feel special(sometimes a girl will think you are not into her, and that may be becuase you don't show enough interest in her, and this can actually hurt a relationship)
5.Take it slow(going to fast will freak her out. Ever hear when a girl says i love you to a guy and the guy breaks up with her becuase he freaked out? Girls are the same way)
6.be flirtatious(GIRLS LOVE ATTENTION, AND THEY CAN NEVER GET ENOUGH OF IT. thats why some girls give guys the silent treatment, so the guy will, and i mean WILL, focus on her.)
7.Be Sweet (and when i mean sweet, i mean listen to her, look into her eyes when she is speaking, ACTUALLY pay attention to her, cause if you don't, she will ask you "OK, what did i just say?",)
8.Be spontaneous (because girls tend to be the most vunerable when off guard. Like give her a kiss on the cheek out of nowhere, still act like a boyfriend to her around HER friends, this can make her more proud to have you, and she'll brag to her friends, and she will appreciate you more, therefore more good things to happen.)
9.and lastly, don't take the relationship so damn seriously all the time.(if anything, a girl hates it when a guy is too serious all the time, be fun, show that your not boring.
And one more tip, MAKE HER THINK THAT YOU DONT NEED HER (girls will think your pathetic if you cant live without them. but this does not apply to married and/or engaged couples, or long term couples. (I say this becuase those relationships are really deep and things turn out different). if you show that you dont need her, she will more than likely freak out, and hold on to you, but be careful, sometimes this backfires and she becomes a jealous, insecure bitch!(Sorry Girls!)
i know how you feel wizniz, i went through the same shit your going through right now, hot girl, yet the relationship is stale, and what did I learn? I COULD HAVE HAD A BETTER GIRLFRIEND THAN HER!
but then again, you gotta have some faith and make it work too, if your willing to make it work that is. But remember DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON SOMEONE THAT WON'T WASTE THEIR TIME ON YOU!
If thats the case that is.
just rememeber what i said
(Damn What a long Post!)
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| Originally posted by wizniz me: jk im eating yogurt and drinking gatorade her: i like yogurt me: good for you |
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| Originally posted by Floorfiller "i've got something that kinda tastes like yogurt" |
ok jason
cmon ill fly you up here and you can whisper in my ear when im talking to her.
how much $$?
lawl
her: hey i just got back from weis!
what i'd say: neat-o! im into old ladies to!
but quickly jason whispers: it'd be "weis" of you to bend over 
that would be so cool
get out of my mom's house newb.
she might have a different side to her that only shows around people she's comfortable with.
i would just ask her why she acts so differently. put her on the spot. she might be one of those people who can act a certain way online (because it's easier behind a monitor) and then is just a total hermit in person...if that's the case, find another girlfriend.
if she can't carry a convo with her face to face that's a realy serious problem imo.
communication is key to a relationship.
what, you're both going to run to internet chat everytime there's a problem?
i agree with what slylee said, and also the p00per comments.
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| Originally posted by l�cid him: omghi2u her: omg hi! him: sup? her: brb him: ok lol her: ok hi him: <3 her: him: her: him: rofl her: OMG look her: link him: wtf!!!! him: lmao! her: gtg bye him: lataz |
Your great.
its going better...
though its like pulling teeth to talk to her, i gotta say im a damn good dentist.
and she might just become a regular.
pics lataz
fuck her... only solution
Maybe the way you talk to her is the issue sometimes. Your conversation online was pathetic. Maybe you should be less serious and see how things go from there.
you need to talk with her in person one on one first
Just tell her she is looking very beautifull today. And right after that u ask: wanna get naked?
i was in your situation this past year. they aren't comfortable with public things. if the bitch is trying to be cool in public, dump her ass. i hate those bitches that act like hot shit.
Holy fucking highschool drama..
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| Originally posted by ExOn Holy fucking highschool drama batman! |
haha
well we did lunch today
and everythings good
thanks for the suggestions of just having a convorsation... i figured the problem was something so obvious i looked past it. 
so we talked and it turns out shes a snes nerd and is into indie rock, etc...
we have a lot in common and im ashamed that i was too blind to converse. 
its going better and i wouldve kissed her but im sick. but the hug was a nice symoblic sign of how i felt.
*embarassed but vindicated*
laterz got a church party tonight gotta go buy battlefield 2 and then help the folks make screwdrivers
You're from one of those inbreed states in America? *watches Wrong Turn*
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