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Originally posted by Slylee

Arent you the master debater!

Why do women think all we guys care about are looks? There are plenty of other things we care about, although right now I can't think of any...

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Originally posted by igottaknow Why do women think all we guys care about looks? There are plenty of other things we care about, although right now I can't think of any...

i just watched ur avatar loop like 3 or 4 times.

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Originally posted by dinoXpress i just watched ur avatar loop like 3 or 4 times.

3-4 winks mean you're in!

Get your coat mate, you've pulled

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Originally posted by kr00t0n 3-4 winks mean you're in! Get your coat mate, you've pulled

to the millenium falcon!!!

we all kn0w guyz juz dont care ab0ut looks =] guys care ab0ut h0w good the ro0t is too?

If you ever use 0 as a replacement for o again, I will curb stomp you

Buying her jewelry is a plus... buy her this

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...glance&n=507846

Wahaha priceless!

give her a facial

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Originally posted by Sunsnail Buying her jewelry is a plus... buy her this http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...glance&n=507846

i've always wanted to know whats a charm?

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Originally posted by igottaknow give her a facial

Pearl necklace you mean!?

Could be five things:

1. Ugly duckling swan thing

2. Guilt from pre-marital sex and feeling like she is being used

3. Molestation or abuse as a child

4. Horrible self-confidence because of past relationships and media

5. She does this in all relationships she is in for attention. People will do the same behavior if they like the results, in this case more attention.

If you know any of her Ex's contact them and ask if she did the same with them. If you find out it is just you then maybe she thinks you are too good for her or she is too good for you. Anyway if it is just a thing with you and her, talk about it and clear it up. If it might be any of the other 4 reasons, she will need help to change.

^--- good advice

That made me think of one thing that you haven't mentioned. She could have stumbled across his pr0n collection. Girls get all weirded out if you *fap off to other women. I know its hard to believe but its true.

Here's a little trick that's always worked for me.

1. While she's sleeping, take a dump on her face.
2. Take a picture.
3. Show her the picture.

She'll quickly realize that in comparison to her face with poop on it, she's a beautiful woman.

Take her out to dinner, then poke.

4. Repeat.

Just give her enough attention.. Make her believe that even if she wouldn't be pretty you'd still like her.. We girls like that

reminds me of this verse from a song

She thinks I can't see the smile thats she's faking
And poses for pictures that aren't being taken
I loved you
Gray sweatpants
No makeup
So perfect

Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit My girl doesn't think she's pretty. Common source of concern for women, I know, but it does concern me as well. She honestly doesn't see it in herself. I want her to be happy and I want some advice from women (or men i guess) as to what can be done for a girl to make her feel pretty overall. Not minor things like saying you're beautiful casually and often, etc, I do that already. I'm wondering if there are/is anything that can be done to make this girl feel like she's a star. Yes, my C0Rwhore friends, she is a hotty, I'd just like her to know it. Any advice? oh yeah and - Things i wont do: 1. post pics 2. stfu 3. stick it in tha pooper 4. send tha lettar

maybe her kow self esteem comes from dating u. maybe u should pretty urself up a bit

Re: Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy maybe her kow self esteem comes from dating u. maybe u should pretty urself up a bit

I was gonna say something similar but held off. I knew Vivid would post FTW.

Buy her more clothes & a dildo.

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Originally posted by allcentury18 being past relationship advice? theres no way thats possible. i'll see a thread in here in due time about how your relationship went to shit and you don't know why. thread originator: you don't have to take my advice, i fully understand your situation though. the HARDEST part about all the things i tell you is not whether or not they are true. psychoanalysts are so good at stripping apart ficticious ideals that people hold on to during relationships. what you'll realize is that 3rd party views, although skued, are usually the more sensible ones. in this entire thread you took your g/f's defense and shut out most answers that, people just don't get it. or you dont know her like i do. if you have the ability to step outside your own reality and look at this analytically, do it. you can't sit there and say, "she thinks this... " but defend her in your own mind by saying "yeah she thinks this, but i know this..."

^ good advice ^

Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive?

he should use her insecurities to his advantage. (turn a negative into a positive).

yeah, butsekz is the true solution to your problem.

if you have the guts to stick it to her in teh pooper then... ok i don't know where i'm going with that one...

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Originally posted by Aquarian ^ good advice ^ Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive?

Uh...what girl wants to feel ugly? People have been pinpointing it, its largely an ugly duckling type syndrome. I guess if you're suggesting that I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't pretty thats a point to take into consideration, but I've dated women before who weren't particularly attractive by other's standards. So I don't think its an insecurity issue for her thinking the only reason I'm dating her is because she's hot. That's not it - or if you want me to be objective, "It is my opinion that looking at the situation objectively that this particular instance is not the root cause"

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