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Posted by shades_of_gray on Nov-11-2005 17:45:

quote:
Originally posted by wizniz
for those who want to read, plz do. for those who dont... just skip this.

me: hey ali

her: hello

me: question:

her: k

me: how do you feel about our relationship?

her: what do you mean

her: ?

me: when we were hanging out you seemed distant

her: im sorry, i dunno

her: i was just being weird last night

her: i think too much

me: well please tell me whats on your mind

her: i dont even know

me: you seemed uncomfortable when we were hanging out before andy came over

me: i like you a lot so i cant understand why

her: i just dont know what to say or do i guess

me: yea ive been feeling that for a while

me: you really shouldnt worry about it too much lol

me: if didnt like you... i wouldnt want to be with you, but i do

her: good, me too

me: mexicans or no mexicans (personal joke )

her: lol

me: hey im off to the gym then skating and other stuff

her: ok

me: and next time we hang out, if youre too nervous, im callin u out sucka!

her: lol

me: bye!

her: byeybe

what a dull convo!

zzzzzzzzzz

if she was really 'into' you, im pretty sure u would be getting more than just one word answers!

pics needed lol

Posted by _Nut_ on Nov-11-2005 18:15:

2 things...

You two use lol too much

Secondly. Ill goto Reading, PA myself and show her how to really party. Those orchestral types can be real wild.

Posted by h0tsweetbabyd0l on Nov-11-2005 19:00:

don't want to be mean but are u sure she's interested in your relationship and want to be involved with u for something serious?
the convo u had with her on the fone was boring she doesn't seem to have anything to tell u except these vagues replies
seriously u should leave her and find someone who'll be really there for u and present

Posted by igottaknow on Nov-11-2005 19:21:

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Nov-11-2005 19:28:

quote:
Originally posted by h0tsweetbabyd0l
don't want to be mean but are u sure she's interested in your relationship and want to be involved with u for something serious?
the convo u had with her on the fone was boring she doesn't seem to have anything to tell u except these vagues replies
seriously u should leave her and find someone who'll be really there for u and present

thats bs i htink.. just give it time and thngs should follow through.. go on more dates.. let her take it at her pace.. theres no rush

do small stuff to like hold her hand express some body language.. u know.. get her comfortable with you

Posted by UWM on Nov-11-2005 19:36:

Wow am I fucking glad that I grew up before the internet became the primary way to interact with people.

Posted by Palladium on Nov-11-2005 20:32:

explain the mexican or no mexicans joke...

and i hope it won't be an insult...cuz' i'll be the mad at u

Posted by eye_03 on Nov-11-2005 20:38:

hmm, maybe you should just post pics of her and then we will give really good and thoughtfull responses such as

"i'd it hit!"
"2 in the pink, 1 in the stink sonny!"
"get that shit!"
"give it to her in the p00per!"
"how much does she tip?"

etc. etc.

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Nov-11-2005 20:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Palladium
explain the mexican or no mexicans joke...

and i hope it won't be an insult...cuz' i'll be the mad at u

well see the mexican joke is.. you cross the border with out getting into jail.. but if you get caught and go to jail the jokes on you

btw relax your tostitos mang

Posted by LuNaSeA on Nov-11-2005 20:44:

wiz: how old are you? how old is she? looks like u guys are around 16??

have you tried putting the moves on her, complimenting her, telling her you think she's sexxxay and whatnot? touch her arm, runs your hands thru her hair, put your hand on her upper leg, kiss her cheeks, etc? light some candles when u're in your room too, damnit

Posted by Palladium on Nov-11-2005 20:47:

quote:
Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
well see the mexican joke is.. you cross the border with out getting into jail.. but if you get caught and go to jail the jokes on you

btw relax your tostitos mang

i was just joking...

curiosity

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Nov-11-2005 20:47:

quote:
Originally posted by LuNaSeA
wiz: how old are you? how old is she? looks like u guys are around 16??

have you tried putting the moves on her, complimenting her, telling her you think she's sexxxay and whatnot? touch her arm, runs your hands thru her hair, put your hand on her upper leg, kiss her cheeks, etc? light some candles when u're in your room too, damnit

hrmm maybe i should try some of this on girl # 1
in my girl problem thread.. i think if i kiss her cheek though she might not sit beside me next class

edit: sorry to intrude continue on with this dilema

Posted by LuNaSeA on Nov-11-2005 20:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
hrmm maybe i should try some of this on girl # 1
in my girl problem thread.. i think if i kiss her cheek though she might not sit beside me next class

link? i love playing dr. judy.

edit: damn i thought you were nachos. LOL.

Posted by igottaknow on Nov-11-2005 20:48:

quote:
Originally posted by LuNaSeA
wiz: how old are you? how old is she? looks like u guys are around 16??

have you tried putting the moves on her, complimenting her, telling her you think she's sexxxay and whatnot? touch her arm, runs your hands thru her hair, put your hand on her upper leg, kiss her cheeks, etc? light some candles when u're in your room too, damnit

for a second i thought i was read one of those cheesy paperback romance novels

Posted by LuNaSeA on Nov-11-2005 20:50:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
for a second i thought i was read one of those cheesy paperback romance novels

so, igk, where's Your woman?

these are the ways to getting a girl sexed up, like it or not.

Posted by igottaknow on Nov-11-2005 21:01:

quote:
Originally posted by LuNaSeA
so, igk, where's Your woman?

these are the ways to getting a girl sexed up, like it or not.

Sorry it was just funny reading someone verbalizing the steps of courtship

His gaze dropped to her seductively swaying hips and he was lost. Totally and completely consumed by lust.

Posted by LuNaSeA on Nov-11-2005 21:09:

lol yea after re-reading my post, it does

well, i read the rest of this thread and it really is as simple as the fact that the girl is young and inexperienced and very insecure bc she really doesn't know what to do.

i used to be in that stage- a million thoughts running thru your mind yet you can't distinguish 1 from the other or form a single coherent thought nevermind vocalize one or what she is generally feeling. it's very awkward but u have to give it patience if u really like this girl...at this stage in the game, she just doesn't know what to do, so i would advise to _cautiously_ lead the dance.

Posted by l�cid on Nov-11-2005 21:59:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
I think you hit the nail on the head

wow that's disturbing.

Posted by squirrelly on Nov-11-2005 22:03:

How old are you guys? I don't talk to people I'm dating online. Actually, I hate talking online, so my conversations online usually last a grand total of 5 minutes (if that) before they die out. And your her first boyfriend? You have to be like what, 15? 16 max? How old is she, 13? 14? Pathetic.

Posted by LuNaSeA on Nov-11-2005 23:08:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
How old are you guys? I don't talk to people I'm dating online. Actually, I hate talking online, so my conversations online usually last a grand total of 5 minutes (if that) before they die out. And your her first boyfriend? You have to be like what, 15? 16 max? How old is she, 13? 14? Pathetic.

awww c'mon... weren't you once that age and didn't you act all shy and stupid sometimes, esp around zeh boys? my first bf was when i was 16.. no shame in that for me.

Posted by igottaknow on Nov-11-2005 23:27:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
wow that's disturbing.

I just noticed you can see his brains

quote:
Originally posted by LuNaSeA
awww c'mon... weren't you once that age and didn't you act all shy and stupid sometimes, esp around zeh boys? my first bf was when i was 16.. no shame in that for me.

hahaha its just bitter sara. No one can say 'pathetic' with more venom.

Posted by Col on Nov-11-2005 23:36:

Wow, I had a very similar situation.
My suggestion is that "instant messenger" has killed your chance of a relationship, as it did to me.

Basically I met some girl at New Year, was a fucking great night, and it seemed certain that we would be together. The following week, a lot of texting etc., then an exchange of MSN addresses. I didn't actually see her again in person until a couple of weeks AFTER new year, but in the meantime we had been talking loads on MSN and getting to know each other properly.

This was a fatal mistake.

When we eventually met in person, she just completely froze up. She was tongue tied, didn't know what to say, kept making awkward movements and basically just looked really uncomfortable. At first, I thought it was kind of cute that I'd had such an effect on a girl - but she NEVER got over it.

We still talked very openly on MSN, but that was precisely what killed it. Talking to someone on an instant messenger is a very superficial way of getting to know them. In my situation, the girl felt uncomfortable and confused because she was facing a guy she felt she THOUGHT she knew really well, but actually didn't.

She isn't really a shy person, fuck, she's louder than most girls. But in arguably the most crucial stage of making a relationship work, "getting to know" your partner, I made the mistake of doing this across a fucking text-based medium.

Your problem might be the same.

Posted by Pariah Cleric on Nov-12-2005 00:06:

*lol'd at the original post*

Posted by wizniz on Nov-12-2005 01:14:

you guys are close

im 17 shes 16

teh pics? sure in due time but no pron

Posted by Nabistai on Nov-12-2005 01:18:

It doesn't really matter what age you are. That convo you posted just has absolutely 0.0 love in it. Unfortunately this 'relationship' has no chance to last. That's not necessarily a bad this tho, try to gain some excperience from it.

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