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anybody interested in the girl's phone number ? i can share it ...

lol .. just joking ... me bad .. hahahahahha

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Originally posted by neuromancer anybody interested in the girl's phone number ? i can share it ... lol .. just joking ... me bad .. hahahahahha

sounds like he'd be better off if you took over his problems...

LOL

ill take her number.

"hey i got an idea why dont u give me head, thatll REALLY piss him off"



:P

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game. we aint got time to fuck around tho.

Amen brotha.

Some of us, at least, have better things to do than play head games. The people I respect (of which there are many, whether or not some of the hippies here believe it) have always been up front and not hypersensitive. And I simply don't have the patience to pretend to have respect for the others just for the sake of getting laid. Maybe that's extreme on the other end of the spectrum, but at least I don't cry for an hour every week because of some ho.

You can't respect someone who always kisses up to you - it's sickening. If you act like this, you'll always eventually end up getting treated like crap when they find out you're a doormat.

That doesnt mean you have to play games and be an ass to them either. Many guys are like that too.

The most true way you can be is nice to someone until they do something that disrespects you. Then you have to syand up for yourself. And being nice doesnt mean buying things. Being nice means having respect for someone and being honest. Most girls dont know how to handle honesty and prefer the lies. Id even say that most canadian women even force guys to lie to them because they dont want the truth. But eventually u will find the girl who appreciates a guy for who he is, not what he has or how easy he can be walked on. It takes a bit longer this way but its all about quality, not quantity.

If you are a guy who gets abused or is abusive then you will get nothing but grief for the rest of your life from the opposite sex.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy ill take her number. "hey i got an idea why dont u give me head, thatll REALLY piss him off" :P

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok on a serious note.. this thread is getting too long. I think someone already posted on this.. Always follow your gut in this situation.. don't tell that quiet voice to shut up, listen to it! Shoulda dissapeard into the crowd and talked to some nice ladies, just for the heck of it. You can doooo eeeeeiiit!

Cheers,

-Roman





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* I do not mean leave her at the club, all alone, without any means of getting home or sleeping in a comfy bed.. but do go and get the scoop on the place yourself, check out who is present, etc.
In short, coming and leaving together doesn't mean you're together 100% of the time..

WOW, some of you are guys are absolute morons

Like I said, there's more background than I care to share. It was coming to the end of the night. We came together, we were gonna leave together. She had no place to go and ALL her belongings were at my house in St. Catharines. I'm not about to leave a girl that I cared for stranded in a huge fucking city where she doesn't know a single person and doesn't know where the fuck to go. (midya though, she coulda just stayed with one of the dudes she met )

But I'm not an asshole. Vivid Boy. You obviously are. There's no room for discussion there, so I'm not even going to bother with your responses.

Let me clear this up. Yes, she was acting very immaturely in front of me, but she probably thought I thought nothing of it. And that's what I wanted her to think because it would've turned into another 3 hour arguement about the same bullshit over and over again! I avoideda bigger headache than I already got!

When we got back to mine I told her to take the Greyhound to Toronto that night and to stay in a Hostel. At first, she said ok, I was happy... then it turned into, I'm tired and don't want to make the trip anymore. WTF!! Typical, can't make her mind up. I told her NO, again, and again, until she went to my room and cried in the dark. So I guess I'm an asshole again... well guess what, I'm not, so I told her fine, she can stay the night and she has to leave in the morning.

Because knowing FULL-WELL that if I slept in the same bed as her, we were gonna fuck. There's no if, ands or buts! It's the way our relationship worked... it was based on sex... cause when it's good it's good. And I know that's why she wanted to stay one more night... that one final fuck. Well, that's why I slept on the couch, my payback for the night before



I also took into account, which some of you haven't yet, that because she doesn't know anybody, that's why I didn't "walk away" from her. I gotta be there to make sure she's ok. She's in a strange city and doesn't really know how people can act when they are all fucked on coke and E. Remeber I spent most of the night away from her in the first place. There was ample opportunity for her to flirt and pick-up while I wasn't around... and then I wouldn't care!

Again, the issue at hand... It was right in front of me!

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Originally posted by Mortyman Like I said, there's more background than I care to share. It was coming to the end of the night. We came together, we were gonna leave together. She had no place to go and ALL her belongings were at my house in St. Catharines. I'm not about to leave a girl that I cared for stranded in a huge fucking city where she doesn't know a single person and doesn't know where the fuck to go. (midya though, she coulda just stayed with one of the dudes she met )

That kind of rationalizing is exactly why you got treated the way you did. She knew that she could do whatever the hell she wanted and still have a ride and a warm bed (without you in it ) at the end of the night.

I don't mean to be callous but you don't realize how ridiculous you sound. You let her stay with you just because you didn't want to argue? How about dumping her at the first motel you find instead of arguing?

This type of thing will happen to you over and over again unless you stop rationalizing these poor decisions and stop trying to make it THEIR fault. Yes, she was a bitch, but you didn't have to put up with it and in fact had several opportunities to either ditch her or shut her up.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 And being nice doesnt mean buying things. Being nice means having respect for someone and being honest. Most girls dont know how to handle honesty and prefer the lies. Id even say that most canadian women even force guys to lie to them because they dont want the truth.

Soooo true.

Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat a woman.

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Originally posted by Mortyman Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat a woman.

pointless! they dont know a shit about women!
sometimes i think both of em are V-men, at least they act like they are!

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Originally posted by Mortyman Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat each other.

fixed

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Originally posted by niveole pointless! they dont know a shit about women!

LOL!

Ahh, that made my day. I wouldn't even bother to respond to a comment like that normally, but coming from the King of Cling, that just takes the cake.

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Originally posted by niveole pointless! they dont know a shit about women! sometimes i think both of em are V-men, at least they act like they are!

easy there lil fella. Think before u speak.

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Originally posted by DigiNut LOL! Ahh, that made my day. I wouldn't even bother to respond to a comment like that normally, but coming from the King of Cling, that just takes the cake.

King of Cling???

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Originally posted by Mortyman Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat a woman.

vivid is joking. diginut needs some more experience. and jayx1...wow you're a racists (?) sob!


/edit: oops, jamie left it open..its spitty

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Originally posted by Mortyman Let me clear this up. Yes, she was acting very immaturely in front of me, but she probably thought I thought nothing of it. And that's what I wanted her to think because it would've turned into another 3 hour arguement about the same bullshit over and over again! I avoideda bigger headache than I already got!

Newsflash: girls aren't fucking idiots, and from what it seems, especially this one. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing and what it was doing to you. That was the purpose of it.

And you know how you could have avoided the headache and BS completely? If you brought her to the club, told her to meet you at the doors at 6am, and then left her alone while you went and had a good time. And at 6am met up with her and took her home. But you had to be an idiot and cling around her a week after a break up. And as someone said, it is PAINFULLY clear that she dumped you, cause she moved on and you didn't.

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Originally posted by Mortyman When we got back to mine I told her to take the Greyhound to Toronto that night and to stay in a Hostel. At first, she said ok, I was happy... then it turned into, I'm tired and don't want to make the trip anymore. WTF!! Typical, can't make her mind up. I told her NO, again, and again, until she went to my room and cried in the dark. So I guess I'm an asshole again... well guess what, I'm not, so I told her fine, she can stay the night and she has to leave in the morning.

You're both from St. Catharines I presume. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SEND HER BACK TO TORONTO? Are there no hotels at all in St. Catharines? Furthermore, why didn't you just send her to her house? Where the fuck does she live anyway? There's people that make trips from Kitchener to get downtown, i'm sure she could have found some way of getting home that didn't involve sleeping in YOUR BED.

And when she got upset and started crying, you should have just told her, "Fine, you don't wanna sleep in a comfy Hostel? I got a couch downstairs, enjoy."

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Originally posted by Mortyman Well, that's why I slept on the couch, my payback for the night before

WELL YOU SURE SHOWED HER! You know what's an even better payback? Sleeping outside while she stays in your house. YEAH!!!


Sasha, Vivid's and Digi's replies are maybe a little harsh, but at least they're fucking right. The girl is this guy's EX. How much do you care about what Jenya does, where she sleeps, and who's numbers she gets? Yeah, that's what I thought.

Cosmic Fur, STFU, and read the thread before you reply.

I said she's from the UK, she's here travelling and going to school in Vancouver, we drove back to Ontario together when we BOTH decided it best that we split. She left most of her belongings at my house. From there she went to Wisconsin for the past week and "SHE" wanted to spend more time with "ME". and as traveller... would you rather spend time in St. Catharines or Toronto? Ya, that's what "I" thoguht!

ya, OBVIOUSLY she broke up with me eh?

Read before you post. I hate repeating myself. You make me feel like I'm talking to her now!

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Originally posted by Mortyman Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat a woman.

you need to figure out how to have women treat you...

you shouldnt have gone to the party in the first place and if she was being a bitch you should have immediately told her to either straighten herself out or go home even if you provided the ride.

Reminds me of this girl i took out on a date once who demanded i turn my cell phone off when i was with her because "she should be the focus of my attention." 1 hour into the date i packed it in and took her home and told her exactly why i did.

You should have done the same thing.

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Originally posted by Jem_hadar and jayx1...wow you're a racists (?) sob!

I am??

how so???

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Originally posted by Mortyman Cosmic Fur, STFU, and read the thread before you reply. I said she's from the UK, she's here travelling and going to school in Vancouver, we drove back to Ontario together when we BOTH decided it best that we split. She left most of her belongings at my house. From there she went to Wisconsin for the past week and "SHE" wanted to spend more time with "ME". and as traveller... would you rather spend time in St. Catharines or Toronto? Ya, that's what "I" thoguht! ya, OBVIOUSLY she broke up with me eh? Read before you post. I hate repeating myself. You make me feel like I'm talking to her now!

maybe shes using you as a homebase for her north american jaunts. And maybe you are falling for it.

Id tell her to get her crap out of my place ASAP.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 I am?? how so???

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Id even say that most canadian women even force guys to lie to them because they dont * * * * * * * Problem is that canadian guys get played like pianos for the most part. See the example in this thread for instance.

what nationality he is has nothing to do with this, but of course i could count on you to bring up disparaging remarks on Canada way to live up to your rep >5

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Originally posted by Mortyman I said she's from the UK, she's here travelling and going to school in Vancouver, we drove back to Ontario together when we BOTH decided it best that we split. She left most of her belongings at my house. From there she went to Wisconsin for the past week and "SHE" wanted to spend more time with "ME". and as traveller... would you rather spend time in St. Catharines or Toronto? Ya, that's what "I" thoguht!

Why did you let her leave her belongings with you and not told her to take them to her family's in Wisconsin if she was going there anyway?

So she doesn't actually live in Ontario? Well then, let's play Junior Detective: she was getting guys' numbers. Guys she knew she wouldn't get together with because she's travelling around at the moment. Hence, why would she even ask for them? Hmmm... maybe it was to piss you off? Just maybe?

I missed your second post, so I'll address it now:

"I pretty much ignored her for the last hour or 2 of the night because of it. Watching other girls walk by me a hundred times themselves showing signs they wanted me to talk to them. But I respected the fact that my "ex" was still around."

WHY? She's your ex. According to you, the breakup was mutual. Hence there should have been no feelings left over, and both of you should have been fine with looking around again.

"But it still doesn't make up the fact that it's more that girls are the ones who seem to carelessly flaunt that they can get away with things that guys can't "

Who said you couldn't have gotten away with it? What would she have done? Broke up with you? Took her stuff out of your house? Slept in a hostel? Seems to me, getting girls' numbers is exactly what you should have been doing that night.

Lastly, I'm not even sure why you're getting defensive here. What are you getting mad at? At the fact that we're pointing out your obvious mistakes? Mistakes that even you admit doing?

ok guys...let's all kiss and make up


MMwaaahhhhhh!!

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Originally posted by spitty what nationality he is has nothing to do with this, but of course i could count on you to bring up disparaging remarks on Canada way to live up to your rep >5

its about nationality. Most canadian guys are suckers. The newer generations have been told that it's not ok to stand up for themselves.

It's definately a societal problem that we have.

And last i checked canadian isnt a race but is a nationality of many races.


I have travelled and lived in other places and i can firmly say that north american men, and especially canadian men have a lot to learn about how act when it comes to women. That being nice doesnt mean being a sucker. And i make no apologies for that observation.

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