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Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:34:

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Originally posted by JoJoJo
I think everybody is capable of cheating because we are all human and temptation is something we all have to face in life.

actually being able to stand up to a temptation is what differentiates us from animals

Posted by Stingray on Mar-31-2006 04:34:

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove
actually being able to stand up to a temptation is what differentiates us from animals

And whores.

Posted by Yohan on Mar-31-2006 04:34:

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Originally posted by JoJoJo
I think everybody is capable of cheating because we are all human and temptation is something we all have to face in life.

I don't disagree.

It's just so many people CHOOSE not to resist the temptation.

Hah. You just reminded me of Temptation Island.
Man, there were some really hot girls in the Australia one. (esp because they are aussie girls!)

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:37:

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Originally posted by Stingray
And whores.

lol

animals > whores

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 04:39:

Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?

funkygroove: I love everything you have said...way to hold the thread down! LOL

I seriously know at LEAST a handful+ of men who have cheated repeatedly one their girls, and the weird thing is, is that they CLAIM to love them, and treat them like gold the other 99% of the time...they expain that its "just sex"

Posted by naillil on Mar-31-2006 04:39:

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Originally posted by bluE_Neon
IMO the main reason why couples cheat is because they aren't sexually satisfied by their partners. If there is strong sexual attraction, loyalty & respect for one another, there's no chance in hell cheating comes to mind.
Men are just as big of cheaters as women are.

Not quite - I would be more inclined to say that if a girl cheats it's not because of the lack of sexual satisfaction - probably moreso because the emotional connectedness isn't there, because the respect, support and love is missing...

Posted by The Highroller on Mar-31-2006 04:39:

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove
hun, relax! i don't claim what this article claims!

i'm just saying it happens and it's not that rare!

i personally don't know any female that has cheated...so that makes 3 guys out of n number of male friends a big number

Just because you know guys who cheat, and don't know any girls who cheat, doesn't have any corelatoin to the way things are in general.

This article is fucking stupid. Guys cheat, and so do girls. I can't believe some of you girls believe this shit. You must be like those girls who think that guys will have sex from any girl when it's offered.

Posted by Stingray on Mar-31-2006 04:42:

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove
lol

animals > whores

Agreed.

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:43:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?

funkygroove: I love everything you have said...way to hold the thread down! LOL

I seriously know at LEAST a handful+ of men who have cheated repeatedly one their girls, and the weird thing is, is that they CLAIM to love them, and treat them like gold the other 99% of the time...they expain that its "just sex"

np! stats assignment = postwhoring

anyway - cheating on my books starts with flirting and ends with kissing/making out/sex

and in responce to ur last thing about cheating and loving guys - they need to be castrated

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 04:43:

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Originally posted by The Highroller
You must be like those girls who think that guys will have sex from any girl when it's offered.

now THAT I definately don't believe....seeing as I have been tempted many times myself (but never have).

I think that it more human nature to be attracted to more than one person, but I also think that most people are choosy...i mean you ARE technically putting your relationship on the line, so I would assume that if you were to take it this far that one would pick a worthwhile candidate......imo

Posted by naillil on Mar-31-2006 04:44:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?

I think the fine lines of cheating is crossed when a person is always thinking about and wanting to spend more time in the presence of a person who isn't their significant other....

If it's not that emotionally deep, then I think even just kissing or flirting with the intention of hooking up is cheating. Cheating is such a strong word for that but it is what it is and it'd definielty make a person feel betrayed, foolish and just livid.

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:45:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
now THAT I definately don't believe....seeing as I have been tempted many times myself (but never have).

I think that it more human nature to be attracted to more than one person, but I also think that most people are choosy...i mean you ARE technically putting your relationship on the line, so I would assume that if you were to take it this far that one would pick a worthwhile candidate......imo

+1!

Posted by Yohan on Mar-31-2006 04:45:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?

The 'line' is quite blurry and tends to change from couple to couple.
Some have not even look at another girl/boy policy. Some are swingers.

I guess its when you've done something that your partner would consider hurtful.

quote:

I seriously know at LEAST a handful+ of men who have cheated repeatedly one their girls, and the weird thing is, is that they CLAIM to love them, and treat them like gold the other 99% of the time...they expain that its "just sex"

Pure selfishness.

Posted by naillil on Mar-31-2006 04:47:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby

*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!!

This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk

Posted by JoJoJo on Mar-31-2006 04:48:

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove
actually being able to stand up to a temptation is what differentiates us from animals

I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too

You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!!

Posted by TRANCEEEE on Mar-31-2006 04:49:

- don't rush into a relationship
- make up your mind, "do you want to settle or else?"
- if you're going for ass, get a whore
- stupids mate with stupids

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:50:

quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too

You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!!

lol yeh that show is fucked up

i actually confess i was tempted very strongly twice, and was able to resist it in the end

Posted by JoJoJo on Mar-31-2006 04:53:

it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!

Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:56:

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Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!

Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha

hehe

i just got my mates to look after me if i ever got drunk in a company of hawt guys and all but i mean it wasn't like "omg i gotta bang him asap or i'll die"

Posted by Yohan on Mar-31-2006 04:57:

quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!

Oh trust me. The Aussie version was WAY better than the one we had here.

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 04:57:

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Originally posted by ** TigerLily **
This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk

yup, and to add to that: its one thing to cheat on a girlfriend but its a WHOLE other story to cheat on your wife (and family, since it affects them as well).

I am not very religious, but someday, when I am married, I would want my man to honor his vows, and if he can't go by them, then we should just co-habitat and skip the damn ceremony LOL

...plus you can't fuck with your children's lives like that, its not worth it for a piece of ass, and that goes for women too!!

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 05:00:

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Originally posted by JoJoJo
its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters.

Exactly, there is nothing wrong with being tempted by another. But once it's goes past temptation, then it's gone too far.

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 05:02:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
I am not very religious, but someday, when I am married, I would want my man to honor his vows, and if he can't go by them, then we should just co-habitat and skip the damn ceremony LOL

So you would have no problem living with a guy who you knew was sleeping with another woman?

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 05:04:

LOL LOL ^^^ hmmm ok so I def re-read what I wrote and I def said that wrong!!! way to catch me!!

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 05:06:

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
LOL LOL ^^^ hmmm ok so I def re-read what I wrote and I def said that wrong!!! way to catch me!!

Heehee, no worries. I was just trying to make sure I was reading it right.

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