how do you feel about your g/f "grinding" with another guy?

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Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:53:

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Originally posted by DOOMBOT
But dude! His girlfriend danced with AJ Feely, that like... makes him the man!

In some sick dimented way.

i am the man.

Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 21:53:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
IM ALSO RIGHT

was she dancing or grinding with him?

Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:53:

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Originally posted by deejay2002
lol man this thing is getting so many replies...

anyway, let's say your g/f does "grind" with another guy but she doesnt do anything else? what's wrong with that? my girl never goes to a club alone and only goes out when a group of her friends go out which is about twice a month...maybe less.

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Originally posted by RJT
At the end of the day, the bottom line is I don't think it's a respectful act for a girl to be all over another dudes shit when she's in a serious relationship. Same goes for dudes.

Posted by PaperBag831 on May-25-2006 21:54:

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Originally posted by deejay2002
lol man this thing is getting so many replies...

anyway, let's say your g/f does "grind" with another guy but she doesnt do anything else? what's wrong with that? my girl never goes to a club alone and only goes out when a group of her friends go out which is about twice a month...maybe less.

as long as its just dancing. i loooove me some good grinding, but the only thing the girl gets out of it is a fun song or two. as long as its just dancing.... it can be a lot of fun. cause then the girl switches from grinding with a guy to dancing with all her girlfriends at once, then back and forth its fun and you get all sweaty!

Posted by CONNERMAN2000 on May-25-2006 21:54:

Grinding has always been seen as a way of bf/gf doin some dirty dancing in public. If I ever was hooked up and I saw my girl gettin dry fucked by some other dude, i'd flip shit, as should you.

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:55:

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Originally posted by LiveTheDream
was she dancing or grinding with him?

she always grinds

Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:56:

well...I asked her how she would feel if i grinded with another girl and she said it wouldnt offend her. i mean it is common sense that you dont "grind" with another opposite sex (unless it's you) if you are in a relationship but i guess she didnt know. But now she goes that I feel uncomfortable when she "grinds" with another guy.

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:56:

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Originally posted by CONNERMAN2000
Grinding has always been seen as a way of bf/gf doin some dirty dancing in public. If I ever was hooked up and I saw my girl gettin dry fucked by some other dude, i'd flip shit, as should you.

do you think that as cheating?

Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 21:56:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats like a month from now
she always grinds her way down on to some dudes pole - now I've got sypholis

Posted by PaperBag831 on May-25-2006 21:57:

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Originally posted by deejay2002
well...I asked her how she would feel if i grinded with another girl and she said it wouldnt offend her. i mean it is common sense that you dont "grind" with another opposite sex (unless it's you) if you are in a relationship but i guess she didnt know. But now she goes that I feel uncomfortable when she "grinds" with another guy.

but the question is, would you want to grind with another girl? cause if she does and you wouldn't, there's a problem

Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 21:58:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
she always grinds

Well you have a girl that knows where the line is, sadly if a girl is willing to grind with someone, they tend to be willing to do alot more.

Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 21:59:

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Originally posted by PaperBag831
but the question is, would you want to grind with another girl? cause if she does and you wouldn't, there's a problem

nah not really. i rarely go to clubs anymore...it was kinda like a phase for me. i prefer lounges.

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 21:59:

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Originally posted by DJ RJT

funny but no way would she ever cheat on me. 1 i know she would never. 2. She has no reason to. 3. I keep her very happy

Posted by D-res on May-25-2006 22:00:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
do you think that as cheating?

yes. its obviously not to the same calibur as fooling around or having sex but if i had a gf and she went out with her girls and grinded with a guy, i wouldnt just shrug it off.

Posted by Saka on May-25-2006 22:01:

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Originally posted by DJ RJT
At the end of the day, the bottom line is I don't think it's a respectful act for a girl to be all over another dudes shit when she's in a serious relationship. Same goes for dudes.

rjt, you speak so much truth.
If some dudes are fine with it, then fine.
But nobody I don't think, can deny it being inappropriate.

Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 22:02:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
3. I keep her very happy

thats the number 1 thing right there. if you keep the girl happy, she has no reason to cheat on you. why would your gf cheat on you when she knows her "happy" relationship is all over if she cheats?

Posted by deejay2002 on May-25-2006 22:03:

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Originally posted by sakabatou
rjt, you speak so much truth.
If some dudes are fine with it, then fine.
But nobody I don't think, can deny it being inappropriate.

true

Posted by RJT on May-25-2006 22:04:

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Originally posted by deejay2002
thats the number 1 thing right there. if you keep the girl happy, she has no reason to cheat on you. why would your gf cheat on you when she knows her "happy" relationship is all over if she cheats?

How happy do you really think she is if she's heading out to clubs and mashing her cooter/butthole into some dudes lap?

I'm telling you man - If your girl is really happy with you, she wouldn't even want to go out and "grind" on other dudes.

Posted by D-res on May-25-2006 22:04:

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 22:05:

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Originally posted by D-res
yes. its obviously not to the same calibur as fooling around or having sex but if i had a gf and she went out with her girls and grinded with a guy, i wouldnt just shrug it off.

do you have a GF?

Posted by CONNERMAN2000 on May-25-2006 22:05:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
do you think that as cheating?

good question...I dunno if I would straight up consider that as 'cheating'...but its pretty fuckin close. I think cheating is moreso a girl establishing a relationship behind your back...or straight up fucking another guy. But dancing i dont think can be considered as cheating.

But grinding is most definetely inappropriate.

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 22:08:

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Originally posted by DJ RJT
How happy do you really think she is if she's heading out to clubs and mashing her cooter/butthole into some dudes lap?

I'm telling you man - If your girl is really happy with you, she wouldn't even want to go out and "grind" on other dudes.

so just b/c she has a man she cant go out and have a good time? Grinding is dancing just like rubbin is racing (i cant beleive i just referenced the movie days of thunder shoot me now)

I am totally ok with my girl going out and drinking and having a good time grinding b.c i know she will come home to me. Its a trust thing?

Posted by LiveTheDream on May-25-2006 22:09:

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Originally posted by D-res
because girls are fucking bitches and dont know what they want

+1million

Posted by grooviebeats on May-25-2006 22:10:

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Originally posted by D-res
because girls are fucking bitches and dont know what they want

not all

Posted by D-res on May-25-2006 22:10:

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Originally posted by grooviebeats
do you have a GF?

i did lol

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