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Originally posted by Slylee Maybe the conversation will just flow when we go out for drinks and I can bring it up then. So if we make out or something, maybe afterwards should I be like, �I don�t know about you, but I could really use a fuck buddy right now, what do you say?� Hahaha that�s so slutty!

lol let your fingers/hands/mouth/boobs/vagina do the talking.

have you guys ever kissed or hooked up before? i mean there's always a chance that once you two get into bed together, you find out you're just not sexually compatible. i mean there's no point in trying to specifically arrange an on-going thing if you haven't even tried out the goods yet.

i think the best thing to do is to just drop hints in casual conversation so that he's aware of what you want. be a flirt. don't just throw yourself at him because you might end up looking slutty or desperate. maybe hook up a few times but don't have sex just yet... and before you do finally have sex just reiterate that it's purely physical, that you don't want a relationship, you'd like to stay friends with benefits, blah blah blah.

it can work nuff said both parties have to know that fucking is all it is. no feelings can get in the way.

One of you will end up falling in love. FYI.

word of warning, it's generally not advised to hook up with others too soon after a major breakup. The whole physical interaction may trigger strong feelings from a fresh breakup wound, and you might find yourself overwhelmed really. I dun really know how far you've come along after your recent breakup, Sly, but a word of advice nevertheless

Sly, you're a scorpio...do you REALLY think you can do this without getting 'deep' about it?



Personally I would never EVER do something like this. Well that's not true...I guess my bf and I were fuck buddies before it was an official relationship.

We had both just come out of long relationships. We would go to his house every day after school and fuck. It was obvious (at first) that neither of us wanted anything more. We were having such a hot, casual, sexy time...then all of a sudden one day we're in love with each other.

Now look at us...8 years later, still going strong!




So um, be VERY careful! LOL.

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Originally posted by jennypie Now look at us...8 years later, still going strong!

rare! most dont last because feelings get in the way and one person doesnt have any feelings and the other does.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel rare! most dont last because feelings get in the way and one person doesnt have any feelings and the other does.

Yeah who knew we'd end up being each other's perfect match? We're definitely very lucky. <3

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Originally posted by EXTREMUM I was not seeing her at all, while they were dating.

my bad
you made it sound like you were almost doing her up till her wedding day.I was just gonna say if i was that groom and found out, plus you had the balls to go to the wedding you would have to be in the witness protection program.But its not, so my point is moot.
yay for useless typing.

Lucid hit it on the head.

Once again discussion of feelings=couple
Fuck and stfu=buddy.

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Originally posted by Slylee he admitted to me via aim the other night that he used to draw comic strips of us doing it and that he wanted me really bad.

woah woah woah woah woah woah woah woah woah, obsessed much?

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he admitted to me via aim the other night that he used to draw comic strips of us doing it

Pics or STFU

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Originally posted by jennypie Personally I would never EVER do something like this.

Indeed. She is a Scorpio after all.

screwed around with chicks a bunch of times on several 1 night stand occasions but no steady f buddy here, just contributing to the thread.

i'm a scorpio, but with a gemini rising geminis are pros at no-strings attached sex.

i think i can do this!!

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Originally posted by Slylee i'm a scorpio, but with a gemini rising geminis are pros at no-strings attached sex. i think i can do this!!

oh and no, we've never hooked up. good point though lucid. i think i'll take your advice.

Jaime, why aren't you in relationship mode with Craig I guess I must have missed the break-up.

I will bang you without a condom.

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Originally posted by david.michael I will bang you without a condom.

lol

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Originally posted by david.michael I will bang you without a condom.

+1

so yeah, i have a fuck buddy relationship right now, and it started more than 2 years ago and haven't stopped for a moment. neither me or her are in love with each other (though i'm willing to give a bf/gf relationship a shot if she wants it), she has boyfriends at times, i have random sex at times.

daria (the aformentioned) served in the same unit in the same navy base in the same department as me, and knew some girl i had random sex with at a club, apparently that girl recognised me from a picture daria had and told her about me as a good lay.. daria threw plenty of hints she was interested, and we had a quicky in a locked office, this became a weekly thing or so whenever we both had time for it. after she got discharged (before me) she stayed in touch and we met at my place loads of times, this is how it still goes on.


fuck buddy relationships ftw.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak my bad you made it sound like you were almost doing her up till her wedding day.I was just gonna say if i was that groom and found out, plus you had the balls to go to the wedding you would have to be in the witness protection program.But its not, so my point is moot. yay for useless typing.

That's ok. People often misinterpret intimacy, with a real friendship - her and I managed to have both in the past, and still remain as friends, after she finally found someone to settle down with. I'm glad she's moved on, as have I. Regardless, her and I will always be good friends.

WELP! tonight's the night we're going to see Texas Chainsaw the beginning. and then go drinking or something.

he warned me though that his nose is busted and he's limping from his recent knee surgery, so i guess no sex.

If I had a fuck buddy, I probably wouldnt have spent so much time hoarding the forums with my useless nonsense.

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Originally posted by Slylee WELP! tonight's the night we're going to see Texas Chainsaw the beginning. and then go drinking or something. he warned me though that his nose is busted and he's limping from his recent knee surgery, so i guess no sex.

Good luck and tell us how it goes. I've had some friends that turn ex's into successful fuck buddies but usually they don't work out. My advice..just flirt but definitely mention at some point in the conversation that you are so NOT in relationship mode. You don't want to ruin your friendship by seeming like you want to hit it so you guys can enter into a relationship.

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Originally posted by riskytrader Good luck and tell us how it goes. I've had some friends that turn ex's into successful fuck buddies but usually they don't work out. My advice..just flirt but definitely mention at some point in the conversation that you are so NOT in relationship mode. You don't want to ruin your friendship by seeming like you want to hit it so you guys can enter into a relationship.

true thanks!

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