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Originally posted by lopi I think he wants you to read between the lines.

i figured that in his 2nd post

but ummm how much can you read between "most of it is crap" beats me

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Originally posted by zokissima FOr what it was, a funny article, it was just that...a funny article I think that anyone whom has been in more than one sexual relationship will know most of this crap.

Frunky, REREAD!

he says, most of this crap. like most of this shit, or most of this stuff.

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess Frunky, REREAD! he says, most of this crap. like most of this shit, or most of this stuff.

ok i need to take a break from studying

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Originally posted by FunkyCrew ok i need to take a break from studying

well, let's hope you don't have too much reading to do, cuz it's not going to work too well.

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess well, let's hope you don't have too much reading to do, cuz it's not going to work too well.

mostly review now but yeah... this imagining of words which are not there isn't fun

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess Frunky, REREAD! he says, most of this crap. like most of this shit, or most of this stuff.

lol exactly

Lots of hostility here, although studying a shitload tends to make ppl edgy I guess. Gl with exams Funky, if you are feeling anything like what I was feeling monday night (36 hours of studying straight), I feel your pain.

Most of this *IS* crap.

Personally, I don't think it is a good idea to get pre-conceived notions about what is and isn't acceptable in the bedroom. Different folks like different strokes, so as this may be some things to consider, it isn't the be all and end all of sexuality.

With crap like this, you are putting borders up on an act that should only have borders formed by communication of the two people involved.

In my opinion, the number one rule about sex is COMMUNICATE. You aren't going to satisfy the other person, or yourself if you have no idea what the other person wants/needs.

And relationships, especially sexual, should be about working together and making compromises to satisfy the other.

With crap, (that's right.. I said crap ) like this, it teaches not so sexually experienced people that things should be a certain way, or that their partner is a bad one because they wont do a certain thing. It teaches people to go against their own instincts of what they want to do, and instead they do what they think they're "supposed" to do.

Anyway, yes there are some good tips and pieces of advice, but for the most part, I think it's junk.

^^^^ chill Big T.

that list was made exactly for the purpose of getting people to talk about stuff like that.

the list promotes communication between couples in a humourous way.

it's not there to place borders (lol!) on your sexuality.

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess ^^^^ chill Big T. that list was made exactly for the purpose of getting people to talk about stuff like that. the list promotes communication between couples in a humourous way. it's not there to place borders (lol!) on your sexuality.

LOL @ big T. People usually call me little T, but big is ok too

Perhaps "boundaries" would have been a better word.

Anyway, these lists aren't really presented as "things that should be discussed" but more like a set out order of acceptable/not acceptable sexual behaviour. If you are really in need of some of these tips in the first place (like keeping yourself clean *ew*), then you probably aren't going to be bright enough to know otherwise.

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Originally posted by 3P1D kick a midget or trip over a goat.

Tripping over kicking midget-goats?!?

crazytown.

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Originally posted by Theresa Anyway, these lists aren't really presented as "things that should be discussed" but more like a set out order of acceptable/not acceptable sexual behaviour.

hmm, well we must be reading it in totally different ways.

the exact thing i got from this list (and the other woman one) is "these should be discussed with your partner".

they let you know (sometimes in funny, sometimes in rude ways) things that other people on the planet are experiencing while having sex. you think people just start being perfect lovers right off the bat? no! you may not believe it but lists like this help a lot for some.

"what do you mean you don't wanna snuggle for 12 hours straight!?! but i love you!" lol.

if you think this list is beyond your experience in the bed room, then all the power to you. i just don't think you should be saying that it is meant to create boundaries, it's really not.

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Originally posted by FunkyCrew mostly review now but yeah... this imagining of words which are not there isn't fun

I add words all the time when I'm reading too, gets me into trouble.

For some reason I place "jerbal" after ever "tion"

You can see how this would be a problem.

Instead of motion, you get motion jerbal, instead of emotion, emotion jerbal, action, action jerbal and so on and so on.

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Originally posted by preppie chick I disagree with this. I know lotsa girls that can't deal with all the cuddling and snuggling. It's just too much sometimes...

I disagree as well. Cale is a cuddle monkey. So am I...so it works out. If anything HE complains more b/c I don't want to cuddle sometimes.

spooning ftw.

sceal of approval

big time

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Originally posted by MKpacha spooning ftw.

In Praise Of The Spoon!

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* I disagree as well. Cale is a cuddle monkey. So am I...so it works out. If anything HE complains more b/c I don't want to cuddle sometimes.

Hahah, that's so me... girls never usually wanna cuddle enough for my tastes.

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Originally posted by MKpacha spooning ftw.

yes!

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37. Taking things way too seriously. Sex is funny. Actually it's hilarious. Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget or trip over a goat. It's how you deal with it that really matters.

ROFL

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* I disagree as well. Cale is a cuddle monkey. So am I...so it works out. If anything HE complains more b/c I don't want to cuddle sometimes.

NAKED

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Originally posted by VERTiG0 NAKED

Nice save.

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Originally posted by Abercrombie Nice save.

theresa, i can see where you are getting your reasoning from. however i think that in no way would this be an issue if the two (or more) people involved in the sexual relationship are on equal standing and comfortable with each other

but yea, young'ins just starting out...

someone needs to redo the list from the female perspective

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Originally posted by English Rachel Honest. Call England.

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Originally posted by spitty ...undress her gently and sensuously rather than pulling at her clothes like you're ripping the paper off a birthday present...

Haha..., oww yea... I always do that!!

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Originally posted by zokissima lol exactly Lots of hostility here, although studying a shitload tends to make ppl edgy I guess. Gl with exams Funky, if you are feeling anything like what I was feeling monday night (36 hours of studying straight), I feel your pain.

aww thanks (saw this a bit late)

didn't mean to bite ur head off or anything

i could swear i saw an "is" there, good thing we didn't bet

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