How long can you stay without sex??

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Posted by Waxen on Mar-31-2002 16:04:

First off.. why does it matter! haha...
But I think ever since I lost the innocence at the tender age of 17, I think the longest I've gone without sex is 4 months.
Now it's going on 3 weeks... blah

~S~

Posted by whiskers on Mar-31-2002 16:10:

quote:
Originally posted by LiquidX

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers

i have a different point of view, i don't think that you can express you feelings to someone through sex...

yes you can, it all depends on the way you look at it, sex + love is wow ...... which is what you do and show your feelings..
while theres also the only want to F**K .. which is the one that you may be talking about where you only do it but no feelings at all involved.

sex is dirty, it's an animal act, instinct

Posted by apri_peel on Apr-01-2002 03:04:

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Originally posted by TiestoInTheMix

yes you can, it all depends on the way you look at it, sex + love is wow ...... which is what you do and show your feelings..
while theres also the only want to F**K .. which is the one that you may be talking about where you only do it but no feelings at all involved.

sex is dirty, it's an animal act, instinct [/QUOTE]

is your plan to stay a virgin for the rest of your life??

Posted by LiquidX on Apr-01-2002 03:34:

quote:
Originally posted by apri_peel

sex is dirty, it's an animal act, instinct

is your plan to stay a virgin for the rest of your life?? [/QUOTE]

ARE YOU NUTS ?!?! are you out of your mind ?
People this days...

Posted by whiskers on Apr-01-2002 04:39:

quote:
Originally posted by LiquidX

is your plan to stay a virgin for the rest of your life??

ARE YOU NUTS ?!?! are you out of your mind ?
People this days... [/QUOTE]

well, yeah, pretty much, that's it!

this is the battle of sex as an animal act
fucked up by your emotions
the human animal struggles vainly
to control his natural animal instincts
so it�d be better able to fit into the norm of society
a contradiction in terms.

sometimes however
either due to chemical or hormonal inbalance
?????????
or a flagrant disregard for the outdated
and inhabitional so called code of ethics
the thin line which separates the animal from the vegetable
is ?obliturated?
leaving them free to intoxicate their need to fulfill
the lowest common denominator.

with the ?????? ignorance and the sheer force of will
they are willing to meet and ??? any danger
no matter how devastating the consequences
in order to fuel the necessary agitation
which feeds their entire existance
without the stimulating entoxicin
their banality of their boring and miserable lives
becomes too chronic and depressing and constant to bare

only through the threat of constant danger
and the imprisonment of incomprehensible pain
can they find a suitable distraction
to veer them away form the dull reality
which they seek so desperately to escape

the reality that they will never ever be another Charles Manson,
Jim Orson, Jim Jones, Jack the Ripper, Tex River, Clint Eastwood, Mario Andretti,
??????,??????, Lenny Bruce, Lizzy ???, Andy Warhol or Elvis, Einstein.

the thought that they are gonna be stuck here to the day of their lousy god damn life
just to be able to afford the cost of living yet another hopeless, rotten existance
full of partying, ????, bad trips, burnouts, ripoffs, fuckups, and every other stinky lousy
???????? the face of these before, miserable, misfits, ???, losers, outlaws...

yeah outlaws, the kind of people that dont fit in to your society
because the fit in will be the kissed of death, dull, dumb, square

and i�m all for animal liberation, and the right to be a pig
because thats what its all about

Posted by apri_peel on Apr-03-2002 02:05:

so are you saying you're never doing it???????

Posted by Endlesswave on Apr-03-2002 02:14:

damnz...

All I know is I for one plan on doing it, dunno when or with who (Kinda can't plan on something like that...at least with my personality) but it'll happen when it happens I guess.

Posted by AndoraStar on Apr-03-2002 02:16:

PEEK PEEK sex chat!

Sex and ME are wonderful friends..

It can be a BEAUTIFUL thing, but unfortunetly now a days you got to be SUPER careful.

I can go w/o it, but I prefer not to!

PEeK PEeK

Posted by Stilez on Apr-03-2002 02:20:

well....the longest I've gone without it was 1 yr. Between ex's. Right now ...I'm going on another drought...9mths.

Oh well.... lucky I always have Palmala Handerson...and her five sisters. Thank goodness for downloadible porn.

Posted by bug_bite on Apr-03-2002 02:33:

well, when I'm not in a relationship I can go a long time...I never feel the need to sleep with someone I'm not dating

When I'm dating though...I start to get moody after about 5 days haha

Posted by capricorn15 on Apr-03-2002 02:48:

19.5 years and still counting, being a virgin is nothign to be ashamed of, just wiat for the right person, haha, dont wanna go fucking any hoes, haha late

Posted by patticus on Apr-03-2002 06:05:

but yknow.. it cant be the basis for a relationship... you'll get bored. or something

Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-03-2002 06:30:

quote:
Originally posted by TiestoInTheMix
16 years, 9 months, 14 days, 18 hours, 36 minutes
as of 3/28/02, 6:21pm...
p.s. and not looking forward to it wanna set a record!

then you only have like 90 years to go, like the Pope

Posted by TranceInMD on Apr-03-2002 16:22:

I'm ashamed to admit this, but it was about 6 months.

Posted by whiskers on Apr-03-2002 22:38:

quote:
Originally posted by drizzt81

then you only have like 90 years to go, like the Pope

so wait, is the Pope a virgin? doesn't he have any kids?

and btw, i'm joking, i am gonna have sex one day, but it's not gonna be a big thing. sorta like driving a car for the first time. so i'm not really waiting for it "oh, when it's gonna happen, when, when, when???"

Posted by uilleann on Apr-03-2002 23:26:

Hrm...

Well, my little spreadsheet here in my pocket tells me I'm 21.295, so it would be that long. (though its not quite as simple as that)

Hrm, its funny... as I read this, I find it saddening how many people have not found "success" yet, how "unfortunate" you people are. And still, seeing as many seem happy to wait until they find the right person, I should be glad for them... Something is wrong with this picture.

And seeing as I was brought up in a Christian household, and seeing as I still have remnants of marriage-before-sex in my head, I should be joyous that people still want to wait, and find someone special, not depressed, damnit.

Hrm...

/me needs to cold reboot his brain

Posted by apri_peel on Apr-04-2002 00:36:

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, honest
its not even any different from not being one
i really dont get all the hype ppl put around having sx for the first time. so you do it, so you have fun, its not like you died or grew an extra arm or lost an eye.
sx is simply the same as shaking a hand with someone. you shake it, you dont die --- you have sx, you dont die
having sx for the first time is just like doing ANYTHING else for the first time (i.e., reading a new book, seeing a new person on a street, going to a country to which you've never gone before, taking a new course at school, trying some new food, reading an article in a paper, hearing a new song, ........... and i could go on forever) but you get the picture right?

i'm totally behind TiestoInTheMix, ITS NOT A BIG DEAL PPL
who cares if you're 22 and never done it, you will when the time comes

Posted by SgtFoo on Apr-04-2002 02:04:

Don't have sex!!! resort to abstinence!

As for me... I'm a proud virgin, but I'll be even more proud once I've done it with a decent girl definitely before I turn 19! Oh yea.

Posted by uilleann on Apr-04-2002 22:56:

quote:
Originally posted by apri_peel
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, honest...

Oh, indeed, its just the worry that my feelings so clearly told me otherwise. However, I have not exactly survived all that time, and I'm not happy with my situation, on any level...hrm.

Posted by bluE_Neon on Apr-04-2002 23:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Stylez

Oh well.... lucky I always have Palmala Handerson...and her five sisters. Thank goodness for downloadible porn.

lol stylez man serious joker
well me, been months now since my last ex, hurting...but ya there's nothing wrong with being a virgin and people these days make it a big deal out of everything

Posted by Eugene on Apr-04-2002 23:48:

quote:
Originally posted by apri_peel
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, honest
its not even any different from not being one
i really dont get all the hype ppl put around having sx for the first time. so you do it, so you have fun, its not like you died or grew an extra arm or lost an eye.
sx is simply the same as shaking a hand with someone. you shake it, you dont die --- you have sx, you dont die
having sx for the first time is just like doing ANYTHING else for the first time (i.e., reading a new book, seeing a new person on a street, going to a country to which you've never gone before, taking a new course at school, trying some new food, reading an article in a paper, hearing a new song, ........... and i could go on forever) but you get the picture right?

i'm totally behind TiestoInTheMix, ITS NOT A BIG DEAL PPL
who cares if you're 22 and never done it, you will when the time comes

this is theoretically true.
However, both you and I know that society makes virginity a big deal.

For example, if you tell your friend in college that at 21 you're still a virgin, you will be perceived as a loser. You will be laughed at, ridiculed, and people will wonder if something's wrong with you.

And unfortunately, in many ways they're right.

If you are a virgin, then chances are that you're also shy around people, that you don't have friends, and that you're a loner. Most importantly, you're not as experienced...

Posted by whiskers on Apr-04-2002 23:51:

quote:
Originally posted by uilleann

Oh, indeed, its just the worry that my feelings so clearly told me otherwise.

well, you figure your feelings could have been wrong? if some thing is widely accepted by the masses it doesn't mean that thing is right.

Posted by Martin McG on Apr-04-2002 23:52:

u got to respect ppl who want 2 wait for the right person rather than just go with anyone they meet!

just me thoughts

Posted by whiskers on Apr-05-2002 00:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene
For example, if you tell your friend in college that at 21 you're still a virgin, you will be perceived as a loser. You will be laughed at, ridiculed, and people will wonder if something's wrong with you.

well, i'm sorry, i don't give a f**** what others think about me, and i am dead serious. i do my thing, i do what I wanna do, and i do think that's what some people have to learn to do. of course, i know that many others may not be comfortable with being considered losers. well, i don't care, it's all about how I feel about myself

quote:

And unfortunately, in many ways they're right.

If you are a virgin, then chances are that you're also shy around people, that you don't have friends, and that you're a loner. Most importantly, you're not as experienced...

well, ok, i am shy around people, and i'm not so experienced... so WHAT? is there something wrong with being shy? i may not have 200 friends, but i have 2-5 people that i can absolutely rely on, and i know that. i'm a virgin, i'm shy, i'm a loner, i don't go out every single friday, i'm not experienced, and i'm not afraid to admit all of that. shoot me for that.

reloop: a load of bullshit in the fucking society
harry choo-choo romero: i just can't believe all the things people say. why must i deal with this shit every fucking day?

Posted by Eugene on Apr-05-2002 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by TiestoInTheMix
well, i'm sorry, i don't give a f**** what others think about me, and i am dead serious. i do my thing, i do what I wanna do, and i do think that's what some people have to learn to do. of course, i know that many others may not be comfortable with being considered losers. well, i don't care, it's all about how I feel about myself

Well, yeah, if you feel this way then it's fine.
But I doubt that you really feel this way.
99.9% of people (including you, I'm sure) DO CARE what others think about them.

You can be in denial of this, but it's true with almost every person.

However, if you truly don't give a shit about others, I congratulate you, and envy you...

As for me, I'm bothered by my virginity a little bit but at least I'm smart enough to prepare so that when the time comes, I will make it a GREAT experience for both myself AND THE GIRL. (Do you know how many teens who lost their virginity at like 15-16 had absolutely no fucking clue what to do, how to please their partner, etc.? Do you know how many of them had unfortunate, bad first experiences?)

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