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| Originally posted by Dopey weren't you criticizing my critique earlier in your podcast? |
I am not even really sure of what a podcast is. 
edit: ok, what a stupid term.
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On I am not even really sure of what a podcast is. |
It seemed pretty clear to me from the beginning that Arbiter was speaking about the viewpoint of the observers, not the "actors" in his analysis.
(just for clarification for others)
MrS
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| Originally posted by MrSquirrel It seemed pretty clear to me from the beginning that Arbiter was speaking about the viewpoint of the observers, not the "actors" in his analysis. (just for clarification for others) MrS |
Dopey=50% of said posts.
Arbiter hit the nail on the head. I had a discussion with my gf today about this. Its a bit like organized religion, it works for some, but has the occasional inaccuracy.
The people whom are married have no shortcomings of telling the unmarried what to do about their personal relationships, yet the calm and unmarried cannot get two words in edgewise on their personal experience and life story, even if the length of the unmarried vastly outweighs the 'married' and 'experienced' party.
Being together means simply that. If you need a priest, then fine.
Generally for me the most difficult people are the ones that assume making something official solves problems.
Oh, and the dumb ones|
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| Originally posted by biznology Dopey=50% of said posts. Arbiter hit the nail on the head. I had a discussion with my gf today about this. Its a bit like organized religion, it works for some, but has the occasional inaccuracy. The people whom are married have no shortcomings of telling the unmarried what to do about their personal relationships, yet the calm and unmarried cannot get two words in edgewise on their personal experience and life story, even if the length of the unmarried vastly outweighs the 'married' and 'experienced' party. Being together means simply that. If you need a priest, then fine. Generally for me the most difficult people are the ones that assume making something official solves problems. Oh, and the dumb ones| |
Seriously, you have no idea what you're missing.
Being in that honeymooner, lovey dovey, mushy stage of a relationship is a really gratifying feeling. You might even say it's euphoric. As much as it may make you want to gag yourself, it really is a wonderful thing, and is refreshing given the new trend set of divorce, infidelity etc. in relationships.
Instead of seeing it as something disgusting, try and see it as encouraging, and positive. I personally try to be happy for the couple, and see it as a sign that, although there are a lot of miserable people out there, you may find some solace in a good relationship, even if for only a small amount of time.
Triple post h4x!
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| Originally posted by Theresa Seriously, you have no idea what you're missing. Being in that honeymooner, lovey dovey, mushy stage of a relationship is a really gratifying feeling. You might even say it's euphoric. As much as it may make you want to gag yourself, it really is a wonderful thing, and is refreshing given the new trend set of divorce, infidelity etc. in relationships. Instead of seeing it as something disgusting, try and see it as encouraging, and positive. I personally try to be happy for the couple, and see it as a sign that, although there are a lot of miserable people out there, you may find some solace in a good relationship, even if for only a small amount of time. |
Doesnt bother me usually with two people going at it like dumb, slobbering animals, in fact it's quite amusing.
What is a worry is someone on a phone doing it... youre only getting one side of the whole perve and thats 'slightly unnerving' in public with the thought that maybe theyre just taking to themselves or something.
Unless theyre kind of gross looking, offensive, weird or nasty, then it kicks it up into the stratosphere of being 'distinctly uncomfortable' 
It surprises me how people showing affection and love freaks people out so much that they would go to the extent of calling it disgusting, uncomfortable, stupid etc.
What is so wrong with people being loving toward each other? I mean, we as a society seem to have no qualms about people screaming and yelling and fighting, but when it comes to love and people genuinely caring about each other, it becomes "gross".
WTF???
Are you that jaded that you cannot appreciate something so beautiful as love? The ONLY time I could think it would be disgusting is if they were groping each other etc. but just being cute and mushy is sweet and endearing.
I don't understand how something as wonderful as love could project such negative feelings in people. I would imagine it would instead spark a bit of happiness, or optimism in some.
AND this is coming from someone who has had their heart brutally broken. So, that is no excuse 
It concerns me that socially, the western culture is more accepting to negative/agressive behaviour toward each other moreso than loving/caring interactions. It begs the question; what the fuck is wrong with us? LOL!
Double post h4x.
Fuck this thread hates me!
tom cruise and katie holmes FTL!
Everyone has a comfort zone, either with proximity, personal preferences and emotional state of mind at the time, its really not that hard to understand if you've got a decent enough experience with dealing with people to comprehend their view on the matter.
For me, couples cuddling and smooching is cute.
Random person at at cafe, public transport or in a movie hauling out their mobile and deciding to have some kind of deep and meaningful or slobbery crap with (maybe) someone on the other end is just kind of weird.
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| Originally posted by eRRaTiK tom cruise and katie holmes FTL! |
it doesnt make me sick it all. infact it makes me envy them. its a beautiful thing
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| Originally posted by RapidFire it doesnt make me sick it all. infact it makes me envy them. its a beautiful thing |
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| Originally posted by Theresa YAY!!! A non-jaded soul |
Re: **** couples that make you sick
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| Originally posted by Caela ...ewwww i'm sure everyone knows what i'm talking about. the "picture perfect" couple that makes you taste bile on your mouth. ewww...who are you kidding? |
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| Originally posted by eRRaTiK tom cruise and katie holmes FTL! |
chunks
im one of those people. like a sick puppy. love is like most drugs, if the start of your relation ship is really good then the brake up it guna suck! but such is life. also you harden to the feelings ofups and downs. much like drugs.
Fast up fast down (coke) thats the one for me.
im off to a hardcore weekender in may. slamin vinyl are doing it . cant wait!!!!!
When my boyfriend and I first got together, A LOT of our friends were jealous, it was kind of fucked up. We never went out of our way to rub in people's faces how happy we were, but we just had that enviable "hot-for-each other" chemistry going on.
We actually tried to keep our relationship a secret, but apparently it was too obvious to hide.
But yeah, it was pretty shitty how a lot of our friends hated on us for that. Surprise, surprise though...most of them are still bitter and single, hahaha.
edit: +1 to what Theresa said.
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| Originally posted by Theresa What is so wrong with people being loving toward each other? |
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| Originally posted by EXTREMUM Let me guess - you're in another one of those bitter 'I hate the world' moods, after a night of drinking and partying? |
Things will be cool again sometime soon Caela.
Til then, pot + booze + partying = temporary great success.
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