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calculus can even solve this problem,

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Originally posted by tubularbills calculus can even solve this problem,

LOL... you're really bored tonight aren't you?

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Originally posted by Theresa LOL... you're really bored tonight aren't you?

yeah kinda. i'd like to drink, but i'm just not in the mood. and i have shit to do tomorrow

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Originally posted by tubularbills calculus can even solve this problem,

LLOL! Right click-save as for future use.

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Originally posted by Theresa Ohhh, well I call him my boy because none of you know his name. His name is Luke. So from now on, I will say Luke... and if ANYONE asks who Luke is, I will kick some ass And yea, I am over exaggerating my feelings now (breaking her fingers etc.), but in reality, I wasn't *that* angry... I was irritated. LUKE. LUKE LUKE LUKE! LUKE!!!

yes yes yes, LUKE LUKE LUKE OMG!!!

/is talking about a different Luke, so don't get jealous

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Originally posted by Theresa So... I have never been the jealous type. I always figure, "meh, he's coming home with me later. Some floosie trying to hit on my boy wont change that". I still think this, but for some reason, with my new boy, I find myself getting these minor, but still existing, bouts of jealousy. I never act on it, or say/do anything, but I still feel this irritation. Saturday night my boy and I went to the bar to meet up with some friends. Some girl came up to my boy, hugged him, and proceeded to chat to him. I was out of earshot. I could tell this girl was into him, and I didn't know who she was, so I decided to come over and introduce myself. Anyway, I could tell she didn't like me *the girlfriend snub*, and I could tell she was all about my guy. It REALLY pissed me off. I wanted to tell the little bitch to fuck off. The weird part is, like I said, I have never been the jealous type, and my boy wasn't responding well to her or anything. In fact, he was very reassuring *put his hand on me when talking to her*. He told me later that they used to work together, and she was always trying to get with him. I could sense that. Anyway... I am wondering if you other ladies are like this? I have NEVER experienced this protective/jealous feeling before, so I don't know whether I should let it bother me, or if it's a normal thing to get aggravated.

Ok I just read this.

I don�t really think that it�s jealousy you are experiencing, but rather your intolerance to being disrespected by that girl. I think these 2 emotions/feelings are very easily confused and misinterpreted. You said that your boy wasn�t very responsive to her and he even made it a point to make some sort of physical contact with you in front of her, which I think is really cool. It shows that he�s sensitive to your feelings and very aware of the situation.

Jealousy stems from insecurity, and you seem to be pretty secure with your boy and yourself, but you may just be really big on respect. That�s pretty much how I am, but I�ve had to learn to just deal with this over the years because there are a lot of fucked up chicks and guys out there who literally get off on doing this. You just have to rise above it and realize how pathetic they are that they need to engage in that sort of behavior to feel good about themselves. Just put on a big smile and kill her with kindness and act oblivious to her flirting.

If anything, you should encourage it. That�ll throw her off.

Like when she mentions a favorite movie or offers some sort of opinion on something, you should look at your boy and be like, �Hey, that's your favorite movie too, isn't it?�

Beat her at her own game.

great track by the pet shop boys... one of favs from them...

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Originally posted by Slylee Ok I just read this. I don�t really think that it�s jealousy you are experiencing, but rather your intolerance to being disrespected by that girl. I think these 2 emotions/feelings are very easily confused and misinterpreted. You said that your boy wasn�t very responsive to her and he even made it a point to make some sort of physical contact with you in front of her, which I think is really cool. It shows that he�s sensitive to your feelings and very aware of the situation. Jealousy stems from insecurity, and you seem to be pretty secure with your boy and yourself, but you may just be really big on respect. That�s pretty much how I am, but I�ve had to learn to just deal with this over the years because there are a lot of fucked up chicks and guys out there who literally get off on doing this. You just have to rise above it and realize how pathetic they are that they need to engage in that sort of behavior to feel good about themselves. Just put on a big smile and kill her with kindness and act oblivious to her flirting. If anything, you should encourage it. That�ll throw her off. Like when she mentions a favorite movie or offers some sort of opinion on something, you should look at your boy and be like, �Hey, that's your favorite movie too, isn't it?� Beat her at her own game.

You know, I think you're right.

I was talking to a girlfriend about it, and she pointed out that I really didn't like one of HER friends because she did something very similar to me (dismissed me and deliberately tried to ostrocize me from the group).

Again, like I said earlier... jealousy would suggest that I felt threatened by her; like I was concerned she may be competition. That wasn't really the case. I was more aggravated that she was just being a cocky bitch getting into my space.

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Originally posted by Slylee If anything, you should encourage it. That�ll throw her off. Like when she mentions a favorite movie or offers some sort of opinion on something, you should look at your boy and be like, �Hey, that's your favorite movie too, isn't it?� Beat her at her own game.

This made me lol. (Y)

I have never been jealous. Not even when my dad finished fifth grade a year before I did.

So Luke and I were cuddled up on the couch tonight, listening to the dance station on the satellite, and chatting about random shit.

Anyway, Justin Timberlakes "Sexy Back" came on right when we were talking about that chick, and Luke joking about me kicking her ass, (because I am so strong and scary ).

All of a sudden I came up with my own lyrics to the song, and it went something like this:


He's got a sexy back
Those other bitches want to get with that
But don't you touch him or you'll get a smack
Because that boy is mine and that's a fact.

Dirty Slut
You see these muscles let me tell you what
Step off so you won't start to push your luck
Cuz if you cross the line then you'll be fucked.


We were cracking up laughing about it. I should be a lyricist

i hope you see her again and luke takes pictures of what happens

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Originally posted by Theresa However, now that I know after the fact that I was cheated on several times, etc. I wonder if sub-conciously I am worried it will happen again.

i'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest that any hint of jealousy has nothing to do with him. it's all about you. good pickup.

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Originally posted by tubularbills calculus can even solve this problem,

Niice! Where was this in high school?

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Originally posted by RandomGirl So Luke and I were cuddled up on the couch tonight, listening to the dance station on the satellite, and chatting about random shit. Anyway, Justin Timberlakes "Sexy Back" came on right when we were talking about that chick, and Luke joking about me kicking her ass, (because I am so strong and scary ). All of a sudden I came up with my own lyrics to the song, and it went something like this: He's got a sexy back Those other bitches want to get with that But don't you touch him or you'll get a smack Because that boy is mine and that's a fact. Dirty Slut You see these muscles let me tell you what Step off so you won't start to push your luck Cuz if you cross the line then you'll be fucked. We were cracking up laughing about it. I should be a lyricist

Do I need to quote this to point out its awesomeness????

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Originally posted by Theresa Do I need to quote this to point out its awesomeness????

Let us know when you claw her face off in a drunken rampage like the wicked, green eyed devil you know you can be

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Originally posted by Lilith Let us know when you claw her face off in a drunken rampage like the wicked, green eyed devil you know you can be

LOLOL'n

so are things cool now? or no?

j is b

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Originally posted by Orbax j is b

it sure is.

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