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Originally posted by Frenchie I socially drink to have fun, not to make my probs go away. but they way the usage of it was being used in this thread was not to just have fun.... I was just asking, no need to jump on my back .

idk for me it was just that I increased my social drinking exponentially. I wasn't sitting at home crying on a bottle of liquor in the corner. I just started going out waaaaay more than I normally would, and going at it harder than I did usually. It was more like taking the easily enjoyable to an absurd level.

edit: it was over a summer, too, which meant there was something to do almost every night.

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Originally posted by RJT You're mistaking chemical dependence for freely choosing to blur your misery with the aid of fun chemicals. There's a world of difference there.

yeah it's not like OMG I need this cocaine/alcohol. more like "well fuck it i'm not thinking about her"

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Originally posted by Frenchie I'm not the sheep here, it seems like I'm on my own. You're the sheeeeep!

I prefer the term "goat" thanks.

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Originally posted by inconspicuous idk for me it was just that I increased my social drinking exponentially. I wasn't sitting at home crying on a bottle of liquor in the corner. I just started going out waaaaay more than I normally would, and going at it harder than I did usually. It was more like taking the easily enjoyable to an absurd level.

That is exactly what I was saying.

You don't intentionally do it...

I was partying a lot in the first place when the break up happened. I just started doing it more often afterward.

You're alone, sad, feeling sorry for yourself, so every chance you get, you go out to have "fun" to be distracted etc. Friends are more likely to call you out because now you aren't with your S.O. and they know you feel like shit, so more opportunities arise. Then it just happens to turn into a big drinking binge.

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Originally posted by Aristronica it's only happened twice. once after freshman year in college and once this past summer. ... and frankly those were my only two "serious" relationships lesson is - denys shouldn't get into serious relationships cuz he's too arrogant to treat a bitch right.

and why is that? whats wrong with serious relationships?

i believe they call it "drowning your sorrow" except in my case i was doing a bit of smoking and snorting it away too.

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Originally posted by Aristronica i believe they call it "drowning your sorrow" except in my case i was doing a bit of smoking and snorting it away too.

we all deal with it in our own ways. unfortunately most of the time the way us guys do that its very unhealthy. we normally use lots of drugs and or drink a ton.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel and why is that? whats wrong with serious relationships?

nothing at all. in fact they were quite enjoyable. i'm just arrogant and don't know how to treat a lady right. they fall in love with me and take a long ass time to realize their mistake. i'm a great guy but that doesn't mean i'm a good boyfriend.

whatever works for you, keep doing it.

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Originally posted by Aristronica nothing at all. in fact they were quite enjoyable. i'm just arrogant and don't know how to treat a lady right. they fall in love with me and take a long ass time to realize their mistake. i'm a great guy but that doesn't mean i'm a good boyfriend.

lol good reason. at least you know your an asshole bf.

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Originally posted by Aristronica nothing at all. in fact they were quite enjoyable. i'm just arrogant and don't know how to treat a lady right. they fall in love with me and take a long ass time to realize their mistake. i'm a great guy but that doesn't mean i'm a good boyfriend.

If you're aware that you're a shitty bf, why don't you change it?

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Originally posted by Theresa If you're aware that you're a shitty bf, why don't you change it?

He's over exaggerating.

But, (and this refers to just about anyone) some people don't change though, so you have to find someone who knows what/who you are, will accept you for who you are and won't take any bullshit regardless of how you act. Anything is possible.

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Originally posted by Theresa If you're aware that you're a shitty bf, why don't you change it?

its probably because he didnt "really" like the girls in the first place.

Human drama is enivitable, and in some cases people feed off that drama.

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Originally posted by chach Human drama is enivitable, and in some cases people feed off that drama.

and Xeno feeds off goat milk...

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Originally posted by Aristronica ...and in turn i shattered my health. Reflecting back on past significant relationships, especially the meaningful ones, and especially those that ended poorly (a.k.a. I was not the one to end it) - I've realized one thing. For the next three months I would go on a complete disregard for my health. Not eating, drinking too much, smoking almost a pack of cigs a day, unprotected sex with numerous partners, and extreme drug use. As if putting all those poisons into my body would cure me of my "ailment". This of course led to many complications and I would suffer further... though physically. Now it worked, fuck did it work! But. Was extremely stupid and immature. Makes me wonder. What did you guys do to cure the post-relationship blues?

haha im totally different, when i got hit down form a relationship, id go on a goal binge, and usually come out 20x better then i was before. I mean from everything from quitting drugs to changing careers, to wqorking out, to everything positive i owe to having a shitty relationship and some bitch fuckin with my head

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Originally posted by chach Human drama is enivitable, and in some cases people feed off that drama.

so is your non avoidability of spelling mistakes

If everyone could handle breakups as cool and without questionable incidents such as myself...the world would be better off

agreeing with all ur replies theresa

i drank every nite out with friends , partied and would stay awake the next day at work with caffeine pills and ciggies (didnt eat at this time)


a permanent fight to move on and leave the illusions

until u find and meet someone new

wow i always thought jason was a good guy marie..

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak If everyone could handle breakups as cool and without questionable incidents such as myself...the world would be better off

rofl!

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i am not posting the pics...

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Originally posted by CranberryJuice until u find and meet someone new

sometimes you even get lucky and their pussy still has that "new car" smell. Ever notice that every fucking single chick on this planet is an amateur astrologist. Wouldn't asking a guy about his dick size be better than knowing he is a virgo who signed his donor cards. Fucking useless chit chat

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy haha im totally different, when i got hit down form a relationship, id go on a goal binge, and usually come out 20x better then i was before. I mean from everything from quitting drugs to changing careers, to wqorking out, to everything positive i owe to having a shitty relationship and some bitch fuckin with my head

I tried that route, but then I realized what I was doing and that it wasn't really helping.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak sometimes you even get lucky and their pussy still has that "new car" smell. Ever notice that every fucking single chick on this planet is an amateur astrologist. Wouldn't asking a guy about his dick size be better than knowing he is a virgo who signed his donor cards. Fucking useless chit chat

There is a good chance he'll actually tell you the truth when it comes to his zodiac sign as apposed to his cock size.

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit so is your non avoidability of spelling mistakes

i for one have come to terms with that and frankly i dont give a fcuk..

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