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Posted by all-nite-freak on May-26-2007 02:59:

i just cant believe you would think i have the ability to distinguish wrong from right. I'll send pics to your dad too if you aren't careful


Posted by Enigmatic XTC on May-26-2007 03:05:

Where i live, the minimum wage is 6.15/hr, but for waiters and others who earn a large part of their income from tips the minimum wage is only 3.13/hr. Therefore, when you don't tip me i am not making anywhere near minimum wage. This is why you are expected to tip. If you weren't expected to tip, the cost of your meal would go up by at least $5 anyway.


Posted by EXTREMUM on May-26-2007 03:07:

20% standard.

25% is higher than average, and 15% is so 1990's.


Posted by Enigmatic XTC on May-26-2007 03:09:

quote:
Originally posted by EXTREMUM
20% standard.

25% is higher than average, and 15% is so 1990's.

You'd be surprised. Most people tip under 20%. 15% or so is about average and it is not uncommon, especially on large checks, for people to tip under 10%.


Posted by EXTREMUM on May-26-2007 03:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Enigmatic XTC
You'd be surprised. Most people tip under 20%. 15% or so is about average and it is not uncommon, especially on large checks, for people to tip under 10%.


Possibly where you live (Carolinas, right?), the cost of living and earning potential is lesser than average - so is the common tipping percentage out there.


Posted by Enigmatic XTC on May-26-2007 03:18:

quote:
Originally posted by EXTREMUM
Possibly where you live (Carolinas, right?), the cost of living and earning potential is lesser than average - so is the common tipping percentage out there.

Perhaps


Posted by Jake Benson on May-26-2007 03:23:

When I was in Miami Beach for WMC, a lot of places I went to had included the tip into the bill. Their reason was "We get a lot of European tourists and they don't understand the concept of tipping."


Posted by EXTREMUM on May-26-2007 03:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Jake Benson
When I was in Miami Beach for WMC, a lot of places I went to had included the tip into the bill. Their reason was "We get a lot of European tourists and they don't understand the concept of tipping."


In Miami Beach, you're expected to drop heavy cash. The tip INCLUDED in a bill is called "gratuities", which is usually 25% of the actual bill. It's basically, a gentler version of "fuck you - have a nice day", because gratuities are meant to be paid separately from an actual tip.

CliffNotes: With gratuities at restaurants, you're tipping the server on the bill. Then, you're commonly expected to leave a separate "tip" to the server, as well.



This is common in some chain and most finer restaurants. With chain restaurants, gratuities may be required and added to your bill, when you have many guests seated at your table - every restaurant has their standards. Finer restaurants require gratuity like it's tradition, since spending money is the only thing rich people know how to do with their lives.


Posted by Jake Benson on May-26-2007 04:22:

quote:
Originally posted by EXTREMUM
CliffNotes: With gratuities at restaurants, you're tipping the server on the bill. Then, you're commonly expected to leave a separate "tip" to the server, as well.


Wow, glad I decided not to tip on top of the "bill tip" then. Guess they must've thought I was an asshole, lol.


Posted by Lira on May-26-2007 04:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Jake Benson
When I was in Miami Beach for WMC, a lot of places I went to had included the tip into the bill.

So, that's exactly how it works here.


Posted by shaw on May-26-2007 04:33:

usually, places only throw the minimum gratuity on the bill if you're in a fairly large party (6 or more), just in case. I think they usually make it about 18%.


Posted by trewqy on May-26-2007 05:04:

I guess its a custom in america to tip, but anywhere else in the world..i dont think tipping is a norm.

stupid custom of course.


Posted by Sushipunk on May-26-2007 05:09:

quote:
Originally posted by echosystm
ive never tipped anyone in my life

i think its just an american thing


Yeah, as I said before, it's just not the custom here. I do it sometimes, but mostly just if it's in a taxi or something, the fare is $19, I hand over a twenty and just say "keep the change mate." Maybe in a restaurant if everything was absolutely awesome (and well priced for that awesomeness ), but not that often, and I know that the waiter/bartender/whoever's wages are not too bad.


Posted by tubularbills on May-26-2007 07:08:

quote:
Originally posted by ZeJayMan


"I'm very sorry the government taxes their tips, that's fucked up. That ain't my fault. It would seem to me that waitresses are one of the many groups the government fucks in the ass on a regular basis. Look, if you ask me to sign something that says the government shouldn't do that, I'll sign it, put it to a vote, I'll vote for it, but what I won't do is play ball. And as for this non-college bullshit I got two words for that: learn to fuckin' type, 'cause if you're expecting me to help out with the rent you're in for a big fuckin' surprise."


MR BLONDE!!!!

quote:
Originally posted by Jake Benson
When I was in Miami Beach for WMC, a lot of places I went to had included the tip into the bill. Their reason was "We get a lot of European tourists and they don't understand the concept of tipping."


When i was in germany, i tipped this one waitress and she freaked out that i gave her too much - she ended up catching me on the street right outside the bar to give me money back. it was kinda weird, but humbling at the same time.


Posted by CranberryJuice on May-26-2007 07:09:

we dont tip or jus ton extra occasion since bartenders , waitress ...have all the legal minimum wage ....all the tips they get are extra money

on the contrary when i do travel , i usually tip because i know the system can be different from france


Posted by Caela on May-26-2007 07:16:

If you have to ask yourself, "should I tip?"...TIP.

I work at a chocolate shop where we make lattes, hot drinks, milkshakes, etc. Our owner thinks it's tacky to have a tip jar...and because of that, people rarely tip on their own. However, most of the drinks take a while to make and I think it's extremely rude when people come in and order multiple drinks without tipping.

Also, if you are at a place where the staff brings your drink/food over to you, or if you are leaving your dishes behind for them to clean up...for Christ's sake: TIP!!!


Posted by mezzir on May-26-2007 07:19:

i don't have as much experience as theresa, but i've worked at starbucks, and am currently working delivery for wings.

starbucks: we got paid (when you're first hired) $7 iirc, and you're guaranteed at least $1 in tips per hour you work. usually tips don't amount to much. you work 15 hours in a week (thats why i quit, fucking impossible to get hours under that management) i'd end up with like 22 bucks in tips at the end of the week or something like that. its all divided up at the end of every shift and proportioned between the employees and how long they worked. nice lil bonus, but nothing you count on or expect.


wings: i get paid $5/hour, and at the end of every night have to report at least $6.75/hour (i think) which is the minimum wage. not a problem though, i make a good amount more than that. the average order's probably about $15 total, and the average tip is usually $2. however, we do a lot of $5-6 orders and you usually get 1-2 bucks on those, and then sometimes you'll take out a $100 order and still just get $2. hell one time i took a $180 order and got fucking stiffed. but yeah, its a college town, if its under 20 bucks usually people will throw you a couple dollars.

the weird thing with delivery is that you gotta figure in gas. so i'll walk away from a good friday with $150 in tips alone, but i'll spend $30 of that on gas. people rarely take this into account, we got one college way on the other side of town that when gas is at its highest can cost like $.50 in gas just to drive there and back, and if you get stiffed you're essentially losing money.


as for how i tip, $1 for a drink at a bar etc, 15% minimum at restaurants, upwards of 25-30% if the service is really fucking good/i'm a regular and like the person etc. and yeah, never really use valet or any of those things and whatnot


Posted by tubularbills on May-26-2007 07:45:

quote:
Originally posted by mezzir
i don't have as much experience as theresa, but i've worked at starbucks, and am currently working delivery for wings.

starbucks: we got paid (when you're first hired) $7 iirc, and you're guaranteed at least $1 in tips per hour you work. usually tips don't amount to much. you work 15 hours in a week (thats why i quit, fucking impossible to get hours under that management) i'd end up with like 22 bucks in tips at the end of the week or something like that. its all divided up at the end of every shift and proportioned between the employees and how long they worked. nice lil bonus, but nothing you count on or expect.


i still don't understand why you would even get tips? it's your job to make coffee and give it to me. me not returning it and saying, "this coffee sucks" should be tip enough


Posted by mezzir on May-26-2007 08:56:

do you tip your bartender?
half the drinks we make are as complex and time consuming, if not moreso, than any drinks you'd order at a bar


Posted by Trance Nutter on May-26-2007 09:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Sushipunk
Dunno. Here in Australia hardly anyone tips, ever. It's really not customary.


yeah, pretty much the only time i've seen it is in a couple of cafes where theres a jar for change at the register if you want. Or yeah if its a cabbie or something I might just let them keep the change if its close to the amount.

The employer is responsible for paying wages, not the customer.


Posted by EXTREMUM on May-26-2007 10:23:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
i still don't understand why you would even get tips? it's your job to make coffee and give it to me. me not returning it and saying, "this coffee sucks" should be tip enough


Two words: Common Courtesy. Besides, it's not the servers fault, that he coffee sucks. You expect to do a taste test for you, upon giving you the coffee? I didn't think so...


Posted by pvdAngel on May-26-2007 10:37:

^ Triple post!

(Looks like I wasn't the only one with slow internets, lol).


Posted by klingklang77 on May-26-2007 13:24:

If they get an hourly wage that isnt below minimum wage, then I dont tip. In America I tip waiters and waitress and bar people (but not every drink). In Australia, nothing. The minumum wage is more than enough and to be honest the service kind of sucks compared to American service.


Posted by Floorfiller on May-26-2007 14:20:

what's everyone think about tipping people at chipolte and the like? seems like tip jars are popping up lots of places that they used to not be...


Posted by nchs09 on May-26-2007 14:21:

i always tip... but seriously why fucking pay someone extra for doing their job. everytime i tip it makes me mad


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