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Posted by PatMcGroin on Apr-20-2002 20:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene

although I respect your choice, I disagree with it completely and see no reason why a loving couple should stop themselves from the completely natural and normal urge to experience the most pleasant and beautiful thing in the world.

because something may come between us.....her goal is to give herself completely to her husband when she gets married, and not only do i respect that, i have made that my goal too.....if we have sex and then break up, then there goes that....its the ultimate gift to give your virginity to your partner in life (wife or husband) so i respect that she wants to do that and so i will not take that from her, or take that gift from her future husband

but to each his own, and your opinion is very valid (well as long as you don't rape people or pay prostitues for sex or something like that)

Posted by DJ Teknique on Apr-20-2002 20:13:

girl are evil.....

i love it

Posted by DJ Teknique on Apr-20-2002 20:15:

Posted by Eugene on Apr-20-2002 20:15:

Posted by DJ Teknique on Apr-20-2002 20:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene

I'm sorry, I'm just being realistic here...

or ignorant

Posted by Eugene on Apr-20-2002 20:43:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Teknique
or ignorant

and why am I ignorant?
please explain, priyatel'

And besides: what if, after getting married, you discover that the two of you are totally incompatible sexually? For example, you have a high sex drive, and she has a low one? Do you know many break-ups occur because of that? And people could have discovered that earlier, by just living with each other making sure they were right for each other, before marriage...

Posted by Raptor on Apr-20-2002 20:44:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Teknique
girl are evil

not jus evil they're the devil! well sometimes... mann how come i can't find a nice girl who's addicted to trance!

Posted by PatMcGroin on Apr-20-2002 23:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene

so what makes you think that if you're MARRIED and then have sex, something may not come between you then?
I'm sorry, I'm just being realistic here...

yes something COULD happen, but i'm not about to just up and marry the first person i like, and nor will she, we'll be together for many years and see how it goes....if then we decide on it, then we'll get married....and if we ever did get married i don't think we'll split up, i think if ever i'll get married then it'll stay that way...i'm not the divorce sort of person, yeah it may still happen, anything is possible, but i'm not about to marry whoever

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-21-2002 03:24:

quote:
Originally posted by PatMcGroin
its hard, its really hard, but i have will power and i'm managing....i'm 19 and i'm still a virgin, i've had plenty of girlfriends and my current one is 20, also a virgin, and we have to stop ourselves from having sex each time....we know what we're doing, but 16 year olds don't and thats why they are imature, hence why i can still call them "kids"

well its ur life but i think u're implying that refraining from having sex==maturity, which is just not true, IMHO...i dont think being a virgin is anything great or special anymore...what about all those who are (so-to-speak) involuntarily celibate?

all the same, i dont think its a great idea for really young ppl. to have sex, but then, as eugene said, they're just like young adults, sum of them mature enuff, sum not

btw, on a related note, i found sumthing really sad, weird and sumthing that made me think quite alot....its quite alot of reading, its the story of this 40 year old virgin(!!) in his own words...stumbled upon it by accident...

http://www.kuro5hin.org/story/2002/4/11/17120/2629

peace

Posted by PatMcGroin on Apr-21-2002 10:52:

the only reason i am refraining from having sex is because i want to wait to give my virginity to that special person, that is all

i am by no means trying to imply anything about maturity....a person can be getting laid left and right and be any age and be mature as hell, and another person can be exactly the same and act like the youngest kid....

i think of myself as mature, hence the ability to refrain from having sex, even though my body is craving it, but thats not the only reason i think i am mature, and the same goes for my g/f i think anyway, although i can't speak for her

and being a virgin is still special to me, and if i stay with my g/f now and we end up getting married sometime down the road, she'll be very happy that i saved myself for her, and the same way

its not for everyone, by no means is it, and i do not look down on people for having sex, so don't get me wrong, this is jsut the right thing to do for myself

Posted by DJ Teknique on Apr-21-2002 17:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene

and why am I ignorant?
please explain, priyatel'

And besides: what if, after getting married, you discover that the two of you are totally incompatible sexually? For example, you have a high sex drive, and she has a low one? Do you know many break-ups occur because of that? And people could have discovered that earlier, by just living with each other making sure they were right for each other, before marriage...

maybe they talk about their sex drive.....if they both talk about whips and chains then everything will be peachy....

Posted by apri_peel on Apr-22-2002 06:25:

oh BLAH

guys are not any better. sometimes you can be so clueless i swear i feel like getting a baseball bat out and smacking you upside the head

like tonight, my bf comes to get me, we go over to his house, watch the hockey game (last perdiod), then he tells me 'you know, i think i want to spend time with my boys tonight' like WHY THE FCK DID YOU GET ME IN THE FIRST PLACE?? so i can spend and hour watching you watch your stupid game and then have you drive me back home?? yeah, thnx a lot you dumbass.

geez, im serious, you guys sometimes dont notice dumb things like these, VERY OFTEN. and the only reason i dont say much is b/c i like him and dont wanna hurt his feelings and we've already had issues with this and i've confronted him in the past and it doesnt seem like shit is getting through his head

so anyways, dude, you've got to confront your gf, and if she keeps on doing it, then you should say 'bye bye' and find yourself someone else who can respect you (exactly what im planning on doing tomorrow)

Posted by sothis on Apr-22-2002 06:32:

big muthafuckin word.

problem with a board that is mostly male is that whenever threads like this come up, typical response is "man girls are so dumb".. like i said in a previous response in this thread, it swings both ways.

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-22-2002 06:52:

man girls are so dumb...

muahahahaha

apri_peel, loved ur post in the rmf humor section about men, cracked me up, if u ever dump ur bf dont forget im here

j/k

Posted by Rostros on Apr-22-2002 11:29:

My Girlfriend is a nyphomanic and she loves trance , so im the happyiest manin the world :]

Posted by PatMcGroin on Apr-22-2002 14:00:

both genders have their faults
if they didn't every other person would be you're significant other, and i guess in God's eyes, where's the fun in that?

Posted by sothis on Apr-22-2002 16:12:

quote:
both genders have their faults

amen to that.

Posted by torontotrance on Apr-22-2002 17:34:

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses......that is why life is so much fun because everyone is sooooo different.

Posted by vmc on Apr-22-2002 20:24:

quote:
Originally posted by PatMcGroin
because something may come between us.....her goal is to give herself completely to her husband when she gets married, and not only do i respect that, i have made that my goal too.....if we have sex and then break up, then there goes that....its the ultimate gift to give your virginity to your partner in life (wife or husband) so i respect that she wants to do that and so i will not take that from her, or take that gift from her future husband

You know something... you're a lucky guy because u find yourself a girl who accept that and think the same way as you. And she's also lucky 'cause she has you thinking the same. My point is that really few people nowadays wait with sex until they get married. No offense, but it's general considered to be old-fashioned, therefore most people prefer free relationships, I mean without marriage, they threat it as a useless 'paper'. That's not my opinion, it's in general. For me, I want to get married in my late 20's...

Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-22-2002 20:54:

quote:
Originally posted by PatMcGroin
the only reason i am refraining from having sex is because i want to wait to give my virginity to that special person, that is all

and being a virgin is still special to me, and if i stay with my g/f now and we end up getting married sometime down the road, she'll be very happy that i saved myself for her, and the same way

its not for everyone, by no means is it, and i do not look down on people for having sex, so don't get me wrong, this is jsut the right thing to do for myself

nicely put Pat. I completely understand your point. While I am not a virgin anymore, i was for a long time. Yes, I broke up with my ex-Gf.. I really do not see the problem with having sex, neither do you, but i am impressed by your choice and determination, which is VERY impressive. I think of myself as a determined person, but i do not think that i could resist having sex.. wow.. mad propz

Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-22-2002 21:00:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses......that is why life is so much fun because everyone is sooooo different.

i cannot say how well put that is, I was almost going to make a reply saying the same thing. I never thought that diversity was as much fun as it is until i finally lived in different countries.

Go, diversity

Posted by hypronix on Apr-22-2002 21:51:

I h8 mind games! they screw up so many relationships... grrr! a friend of mine said they are a must in relationships, to make it interesting (opinions?), but I just think U lose trust in the other and that special feeling U have in a relationship, especially when it gets deeper and deeper... but I guess that's the way things go unfortunately.

hyp

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-22-2002 21:59:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ RozzeR
My Girlfriend is a nyphomanic and she loves trance , so im the happyiest manin the world :]

actually i think u should be worried more than the average bf, because ur gf is much more likely to cheat on u on account of being a nymphomaniac

Posted by ftnb on Apr-22-2002 22:36:

E: was that comment directed towards me or that little bitch chewni? .... hrmmmmmmmmmm.........

Posted by sothis on Apr-22-2002 22:39:

quote:
actually i think u should be worried more than the average bf, because ur gf is much more likely to cheat on u on account of being a nymphomaniac

so since most guys are naturally nymphomaniacs to begin with, is that why most of them cheat on girls?

(note: i was saying that stereotype to prove that your stereotype is dumb)

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