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fuck her, get her pregnant, then go and give the psycho ex a high five.

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Originally posted by Beat Blog this is the COR after all.

And what you forget nooblet, is that this is the COR... everyone gets a beating, sooner or later you'll be reamed by Jennypie getting your ass kicked.

haha its funny, Iv been in this EXACT situation. Physcho ex fiance in my case, I was 18, She was 25, And had a miracle child to him.

Firstly, Let me just say - Older chicks than yourself are THE BEST to date - They are older and more experienced - Therefore they don't fuck around with other guys and they make great lovers.

I would recommend it to anyone, Don't worry about Mr physcho ex bf. A woman needs a man who can give her security. Can you give her security? Can you be there in the absolute worst case scenario and defend her? If you don't think so you may want to work on that..

Take care of her child like a real father should, She'll notice it and appreciate you a lot more for it.

Mostly though, Ask yourself how deep in shit your willing to go for this girl.. Chances are she's had time to get fucked around a lot by ex'es so you gotta be the one who either a)gets out of her way b)gets right in there and is willing to do ANYTHING to keep her safe and happy. And who knows, Since shes older she might even be touching base on the idea of commitment..Maybe not though, The girl i was dating was 25 and yours was 21.

So at this point in time you might ask why we split up? Simply put.. Some woman will be just what woman are.. Confusing. So if she ends up splitting up with you for yet another 'physcho' guy.. Chances are she likes the drama.

Goodluck!!

stay out of trouble!

she sure is not good for you.

ps: dump her in a nice manner if u can.

Its too much of a responsibility... you're 21. Pack your bags, see the world, live out your dreams, get your education....Don't settle down now... If you get into a relationship with that girl its gonna be a lot of headache that you don't need.

Don't do it...

Re: would you?

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Originally posted by R.j. now, we've been talking for a week, and I've gone out with her twice...

Ok, lets try and look at this realistically. You've known her for a week. You've 'gone out' twice. So, some points to consider:


- Do you, as the person you are now, or the person you plan on becoming real quick, have an interest in children?

- How about raising this little bundle of joy?

- And, how about raising a child that isn't yours? (psycho ex could potentially be the least of your worries).

- How about being 18, and hopefully not of the teenage mindset that you really do know better than everyone else. I'm not giving you shit - When I was 18, I thought I knew it all. Dirty little prick, I was.

- Does this lovely lady have a job in any way, or will you be contributing substantially (!!!) to a kid? (Not your kid, by the way, and well, they're expensive, you know) Hope you didn't want to go to college and actually enjoy yourself. You'll be working flat out trying to make ends meet. Study? Ha! Good luck.

Of course, I tend to be pessimistic.

And with good reason, I think. Children are nasty little creatures.

If you go for this, be SOOOO careful man.

OH FUCK....

HE'S the 18 yr old??!

are you NUTS....Get OUT of that.

I actually agree with the majority of what Sushipunk said, But at the same time i wouldn't rule it out personally.. But thats me. I'm not one whose afraid of the whole commitment and having to take care of children.

Christ, if you listened to the morons on this site by dating her you'd practically be adopting her child. Talk about the blind leading the blind...

If I thought you had an ounce of sense I'd tell you to go for it; that said, my suggestion is to steer clear.

damaged goods

Na man, definitely not. You're not ready for this and could just get yourself in alot of trouble. Be nice and all that but stay away from the relationship.

Dude... you're 18!! You only JUST became an adult yourself, and now are contemplating being a surrogate father?

BTW, news flash, getting involved with this chick means you get involved with the kid too. Are you ready to be the second daddy?

If not, then get the fuck out. At least for the child's sake, don't get involved. The kid doesn't need more instability in its life than it probably already has.

Mate your custom status gives you the answer.

Go for it. And meet the ex too, perhaps he can tell you what gets her off so you don't have to mess around trying different things to find out.



best case scenario, you're dumped near to the edge of vegas and gil grissom finds your body, and you're part of an episode of csi


worst case scenario, he dumps your body in miami and you're found by a guy with ginger hair, sunglasses in the middle of the night, and some sort of cheesy catch line. If that happens, you're in an episode of csi:miami.

^^ LOL

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Originally posted by R.j. btw, she's HOT

So, that means you got a choice: use your brain, or use Dickie.

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Originally posted by tubularbills damaged goods

fuck the kid

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Originally posted by Ian Go for it. And meet the ex too, perhaps he can tell you what gets her off so you don't have to mess around trying different things to find out. best case scenario, you're dumped near to the edge of vegas and gil grissom finds your body, and you're part of an episode of csi worst case scenario, he dumps your body in miami and you're found by a guy with ginger hair, sunglasses in the middle of the night, and some sort of cheesy catch line. If that happens, you're in an episode of csi:miami.

I'd like to point out a few things. Since this guy is in Laredo, TX and I grew up there, lets just say this girl is probably a baby making machine. And if the psycho exboyfriend does find this guy, grissom is gonna be doing some investigating in MEXICO. Laredo is across the border from the place they were talking about the drug cartel violence using automatic machine guns and RPGs. Yea I'd stay away.

You're all a bunch of whimps.. Smart whimps.. But whimps none the less..

Take a leap of faith every once in a while, Even if the odds are all against you

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Originally posted by wotyzoid yes, I've learned my lesson of the day.

And this was lesson #.. ? It would be a good idea to print out the lessons and keep them for future reference.

From what I have observed, you are a terribly poor student.

My brother's been there and done that.

The relationship ended naturally soon, and there was little to no drama.

Get out of it!!! it's only for your own good.

there's a lot of good reasons listed here, just finish it off; single women(around that age) with kids, ARE TROUBLE.

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Originally posted by jeeper_095 kids dating single women(around that age) with kids, ARE TROUBLE.

fixed !

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Originally posted by Fl@k Monkey Take a leap of faith every once in a while, Even if the odds are all against you

+1,000

Kids are not kids if they can have more kids!

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