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Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 18:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
So, is that a yes or a no?

She was pissed when I didn't hit on her at a club a few months ago. Given that I'm married I'd suggest it's safe to say she's not opposed to cheaters.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 18:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
She was pissed when I didn't hit on her at a club a few months ago. Given that I'm married I'd suggest it's safe to say she's not opposed to cheaters.

Are you French, well-built, Jewish, and loaded? Do you like Daft Punk's 2nd album?

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 19:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Are you French, well-built, Jewish, and loaded? Do you like Daft Punk's 2nd album?

Nope, but I'm fuckin' hot... that's good enough for dirty girls like Tricia.

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 19:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Nope, but I'm fuckin' hot... that's good enough for dirty girls like Trisha.

Are you too sexay for you shirt?

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-31-2008 19:18:

Who is Trisha?

Posted by Lira on Jan-31-2008 19:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Who is Trisha?

She's someone too sexay for your shirt!

Posted by narcism on Jan-31-2008 19:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Who is Trisha?

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 19:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Who is Trisha?

Sorry darling, I fixed it.

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-31-2008 19:24:

For a moment I thought it was another woman

Posted by Clovis on Jan-31-2008 19:25:

I already date a cheater. her name is bas.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-31-2008 19:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
For a moment I thought it was another woman

Give me a moment and you'll be the other woman

Posted by Yohan on Jan-31-2008 19:58:

quote:
Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO?

I dunno. To my observation, stuff like this you'll find out eventually, through friends, networks whatever. People talk.

And once there is that doubt in a relationship, it's really hard to shake off that feeling, esp. when it concerns whether your SO is faithful to you or not.

I know couple of people who went out for several years, but once the doubt creeped in, the relationship was no longer attainable.

Would I dump a gf once I find out that she has a history of cheating?
To be honest, I dunno. But I give everyone one chance, but no second chance.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on you.

Posted by Yohan on Jan-31-2008 20:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
I already date a cheater. her name is bas.

LMAO.

Posted by iammesol on Jan-31-2008 20:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
and anyone who is cool likes all Daft Punk's Albums.

I was so close...

Posted by Yohan on Jan-31-2008 20:06:

quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
I was so close...

Tricia has high standards. Hence why so many c0r whores get shot down

Posted by leph555 on Jan-31-2008 20:08:

I would

but i wouldn't call it dating

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-31-2008 21:07:

quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
I was so close...

Better luck next round, champ.

quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
Tricia has high standards. Hence why so many c0r whores get shot down
HAHA!

Posted by l�cid on Jan-31-2008 22:05:

of course no one is going to say that they would date a cheater. that would make them seem weak, vulnerable, and stupid... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone?

Posted by gehzumteufel on Feb-01-2008 01:24:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
of course no one is going to say that they would date a cheater. that would make them seem weak, vulnerable, and stupid... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone?

never.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Feb-01-2008 02:02:

Re: Would you date a cheater?

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
This question is mostly for those who have never cheated in a relationship, but I guess those of you who have cheated can answer as well:

Would you date someone you knew had a history of cheating (say, two or more times) on significant others?

i would let them think we were dating if they were really hot just to fuck em. but id never call and act like a total jerk and only come over to screw. then they would break up with me and Id move on to the next broad

Posted by RandomGirl on Feb-01-2008 13:28:

quote:
Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO?

Naturally , if you don't know, then you can't really take action against it.

I have dumped someone I was with for 3 years because I suspected he was cheating on me. Turns out he was. That ******.

If I knew prior to dating someone that they had the tendency to cheat, I wouldn't bother with them. I believe in being loyal and monogamous, and expect the person dating me to be the same. If you need to look for something else in a different relationship when you're with someone, it probably means that A. you don't know how to communicate worth shit, and what good is a relationship without strong communication? or B. you're just a douche.

Posted by TheVrk on Feb-01-2008 14:44:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Cheating is not a mistake.

Cheaters would disagree...meaning ur obv not one of 'em.

If i'm getting into a relationship, i look forward, never backward.
You can always find something, some reason why NOT to date someone..whether its them cheating or another reason

Dating a girl right now, and we've both cheated in the past.
I'm not worried about it at all.

Even if ur dating someone who CLAIMS (stress claims) they havent cheated, that doesnt mean they won't.

Plus i'm convinced a minimum of 80% (likely 90%, specially doods) have cheated

Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Feb-01-2008 15:07:

quote:
Originally posted by TheVrk
Cheaters would disagree...

Yeah, but cheaters are self-serving assholes.

Posted by Eis on Feb-01-2008 15:11:

? :P

Posted by Fibonacci on Feb-01-2008 15:12:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone?

Stupidity almost always surfaces, one way or the other. And if one is accustomed to that type of behavior, it's indicative in their personality. Just takes some time to see, if you are willing to see it. I've had girls admit that type of stuff to me before, and it usually ends shortly thereafter...

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