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Just tell him that she doesn't like him and she doesn't want to be called by him anymore. He might be broken up about it, but he probably won't kill himself. Most people don't.
6 months is pretty excessive.
But some females are very, very strange. Like not talking to you for weeks on end and suddenly your best friend once more. Yeah. Some of them are a bit broken.
//How old is your friend?
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| Originally posted by Vernon_H just the tip. just the tip. |
*points to the door*
*points back*
(every action force has an equal or opposite reaction force 
)
As long as she's going to be disingenuous with the guy, she might as well lie PRODUCTIVELY and just tell him that's she's seeing someone else now, and can no longer talk to him.
End of problem.
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox *points back* (every action force has an equal or opposite reaction force ) |
Same kind of thing happened to me this year. I couldn't take it anymore and I just told the guy to stop talking to me.
She needs to just tell him she's not interested. If he continues then he has issues of dependancy. It is then his problem, and not hers. She has the right to b8tch him out because she has expressed her feeling about him. Not saying anything is also an enabler.
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox I totally think it's HIS fault if he can't get the hint. Why should she be forced to do something totally bitchy and cold (like telling him to fuck off out of her life) just because HE takes her too seriously? |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox I totally think it's HIS fault if he can't get the hint. Why should she be forced to do something totally bitchy and cold (like telling him to fuck off out of her life) just because HE takes her too seriously? |
Two different languages indeed. Guys = what's on their mind, girls = complete and utter horse shit.
Like 90% of the time.
lol
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| Originally posted by iammesol Just because YOU know what you're thinking doens't mean everyone ELSE knows what you are thinking. Consider it speaking two different languages, but on a bigger scale. |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Not all girls are evil bitches... down with the misogyny in this thread |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Furthermore, if the genders in this scenario were reversed, I highly doubt that all the guys would be saying "oh wow, that guy is such a jerk for leading that girl on" I think the majority would be calling the girl a dumb idiot who can't take a hint, followed by a bunch of digusting sexist commentary. |
i think the OP should post a picture of herself. then we'll judge if she's worth it. she may a dog y'know.
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| Originally posted by Vernon_H the OP is not going to get any sympathy in this thread. every guy posting in here IS that guy. |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Good call, I see what you're saying. And I'm not saying I would behave the same way in the given circumstance... I just think it's a weird situation where both guy and girl are at fault making a ghey situation that doesn't really benefit either of them. Furthermore, if the genders in this scenario were reversed, I highly doubt that all the guys would be saying "oh wow, that guy is such a jerk for leading that girl on" I think the majority would be calling the girl a dumb idiot who can't take a hint, followed by a bunch of digusting sexist commentary. |
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| Originally posted by Allied Nations a girl i was seeing wouldnt take a hint and i had to just slowly cut her off and she got pissed at me... i suppose i did put out a bunch of mixed messages, but really she just didn't get it- and she was crap in the sack- my roomate (a woman) called me a jerk- then i saw her a couple days later and ended it officially- she sent me a text one night after a gig where i kind of ignored her/was too drunk and running around to spend time with her saying if i didnt call and explain myself she didnt want to see my anymore... i did nothing, then saw her the next day, she came to the club i worked at and i ended it while she was drunk and i was working... high fives all around. |
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| Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN i dont know why everyone struggles so fucking hard with "hey, im just not interested, please leave me alone". its not rocket science you pussies. |
You should punch your mate in chuff.
At the end of the day when she stops returning calls etc he should of got the idea.
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| Originally posted by Allied Nations bro i did... i really did! then we got wasted and i caved whatever, i ended up telling her straight up at the end and i learnt a very valuable lesson lol |
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| Originally posted by Dj O'Callaghan You should punch your mate in chuff. At the end of the day when she stops returning calls etc he should of got the idea. |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Would you mind letting the class know where the "chuff" is located? lol |
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