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Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 20:58:

of course...i would honestly feel more betrayed by an "emotional affair" than i would a drunken one nighter with some chick whose name he doesn't even remember.

and no doubt i'd be up and gone for either situation lol

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 21:01:

Yeah because the drunken one nighter was most likely not intentional. The talking to someone else while dating someone is.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 21:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Cloudburst
The sleep rape guy?

lol yes!

man what a shame. he was great except for all the closet sexual perversions shit. and the funny part is, I'M the biggest perv ever, he should have shared all of that with me in the beginning and it wouldn't have been a big deal

Posted by Meat187 on Dec-02-2009 21:02:

Lies, people are their true selves when drunk.
*grabs beer*

Posted by ChemEnhanced on Dec-02-2009 21:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
I think that who ever does that clearly has trust issues with their S.O. and probably isn't ready for marriage yet.

Do you guys think it's cheating when you're dating someone and your partner is already talking to someone behind your back? I think it is, in a way. Though they aren't doing anything with this person, they sure are thinking about it.

Simple rule to follow...Anything you do with someone that you wouldn't do with them if your S.O. is standing beside you is cheating

Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 21:07:

one could say it's just a matter of observation to his reactions to real life scenerios that very well might happen down the road.

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 21:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Meat187
Lies, people are their true selves when drunk.
*grabs beer*

Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men.

Posted by Meat187 on Dec-02-2009 21:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men.

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
Lol. Big lie. Maybe for men, but they are scum

Ninja edit fail!

And you're right, for women it's not drunk but being high on weed.

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 21:12:

God damn you all ruining my ninja edits lately. DAMN YOU ALL

and no hun, I've never cheated

Posted by Meat187 on Dec-02-2009 21:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
I've never cheated

Everybody does it!

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 21:40:

I meant I've never cheated on someone. God, you dick. Don't you Germans understand anything?

Posted by Meat187 on Dec-02-2009 21:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Rose
I meant I've never cheated on someone.

That's why you always lose in PvP. Everyone uses mapcheat or aimbot, you'll get pwned if you don't cheat yourself.

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 21:43:

Posted by Meat187 on Dec-02-2009 21:47:

Seems like someone doesn't get what this thread is really about. Pay attention Rose, ffs!
up up down down left right left right B A

Posted by Domesticated on Dec-02-2009 21:53:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
I see nothing wrong with it.

Hard, empirical evidence beats mere speculation (i.e. trust), especially since people are notoriously poor at objectively assessing their romantic partners (most people recognize this, but view themselves as an exception; here's a tip: you're not.)

B-but we love each other.

Posted by nefardec on Dec-02-2009 22:21:

Re: Do you think this is wrong?

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
all the cheating talk in the tiger woods thread got me thinking...

you know how some women (or men maybe i dunno if a guy has actually done this) will put their S.O. to the test, maybe before they get married, and hire some cute chick to throw herself at her soon-to-be husband to see if he would cheat...

you guys think that is legit or messed up?

these situations work themselves out

if the you dont trust your SO enough to pull something like this, there are probably deeper problems in the relationship.

- if the SO is cheating, then the relationship can end and with it the deeper problems
- if the SO is not cheating but finds out, then the relationship can end and with it the deeper problems.

then both can move on and find someone they trust and respect enough cheat on or entrap.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 22:22:

lol totally missed arbiter's post.

Posted by bananas on Dec-02-2009 22:25:

Re: Do you think this is wrong?

Posted by Rose on Dec-02-2009 22:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Meat187
Seems like someone doesn't get what this thread is really about. Pay attention Rose, ffs!
up up down down left right left right B A

Hey I kinda stayed on topic. I was talking about CHEATING. Reading comprehension!

Posted by Lebezniatnikov on Dec-02-2009 23:33:

Re: Do you think this is wrong?

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
all the cheating talk in the tiger woods thread got me thinking...

you know how some women (or men maybe i dunno if a guy has actually done this) will put their S.O. to the test, maybe before they get married, and hire some cute chick to throw herself at her soon-to-be husband to see if he would cheat...

you guys think that is legit or messed up?

My (female) friend did this to me last weekend. I'm not sure what her angle was, but she knows I'm seeing a girl and yet she still told her cousin to pull this on me all night.

Women are manipulative.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 23:35:

what happened? did you take the bait?

maybe she secretly wants you and is trying to get you to cave so you'll break up or something.

Posted by Lebezniatnikov on Dec-02-2009 23:36:

Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you think this is wrong?

quote:
Originally posted by aNYthing
then decides to have q bout of depression,

I hate it when people decide to be depressed! What downers!

Posted by Lebezniatnikov on Dec-02-2009 23:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
what happened? did you take the bait?

No.

I mean, the girl was only in town for the weekend, so it was like why undermine something that could go somewhere for a chance at a one-night stand? My friend's only reaction at the end was "wow, you must like this girl you're seeing." Well, yes, but even if I was iffy on her don't think I wasn't smart enough to see what was going on. I'm not about to jeopardize a relationship for flirting - I'm getting too old for that shit.

quote:
maybe she secretly wants you and is trying to get you to cave so you'll break up or something.

Eh, I don't think so. She would throw a random and not her cousin at me in that case, right?

Posted by Ygrene on Dec-02-2009 23:46:

I'd hire a cuter girl to beat up the cute girl that my wife hired.

Posted by Slylee on Dec-02-2009 23:49:

well girls are pretty damn sheisty and manipulative. she may not like it that you like this new girl so she's desperate to throw someone at you and hope you fuck it up...maybe she's really close with her cousin and the cousin knows how she feels about you so the cousin was willing to get you to fuck up and ditch that girl you're seeing just for your friend.

there HAS to be a reason. that's just weird for a girl to do that to her guy friend. you guys aren't even dating!

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