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Posted by Zyklon_Jay on Oct-10-2011 04:59:

open the door get on the floor everybody walk the dinosaur.

boom boom shakalakalaka boom.


Posted by FuzzQi on Oct-10-2011 05:16:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09


holy fucking shit LOL


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 14:13:

quote:
Originally posted by denys envy
o rly?


beat me to it


Posted by bas on Oct-10-2011 14:47:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09

I always dj on ham radios.


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 15:04:

as to the op, that is more harassment/molestation. if they had forced you to have said threesome, that would have been rape. consider yourself lucky!

on a related note, a family friend's husband keeps slapping me on the ass at dinner parties and stuff when he's had too much to drink. i don't want to say anything to his wife because i don't think he means anything by it... and probably doesn't remember doing it but it makes me uncomfortable. should i slap him next time?


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Oct-10-2011 15:06:

You don't think he means anything by it?


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 15:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
You don't think he means anything by it?


i mean i think he's just acting like a drunk asshole. i don't think he's trying to get into my pants. they have 2 kids, who i'm like an aunt to. i've known them all since i was like 6 yrs old. it's hard for me to think he would intentionally like do something like that to me.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Oct-10-2011 15:13:

http://bodyodd.msnbc.msn.com/_news/...-study-suggests


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 15:15:

yeah... i don't wanna make excuses for him either i'm just not sure how to handle it. they are like extended family to me and i don't want to cause a problem. guess i shouldn't come to the c0r for personal advice lol


Posted by GGM on Oct-10-2011 17:01:

Just givem the ultra cold shoulder and a dirty look next time he does it so he knows its not cool. If that doesn't work call him out on it when wifey isn't around. If that doesn't work call him out when wifey is around. Normal start small and escalate process. Have you actually tried anything or just went along with it?


Posted by VAR on Oct-10-2011 18:38:

this;


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 20:52:

hahaha yeah, i should. umm well the first time it was at a bar and it happened so quickly i was kinda like wtf? i mentioned it to the wifey's mom (i know that sounds weird, but she's like my 2nd momma and i used to live with her) who told me oh it's no big deal, he was just drunk, whatever. so i figured she just didn't want to stir the pot, and i didn't either so i let it go. it just happened for the second time on saturday night. he was like the ass slapping drunk ninja i swear. we were talking, i turn to grab my drink and take a sip BAM slaps my ass and is turned around in another conversation (with wifey? not sure how she didn't see, actually). so i dunno. both times it's been when a lot of people were around, lots of drinks flowing. that's no excuse and trust me i don't want my ass slapped by married men so i guess i really need to say something. i just feel awkward. embarrassed, really.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Oct-10-2011 20:57:

DEFINITELY say something. I was in this exact same scenario and things greatly improved after I spoke up.

Post results.


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 21:04:

i'll keep you posted


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 21:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
DEFINITELY say something. I was in this exact same scenario and things greatly improved after I spoke up.

Post results.


were girls grabbing your junk hal? or did you slap someone's ass....


Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Oct-10-2011 21:44:

his uncle kept slapping his ass at parties


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Oct-10-2011 21:54:

IGK kept hiding his dick in the popcorn when he would take me to movies as a youngster. All these years later, I was finally able to tell someone about it and now he doesn't post here anymore.

Just goes to show.


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-10-2011 22:00:

well, update. i texted him and he apologized, said he didn't mean it negatively ( ), said it wouldn't happen again and he was embarrassed for making me uncomfortable and acting inappropriately. so thanks c0r! good advice.


Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Oct-10-2011 22:18:

ah the wonders of technology

now make sure you wear your sluttiest outfit next time you're going to see him. to test his resolve and all


Posted by bas on Oct-11-2011 01:32:

quote:
Originally posted by prolikewhoa
i don't want my ass slapped by married men

What about unmarried men?


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Oct-11-2011 01:38:

How long do you have left, Bastle?


Posted by prolikewhoa on Oct-11-2011 02:33:

quote:
Originally posted by bas
What about unmarried men?


engaged = married

in my book... equally spoken for


Posted by Zharen on Oct-11-2011 02:33:

LOL@this whole thread. Priceless


Posted by Lira on Oct-11-2011 22:03:

quote:
Originally posted by nefardec
i've personally been in situations where i was sexually assaulted and or harassed, and bouncers have actually insisted that because i am transgender, i was 'asking for it'. the police are no more amenable.

Can't you get names and try to sue them? I'm sure you'd have a case and be able to help other people in the same situation


Posted by Lira on Oct-11-2011 22:10:

quote:
Originally posted by prolikewhoa

Cultural differences aside, I've had my fair share of ass-slapping, and the people involved saw that as an act of affection when I do something dumb and they want to reprehend me.

It's much more common when we're kids but, even if we grow up, old people don't really seem to notice the difference


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