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"You're so shallow, I'm all woman. Many guys would want to get with this."

"I like hip hop, I'm not black."

You know what's funny about my fat friend - she wasn't even fat. But she thought she was! I guess it became my truth too because she just never shut the fuck about it. Stupid bitch.

That guy failed. should have came in her hair. you guys love that.

I'm sure she took many loads in her hair.

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Originally posted by Silky Johnson Insecure people by their very nature, yes, are parasites. I cannot stand people who are always seeking approval/validation from others - energy sucking parasites. Who wants to be around that all the time?? It is such a massive fucking downer.

Insecurity can manifest itself in many different ways. What you're describing is just one particular type of insecure behaviour. I'd say most people are insecure about something or other, sometimes minor and sometimes major.

I know, which is why my first post specifically said "chronic insecurity."

I think everyone has been insecure at one time or the other. I was probably a little introverted as a child. I was good at sports so I was easily accepted with the "in" crowds. I think I gave into peer pressure a lot just to be accepted. As I got older I realized all those times I was pressured into things really got me over my fear of trying new things I thought I may not have been good at. Then with experience comes confidence. I think that is the turning point of being a young adult to manhood. It's when you realize you can pretty much do anything decently if you apply yourself and you are mature enough to make decisions about the things you are willing to try and get better at.


Then again im a 33 yr old male in Canada who still thinks he may get another shot at playing pro soccer one day and is proud about all the goals he scores in his higher tier leagues.....sounds kinda insecure

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy I think I gave into peer pressure a lot just to be accepted. As I got older I realized all those times I was pressured into things really got me over my fear of trying new things I thought I may not have been good at. Then with experience comes confidence. I think that is the turning point of being a young adult to manhood. It's when you realize you can pretty much do anything decently if you apply yourself and you are mature enough to make decisions about the things you are willing to try and get better at.

YES, Amen brother. I agree with this 100%

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy I think everyone has been insecure at one time or the other. I was probably a little introverted as a child. I was good at sports so I was easily accepted with the "in" crowds. I think I gave into peer pressure a lot just to be accepted. As I got older I realized all those times I was pressured into things really got me over my fear of trying new things I thought I may not have been good at. Then with experience comes confidence. I think that is the turning point of being a young adult to manhood. It's when you realize you can pretty much do anything decently if you apply yourself and you are mature enough to make decisions about the things you are willing to try and get better at. Then again im a 33 yr old male in Canada who still thinks he may get another shot at playing pro soccer one day and is proud about all the goals he scores in his higher tier leagues.....sounds kinda insecure

I agree most everyone has been insecure but I think Jenny is talking about people who externalize it in needy annoying behavior.

I don't agree you can do anything as long as you try hard. That's politically correct baloney they tell you in school. It shouldn't stop you from trying something new or doing something you love doing but you're not that good at. For example I've come to the conclusion I'm not musically inclined, I've played a instrument for many years and improved but not to the point I could get up on stage. I could have continued but I'd rather spend my time doing something I excel at.

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay That guy failed. should have came in her hair. you guys love that.

I've heard it does wonders for split ends.

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Originally posted by Silky Johnson I have a hilarious story about that fat friend though... We were hanging out with this guy she liked at the time, and a group of us headed out to another friend's boathouse/dock to hang one night. When we arrived, she was already making out with this guy in the back seat so we all just sorta left them there. Not too long after she comes walking towards the dock, alone, and as she gets really close to me I see she has a HUGE wad of cum on the lapel of her jacket. That was the first time, aside from the time in grade 8 when she fucked some guy from another school but didn't have a condom so used saran wrap, that I was truly disgusted by her. Hilarious though, lol. Fuckin slut.

That's pretty funny. So did you tell her or let her walk around all night with cum on her lapel? Honestly we guys don't have the best aim.

Oh yeah I told her, I was so fucking disgusted by her. I was like "Dude wtf you have CUM ON YOUR JACKET. Clean yourself up ffs."

I honestly could not even look at her that whole night. It was fucking embarrassing.



Btw that same girl now has two diff kids by two diff dads, and I heard through the grapevine she was involved in the methadone program.

You're quite the judgmental little bitch, aren't you.

You don't have insecurities? I find that hard to believe seeing as you're still one of the most active posters on a dead forum.

And one of the only females at that. Lol.

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Originally posted by OrangestO You're quite the judgmental little bitch, aren't you. You don't have insecurities? I find that hard to believe seeing as you're still one of the most active posters on a dead forum. And one of the only females at that. Lol.

You don't want to get into a e-fight with Jenny.

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Originally posted by OrangestO You're quite the judgmental little bitch, aren't you. You don't have insecurities? I find that hard to believe seeing as you're still one of the most active posters on a dead forum. And one of the only females at that. Lol.

I was thinking this exact same thing. She talks a good game but The lady doth protest too much, methinks.

I've never seen anyone bang on about other people's issues in such a derogatory manner whilst claiming she has none of her own.

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Originally posted by Jon Snow You don't want to get into a e-fight with Jenny.

Why are you scared of her lol?

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Originally posted by OrangestO You're quite the judgmental little bitch, aren't you. You don't have insecurities? I find that hard to believe seeing as you're still one of the most active posters on a dead forum. And one of the only females at that. Lol.

That you're taking my post so personally speaks volumes about you, not me.

Carry on, you soul sucking draining negative nancy.


That's the other that is so fucking awful about people who are chronically insecure - they make everything about them, all the time. Fuck off already.

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Originally posted by OrangestO I was told numerous times growing up that I was a draining person to be around and had no earthly clue why.

You still are, fyi.

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Originally posted by Jon_Snow I don't agree you can do anything as long as you try hard. That's politically correct baloney they tell you in school. It shouldn't stop you from trying something new or doing something you love doing but you're not that good at. For example I've come to the conclusion I'm not musically inclined, I've played a instrument for many years and improved but not to the point I could get up on stage. I could have continued but I'd rather spend my time doing something I excel at.

Bullshit. you'll be better at some things than others but I've seen people overcome such incredible adversity that I truly believe just about anything is possible if you really, really fucking try and dedicate yourself. You gave up because the path is slow - some things are easier to master than others, and soem things will come easier but giving up isn;t the same is I can't do it. It's won't do it.

Of course, a paraplegic isn't going to break the world record in the 100m sprint, but within reason and without disability, you can literally do anything you put your mind to. You just haven't had the right teacher, level of dedication or experience to take you where you want to be.

mom's spaghetti

Btw Orangesto, me feeling good about myself has nothing to do with you feeling bad about yourself. I'm not the one you should be upset with, especially since my posts have nothing to do with you and weren't even directed at you.

Here, maybe this will help:

Sounds like OJ is judging you for judging someone he has never met.

But carry on moms spaghetti

I think he thinks that because he feels like shit about himself everyone else should too.

I get it. We live in a world where people are bombarded with messages to make them feel like shit about themselves. If people don't feel like shit about themselves, they won't spend money/consume to try and make themselves feel better.

I get that it's probably hard to understand that a person genuinely has high self esteem and isn't plagued by insecure thoughts and self doubt. Most people are programmed to believe the opposite is normal and true.

I'm not going to lie and say I have insecurities to make someone else feel better about theirs. There are far more important and meaningful things in life to spend one's time thinking about other than THEMSELVES and their petty personal woes. Do you even realize how self-absorbed that is??

It's ironic how insecure people really are so self centered. That's why most spiritual/emotional teachers will tell insecure people to put their energy towards helping others, or getting involved in other people's lives.

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Originally posted by Silky Johnson That you're taking my post so personally speaks volumes about you, not me. Carry on, you soul sucking draining negative nancy. That's the other that is so fucking awful about people who are chronically insecure - they make everything about them, all the time. Fuck off already.

He's just saying what I think a bunch of people have been thinking throughout this thread (and prolly others).

You have absolutely no idea how you come across.

Oh poor RANN. I see you keep posting, and maybe presumptuous to assume you're directing your posts towards me, but I put you on ignore ages ago darling. Pity.

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Originally posted by Silky Johnson That you're taking my post so personally speaks volumes about you, not me.

I just call it as I see it, hun.

You're bashing someone for having kids with multiple men. For allegedly having a substance abuse issue.

And yet you're a nurse. Baffling.

You come across as bitter because she got to suck his dick and you didn't, lol.

Good day.

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