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ok here is the deal...from a woman's standpoint...looks is the first attraction that comes to mind...when you first meet a guy, you obviously don't know nothing about him, so you base it on how he looks...to me i have to be attracted to the guy in order for me to move a step closer on hooking up with him...2. when you get to know the guy even more, then that's when you get to know his personality...like lisa said, if the guy is SOOO STEAMING HOT! but his personality stinks like poo, then yes, i would not persue anything....TRUST ME, this situation comes close to home for me...i have dated hot guys, but their personality is screwed up...hot guys either think their gods gift to earth... been there, done that...now i'am just waiting for mr. right to come along and sweep me off my feet with his charm, sense of humor and if he is HOT then i will die happy but this specific species is VERY RARE!!!

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence But overall, I find intelligent men very stimulating. And I prefer the "nice guys." The ones who are man enough to be gentle with me. And I like men with a good sense of humor...who laugh when I'm being goofy or silly.

Yeah, way to encourage all the poor saps out there.

Listen to her, folks, chicks dig wimps who initiate long intellectual conversations and laugh at random acts of immaturity.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Ew I would never *shave* it, but there are many good reasons for trimming it: 1) Makes you look bigger. 2) Makes you more sensitive. 3) Eliminates the chance of her choking on a pubic hair and thus killing the mood. Plus, a gigantic bush is going to itch. Period.

more sensitive? how short do you trim it? and how do you clean the razor? (electric only for me! (snip is baaaaaad!))

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Originally posted by MERTON more sensitive? how short do you trim it? and how do you clean the razor? (electric only for me! (snip is baaaaaad!))

My roommate actually has one of those barber-in-a-box things that has the plastic guard to get everything perfect and even in size and all that... he's got it all worked out. It's electric of course.

But those who don't have that kind of money usually just use a safety scissors, not any razor at all. Sensitivity-wise, I'm talking about nad hair mostly, but if you've got a HUGE bush then it'll reduce the sensitivity all over.

And yes, I know this is off-topic and some of you don't want to hear it... to you I say fuck you, men are talking.

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Originally posted by EliPsE Personallity......is bs Im nice, funny, have gr8 persoanallity but it dont help at all cuz im a lil chuba, bit ugly too. lol(im not disgusting tho)If u dont look good to begin with. Its hard as hell to find anyone.

im sorry but i dont look good either but i find theres always someone that likes me -_- as long as you just talk to chicks and entertain them its all easy ..

hmmm i don't have much nad hair.. it seems to just grow from around the nuts alot. bah.. i'll shave when i have money... and i'm done buying more headphones.. and tires... and so on.. so... possibly never

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Originally posted by butterfly personality is important but looks are too. i like a nice grabbable ass that i can hold on to during sex.

obviously your relationship needs some help...

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence Usually, I am first attracted to a man's eyes.

Well thats rubbish because if it were important i would have women thowing themselves at me all the time (apparently i have nice eyes)

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Originally posted by smallSHEEP Well thats rubbish because if it were important i would have women thowing themselves at me all the time (apparently i have nice eyes)

No, actually that's the one thing I agree with in her post. Eyes are important, but also how you use them. Some women have these classifications... lying eyes, kind eyes, desperate eyes, lustful eyes... blah blah.

But that doesn't mean they'll throw themselves on you if they like your eyes... just means they'll take an interest. You still have to do something about it.

mine always look pissed off. is that good?

do girls like eye (not plural)?

IMO, looks matter a lot. If I can't look at you, theres no way I'm going to want to kiss you, and eventually sleep with you. I'm sorry, but thats out. Its the same way for guys. You can't tell me that you would want to bone some ugly ass freak of a girl. Bodies are important to me. I keep myself in shape. Work out everyday, eat healthy. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of me?

But, on the other hand, personality is a must. Arrogance is a turn off, along with show offs. I can't stand it when someone talks through a movie to me. STFU and watch the damn movie. If they're judgemental, and hypocritical, bye bye.

I want someone who is good to look at (doesn't have to be hott, you know, just attractive enough to make me smile), takes care of themselves and of me. I want someone who wants to spend as much time with me as possible, but still needs their own time. Who gets excited to talk to me on the phone but doesn't babble on endlessly. Who can have fun at things they might not like. Who can find the humor in any situation. Someone who isn't afraid to be romantic once in a while.

And on the sex issue, You have to want to have sex all the time. Nuff said! Spontaneously. The best sex's I've had were spontaneous and just full of lust. Dominate me but don't overpower me. I'm addicted to sex, ask my last boyfriend. But like I said, can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to.

All you male ignoramus's who are posting so confidently about this topic.. stop thinking that you know everything about girls
http://maddox.xmission.com/girls.html

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence I like hairy chests. too.

omghi2u!

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice A lot of people I'm friends with like it when the man is in control so I think it works both ways!

this is true!

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Originally posted by DigiNut *sigh* Yes, just suck up to women and make sure they know they're in control... then you're guaranteed to get results.

sucking up? nah.. it's not like that. it's more like a little white lie that requires no words

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Originally posted by MERiDiAN5i2 this is true!

Yes it is true, and it's true in probably 90% of cases, for once I agree with Mrs.Spice.

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sucking up? nah.. it's not like that. it's more like a little white lie that requires no words

Submissiveness to women is a bad idea, and lying to them is even worse. I wonder what kind of experience you're basing this "advice" on, because it's very misguided. But hey, what can I say, if it's working for you then go right ahead and continue.

do chicks find dicks visually attractive?

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Originally posted by MERTON do chicks find dicks visually attractive?

No they look like alien mushrooms but then again is a vagina all that cute?

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice No they look like alien mushrooms but then again is a vagina all that cute?

yes very much so...

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Listen to her, folks, chicks dig wimps who initiate long intellectual conversations and laugh at random acts of immaturity.

diginut:

you seem to be very confident about this topic.. not sure if it is because of your personal experiences, or have been burned in the past (because you are that type of guy?) but i don't think it's fair to come across so bitter sounding to many of the guys on here who might be like that.

why? because some women DO like those kind of guys.

let's face it, folks. people are attracted to one another based on looks, at first glance. you don't go up to someone unattractive at the club because you think they might have a good personality. but of course, with time, personalities do shine through.. and the fake ones (guys OR girls) end up leaving if its just the pretty face they are after.

i, personally, would much rather find an intelligent, wacky guy who i can have fun with, trust, and enjoy time with, than a hotter than hell slut-boy who is going to fuck around behind my back, and leave me when something better comes his way.

at the moment i am dating (and living with) the love of my life.. he is all the characteristics that you claim females aren't attracted to. sensitive, caring, totally random and wacky (just like me), nerdy (like me.. in interests, i mean), etc. i couldn't ask for anything better. is he hot? hell yes. but that isn't what made me fall in love with him.

i mean, seriously.. i am finishing up my 5th year in computer science. why wouldn't i want to be with a guy who would initiate intelligent discussions with me? what should i prefer? sitting around talking about adam sandler movies?

it all boils down to an individual person (male or female), and his or her place in life. young kids/teenagers probably aren't going for a soul mate or a long time companion.. thus, they might be a lot more obsessed with looks. but i do think it's unfair to pretend like all women out there want a brainless asshole. that would be just as realistic as me making many very probable blanket statements about males.

(then again, i will admit, i am a bit different than most females out there. perhaps it is because i am a cyborg :/ )

Uh-oh, I'm screwed... Mr. nice, intelligent guy who doesn't pressure for sex and likes fairly deep conversations (what exactly is considered a "fairly deep conversation" anyways) and tends to idolize girls (my first g/f liked that, but my last one hated it). Girls have told me before that I'm "cute", but that could mean anything from "you're cute" to "well I don't wanna throw up every time I see you..." I guess you just gotta find the types of girls you click with - I'm a hardcore gamer, I do web application development for a living, love anime, etc... most of your typical girls would immediately dismiss me as a geek soon after meeting me. So that's why I usually go after fellow geeks, though they are pretty rare to find (tho I have a date with one on Sat... so let's hope it works out ).

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Originally posted by sothis ...

You're making a good point, of course, I'm just not sure how it contradicts mine. For one thing, I'm not saying intelligence is a negative (c'mon, we haven't talked a lot but I KNOW you know me better than that). Nor am I saying that any kind of sensitivity is a sign of weakness. And I definitely don't recall dumping on random and wacky (there is no better thing to be - the less predictable a person is, the more interesting they are).

What I'm saying is, as a guy, if your idea of a pickup is to stare at a girl misty-eyed for 30 minutes, then finally get the courage to walk up to her, tell her she's cute (as if she hasn't heard this 12 times already today), and ask her what she thinks of Half-Life 2, you're going to come off as a trifle weird. And yeah, being in computer science probably does make you a little different in that regard... so for your case, picture a complete stranger asking you what you think of the current political situation in the middle east. It's just not something you do.

If it's random enough to show some creativity ("good god, the 3rd column of your C program is the ancient Chinese formula for Pong Yiao tea, the aphrodesiac that emperor Zhengzong used to make his subjects into sex slaves! How did you find that!?") then maybe, but that's going out on a limb and the end result is going to be equally unpredictable.

Kim, you've gotta tell me that the guy you're with had some measure of self-confidence when you started out. I'm not going to believe that he's a quiet loner in your class who you decided on the spot to start making out with in the lab while he was writing Perl.

I'm pointing out the obvious folley of the guys that are proud of their 'morals' and use them as an excuse to never try to get the girl. I'm concentrating on my education, I'm not the flirty type, I don't want to pressure for sex, I'm looking for the RIGHT girl, blah blah blah blah. Also, that sarcastic comment was partly based on some personal familiarity with the person it was directed to. But the point is, there's a difference between the way a relationship works when you've been together for 6 months, and the way a relationship works when you're total strangers. If a guy isn't a little bit cocky in the beginning, then why would a girl assume that he's got anything to offer?

It's the same as applying for a job, in a way, once you get that job you should work hard and be loyal to the company, but when you're first applying - you've gotta sell yourself! You have to show that THEY need YOU, that you could work anywhere else in the world and that of all those companies, you're choosing them.

Isn't that, after all, what makes a person feel "special?"

Be confident, not arrogant; be a challenge, not an asshole. How does this show any sign of bitterness? Moderation is almost always the best answer. Being a desperate panting puppy dog is no better than being a total prick. IMO, anyway.

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Originally posted by Slylee well i'm gonna bust your bubble by letting you know that the only kind of female a guy is going to attract by playing the whole asshole/hard to get role is an insecure and shallow girl (great for one night stands and things of that nature). real women want a man with brains and a big heart who will be good to them without turning into a doormat. it's all about doing things in moderation to attract the opposite sex. eventually (and hopefully), women grow out of the asshole attraction. i'm guilty of it too....but only when i was in high school and shortly thereafter. moral of my story is that real women like "nice guys" and they don't always finish last...at least not with me.

im nice (apparently...)
so far... absolutely NO LUCK!!!

diginut: well then this was a prime example of me misunderstanding your point.

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I'm not going to believe that he's a quiet loner in your class who you decided on the spot to start making out with in the lab while he was writing Perl.

this seriously made my day. hahahaha ^_^

(note: the reason why i misunderstood is because you seemed to give that response to someone who was talking about how her boyfriend IS (similar to mine).. as opposed to saying how her boyfriend managed to snag her. so i made the corollation between how the guy ACTS, not his pick up strategy)

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Originally posted by DigiNut You're making a good point, of course, I'm just not sure how it contradicts mine. For one thing, I'm not saying intelligence is a negative (c'mon, we haven't talked a lot but I KNOW you know me better than that). Nor am I saying that any kind of sensitivity is a sign of weakness. And I definitely don't recall dumping on random and wacky (there is no better thing to be - the less predictable a person is, the more interesting they are). What I'm saying is, as a guy, if your idea of a pickup is to stare at a girl misty-eyed for 30 minutes, then finally get the courage to walk up to her, tell her she's cute (as if she hasn't heard this 12 times already today), and ask her what she thinks of Half-Life 2, you're going to come off as a trifle weird. And yeah, being in computer science probably does make you a little different in that regard... so for your case, picture a complete stranger asking you what you think of the current political situation in the middle east. It's just not something you do. If it's random enough to show some creativity ("good god, the 3rd column of your C program is the ancient Chinese formula for Pong Yiao tea, the aphrodesiac that emperor Zhengzong used to make his subjects into sex slaves! How did you find that!?") then maybe, but that's going out on a limb and the end result is going to be equally unpredictable. Kim, you've gotta tell me that the guy you're with had some measure of self-confidence when you started out. I'm not going to believe that he's a quiet loner in your class who you decided on the spot to start making out with in the lab while he was writing Perl. I'm pointing out the obvious folley of the guys that are proud of their 'morals' and use them as an excuse to never try to get the girl. I'm concentrating on my education, I'm not the flirty type, I don't want to pressure for sex, I'm looking for the RIGHT girl, blah blah blah blah. Also, that sarcastic comment was partly based on some personal familiarity with the person it was directed to. But the point is, there's a difference between the way a relationship works when you've been together for 6 months, and the way a relationship works when you're total strangers. If a guy isn't a little bit cocky in the beginning, then why would a girl assume that he's got anything to offer? It's the same as applying for a job, in a way, once you get that job you should work hard and be loyal to the company, but when you're first applying - you've gotta sell yourself! You have to show that THEY need YOU, that you could work anywhere else in the world and that of all those companies, you're choosing them. Isn't that, after all, what makes a person feel "special?" Be confident, not arrogant; be a challenge, not an asshole. How does this show any sign of bitterness? Moderation is almost always the best answer. Being a desperate panting puppy dog is no better than being a total prick. IMO, anyway.

i totally agree mate!!!!

on one occasion i was super cocky and started talking about how this was just a summer job and i wanted to do this that when i grew up... i got rejected as fuck...

anyways .. now i keep it low... tell a few funny stories ... (a lot of ppl dont know about india and how each state has a different regional language...) ... where was i??? yeah i just try to love it hardcore!!!!!

with chicks it's different... i've totally stopped trying as such and i could walk up to any chick and start talking whether she was the hottest girl or ugly as sin... too much school work,... i just want to get to know ppl and have fun now!!!!

cheers!!!

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