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haha, I feel bad when I turn down a girl. It seems to happen every time I am at this one club too, I wonder if its the same girl. One used the lighter line, I just said no and continued dancing.
also you can go out with a bunch of your friends, but they need to help. Whereas guys have a single wingman when going in, girls can use battalians to go in. get like 6 girls (including you the instigator) to whisk him away from whatever he is doing and shower him with attention. Oh and all this should be preceeded with eye contact. eye contact is huge, if I see a girl trying to make eye contact and I am not interested I will look away. so it is a clue to move on without a lotta embarassment.
other than that use the ol technique of buying a drink, and starting a convo. a convo with open ended questions not yes/no ones.
if all else fails, move to vegas. 
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| Originally posted by t�bias Thats a pretty weak insult actually. The majority of people don't offer any sort of reasonable advice and act like 12 year olds and someone is actually constructive and you insult them, well, aren't you just the forum tough guy. He doesn't have to justify himself to you. |
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| Originally posted by Boomer187 haha, I feel bad when I turn down a girl. It seems to happen every time I am at this one club too, I wonder if its the same girl. One used the lighter line, I just said no and continued dancing. |
As far as I know, I've only ever had 1 girl ask me out before. I really wasn't interested in her, despite the fact that many of my friends urged me to be interested in her, so I just evaded her at every turn. I was in High School at the time, and the only way I escaped was by graduating.
I don't feel too great about it, because that was probably the only chance I'll ever have at a girl who would ask me out, but oh well - hindsight's 20/20. 
Anyone ever notice how, when engaging with women, they can laugh at your jokes and, at the height of their fake little giggles, they'll reach out to your body and stroke the parts that they're interested in? HOW DO THEY GET AWAY WITH IT?! I mean - you'll say something funny, they'll laugh, and all the while, they just reached out and touched your arm or your chest! If GUYS were to pull that sort of thing, many of us would be looking at the back of the Officer's car more often than not! 
It's a strange game....
To be honest if a girl chats me up I'm usually so surprised it's happened I just stand there slack jawed, nod politely and wait for her to run away.
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| Originally posted by DiMethGuy i must agree with whoever posted that "got a light" most of the chicks who came after me used that line...and it works. so start smoking...or pretend you do |
<--- Tobias
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| Originally posted by t�bias Thats a pretty weak insult actually. The majority of people don't offer any sort of reasonable advice and act like 12 year olds and someone is actually constructive and you insult them, well, aren't you just the forum tough guy. He doesn't have to justify himself to you. |
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| Originally posted by igottaknow You have to beat the girls back with a stick? What cologne do you wear? I want some. |
Another hot polish girl? Are all polish girls hot, or is it just me? You should be able to get this guy easily. Just ask him. He's probably intimidated by you and shy. Get him drunk and make a move.
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| Originally posted by Boomer187 the cologne I wear is called desperation. |
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| Originally posted by Nite-Mer Are all polish girls hot |
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| Originally posted by Rodrico *dunce cap for the dumbass* Keep up the good work, once again you stick your nose in other peoples business and end up lookin like an ass. Orbax is a virgin, he has said it many times. |
if i was near you honey, you wouldn't have to pick me up. ... thats cos you would have already been swept off your feet!
>JM<
IGottaKnow - Did I ever ask you where in CT you're from. I am curious, cause I grew up in Greenwich til I was 12.
-Only read through half the thread so far. Not much new stuff to offer, only 2 things.
1. Got a light isn't always the best line. 50% was a good percentage for when this will work, because some guys don't like smokers.
2. Approaching the guy may work, but again it may not. We seem to have an abundance of guys here who don't mind being approached, but some of those old school guys want to feel that they're the hunters. You going up to them could be a real turnoff. Depending on the guy, might just want to make yourself available. Keep looking his way. Because as several people have already noted, guys are really good at not noticing the subtle hints.
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| Originally posted by Nite-Mer IGottaKnow - Did I ever ask you where in CT you're from. I am curious, cause I grew up in Greenwich til I was 12. |
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| Originally posted by igottaknow Kool another Connecticuter I'm from the northwest corner near Litchfield. Greenwich, yikes bro you must be rich to have lived on the Gold Coast. |
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| Originally posted by Nite-Mer My dad was rich. Not anymore. I moved to Colorado with my mom when I was twelve. I wasn't a big fan of Greenwich, but it's beautiful out there. |
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| Originally posted by StereoPrincess where do you usually see this guy? that makes all the difference on which sort of advice you should get. |
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| Originally posted by Spyder i only saw him once at mark oliver and then i found out that he goes to another club down here in windsor on saturdays... so i dont even know if i should wait till next week or just jump start it this week.. |
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| Originally posted by igottaknow Colorado is sweet luv to trek out there sometime. Hell i'd live in Greenwich if i had the $$$ close by to NYC. |
I did the "got a light?" and hooked up with someone with a girlfriend... ooops... oh well he was hot and it was HIS fault he cheated.
Other things that worked were:
- making fun of a stupid person near me
- "hey, this song is awesome right"
- being tipsy and thus just smiling and laughing with everybody
- "I like your shirt"
It's really too easy
Re: picking up a guy
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| Originally posted by Spyder K to lazy to search and sorta need some REAL advice..... from both guys and girls how in hell does a girl pick up a guy what do i say do i not bother and wait for him to pick me up? should i be drunk or tipsy i dont know!!!!!!!!! i'm so lost and so confused SAVE ME!!!!!plzzzz just a little... and i wont bug again |
) then the guy will do the rest believe me, because it is very very often the guy who make the job (beautiful girls are lazy and they are right cause they just have to wait. If one day all the guys of the world decided to wait, then you girls would have to do the job).
if this is the actual person and not a joke (which it might be hehe) Im not too worried about what Igottaknow thinks about me. Just because someone hasnt stuck their dick in a wet hole doesnt mean they dont know how to be around women, or how to get women. Im comfortable around them and for the most part, women like me. I just have to find one that meets *my* standards.
So keep on railin though, im sure youve gotten your eff on with some real fuckin losers before and learned a lot
The problem is that girls try to be subtle, and guys for some reason (THis means me) do not pick up those subtleties.
I think also girls don't handle rejection as well as men do, but they sure as hell know how to dish it out.
Men don't generally trust girls that try to pick them up...on second thought they don't trust the ones that don't try to pick them up either, but this has no bearing at all on woman picking up men , what the hell is trust anyway but a lame excuse to get someone to watch your dog while you are on holiday.
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| Originally posted by Orbax if this is the actual person and not a joke (which it might be hehe) Im not too worried about what Igottaknow thinks about me. Just because someone hasnt stuck their dick in a wet hole doesnt mean they dont know how to be around women, or how to get women. |
btw who's that sexy stud?
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| Originally posted by Shudder streak |
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| Originally posted by Gunyouken The problem is that girls try to be subtle, and guys for some reason (THis means me) do not pick up those subtleties. I think also girls don't handle rejection as well as men do, but they sure as hell know how to dish it out. Men don't generally trust girls that try to pick them up...on second thought they don't trust the ones that don't try to pick them up either, but this has no bearing at all on woman picking up men , what the hell is trust anyway but a lame excuse to get someone to watch your dog while you are on holiday. |
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