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Posted by Sinatra on Sep-13-2005 20:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
so even though at the end of my letter i said to call me or write back after he clears his head and thinks about what i've said, you guys think i should call him anyway tonight if i don't hear from him?

in the letter i told him to think really hard about whether or not he is ok with the situation right now and if he can deal with it...the "situation" being that we can only see each other on weekends...
Call him!

Like I said, hopefully the two of you realize the situation and take it easy yet have fun.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-13-2005 20:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
so even though at the end of my letter i said to call me or write back after he clears his head and thinks about what i've said, you guys think i should call him anyway tonight if i don't hear from him?

in the letter i told him to think really hard about whether or not he is ok with the situation right now and if he can deal with it...the "situation" being that we can only see each other on weekends...

relationships were meant for weekends. weekdays are days to make money

Posted by Slylee on Sep-13-2005 20:45:

ok so what time should i wait until to call him if i haven't heard from him? like 8 tonight? i dunno, i think i should give him one more day...if he doesn't call tomorrow, then i'll call him tomorrow after work...

Posted by Danny Ocean on Sep-13-2005 20:47:

just call him right now and be like "hey i was just thinking about you and wanted to say hi" then ask him if he's read the email..chances are he already has.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-13-2005 20:47:

Posted by Sinatra on Sep-13-2005 20:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
ok so what time should i wait until to call him if i haven't heard from him? like 8 tonight? i dunno, i think i should give him one more day...if he doesn't call tomorrow, then i'll call him tomorrow after work...
Its all up to you but sooner the better. The fact that he has yet to call you or write back might mean something. I have no idea when its best to call people, because appearantly I am bad a keeping promises to call people. Try a quarter to seven tonight though.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-13-2005 20:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
call me instead. bring ur spell book and wizards hat

lol i was supposed to call u i know...i didn't get drunk enough this weekend!

quote:
Originally posted by Danny Ocean
just call him right now and be like "hey i was just thinking about you and wanted to say hi" then ask him if he's read the email..chances are he already has.

call him now?? no i'll wait till tonight. i'm SCARED! i hope he still wants to keep things how they are...i would post the letter but that's too personal...

Posted by igottaknow on Sep-13-2005 20:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i told him to think really hard about whether or not he is ok with the situation right now and if he can deal with it...the "situation" being that we can only see each other on weekends...

Evar heard of fone sex?

Besides it will be good for him. He can still keep his weekday college sluts and redeem himself on the weekend with his "true" love. j/k

Posted by Floorfiller on Sep-13-2005 20:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
lol i was supposed to call u i know...i didn't get drunk enough this weekend!

call him now?? no i'll wait till tonight. i'm SCARED! i hope he still wants to keep things how they are...i would post the letter but that's too personal...

i think you can call him tonight if it's really bugging you. like i already said...i doubt he will be angry at you. if anything he'll probably be releaved that you called him...

Posted by Slylee on Sep-13-2005 20:59:

k i'll call tonight.

Posted by Aiwendil on Sep-13-2005 21:03:

Din din.

Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Sep-13-2005 21:05:

What? Are you insane? DONT CALL TONIGHT. that will make you weak & desparate. He'll see it & then walk all over you. Then suddenly youll realise 10 years down the track when you have kids & a morgage that you have lived a full prosperous life. & that would suck.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-13-2005 21:10:

yeah fuck him and his momma's boy side burns. ui need to get back together with that cokehgead asshole billy and fuck like the coke will never make him cum

Posted by NiteMer on Sep-13-2005 22:04:

Sounds like you're handling the situation right. It's a little bit of a red flag, if he's getting attached so quickly, but you have to play situations like this out. I've had girls seem way into me, after only a few days, and I proceed with caution from there. If they are a little needy, but I really enjoy their company, I can handle it. If they are too needy/insecure, it becomes a problem for me and I'm turned off by them. The e-mail sounds like a good idea, and now you can only wait to hear what he has to say. Good luck!

Posted by NiteMer on Sep-13-2005 22:06:

Posted by butterfly on Sep-13-2005 22:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
k i'll call tonight.

i think your original insticts were right and you should wait until tomorrow to call. dont be too hasty. it doesnt sound like he is about to run away from you right now.

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-13-2005 22:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
k i'll call tonight.
DONT DIAL THE PHONEEEEE!!!11!11one

Posted by l�cid on Sep-13-2005 22:40:

if you don't call him tonight, i would at least send a txt msg to let him know you're thinking about him.

it's the little stuff that makes the big impressions.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-14-2005 12:36:

HE FUCKING DUMPED ME!!!!!

i hate men. i'm gay.

Posted by igottaknow on Sep-14-2005 13:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
HE FUCKING DUMPED ME!!!!!

i hate men. i'm gay.

ouch! you've been having a rough year of it. i never liked him, but did he really dump you.

Posted by Slylee on Sep-14-2005 14:00:

I don�t understand. He told me it wasn�t enough (weekends only) for him to �feel the relationship� or make a commitment. But he also made little comments about how he is �setting me free� and I can �do my thing� bla bla bla. He did it over the phone first and I told him I was crushed and we hung up. But then I decided to do something spontaneous and romantic so I drove all the way down to his place and told him to come outside and talk to me face to face. He basically said the same things and he seemed like he was really struggling with telling me it�s over. And I told him I really liked him and that this hurt me bad. And then he made a comment about how he was upset that I didn�t go see him on Sunday and I said, �well you could have driven to ft. Lauderdale to see me� and he was like, �well you didn�t invite me and you never invite me to your mom�s, like it�s such a big deal or something�. That made me think that he was upset about that. Like he thinks I was trying to keep a distance between him and my personal life. I think my email really hurt him and rejected him and so he dropped me like a hot potato and I totally fucking blew it

Oh well

Posted by jdat on Sep-14-2005 14:10:

ouch

I'm so sorry to hear about this.
I know you really felt it was something good

I know I'll sound like a prick saying this but what he did to you falls along the line of what I told you earlier.

If the guy isn't willing to bend a little to go along with your terms just as you tried to bend along some ... well .... you two maybe shouldn't be happening.

Send that poney boy back to Columbus.

Ungrateful bastard he is.

[[[[[[[[[[[[[[SLYLEE]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]**hugs**

Posted by igottaknow on Sep-14-2005 14:39:

this is why long distance relationships don't work. your better off this came out right away, instead of goin tru a protracted bitchy relationship. holding grudges and suspicions against one another. "i came up last weekend it was your turn to visit me... blah blah blah" this dude is acting like a girl, blowing hot and cold. good riddens

Posted by Slylee on Sep-14-2005 14:46:

long distance? what the fuck?? i'm 35 minutes away! and i'm moving to miami soon! he couldn't just fucking wait it out!?

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i fucking hate everything today. thank god i get paid tomorrow and i'm getting my hair done and going to happy hour in south beach with my single girlfriend..i'm gonna get at least 3 phone numbers this weekend. i'm going to stick to my original plan which was to play the field and be single. fucking stupid ass craig had to make me like him just so he can be like "oh nevermind, i need more than just weekends. i know i acted like a little puppy dog in love and lead you on and i know i bought you gifts and slept with you and called you beautiful every 2 fucking seconds, but umm NEVERMIND"

i was totally sketchy in the beginning too and tried to talk myself out of him, but i didn't want to risk losing the guy who i thought might finally be a normal sweet guy who will treat me right...

i'm going to have a bonfire tonight and burn that book and stupid top he bought me. i didn't like it anyway it was tacky.

Posted by Floorfiller on Sep-14-2005 15:16:

why is it that spontaneous romantic things never work :/...that shit always works in the movies, but everytime i've done it...big time sucks...

well...you tried slylee. this craig guy obviously has some growing up to do based on what you were telling me the other night so in the long run...you're probably better off, even though at the moment it hurts ya know?

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