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Posted by Zenchowdah on Sep-28-2005 00:58:

just do spur of the moment stuff, even little things.

girl - "Hey have you seen..."
you - "you're the only person ive seen all night long."

its cheesy as fuck, but it works

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 02:32:

Orbax ? wtf is a 'CURB STOMP' :S ... if ur gunna be a bitch then atleast threaten me with something i am familiar with

Posted by Tigo on Sep-28-2005 02:43:

Re: Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by allcentury18
lol a CORe disclaimer... priceless!

in any regard, your girlfriends lack of self confidence has nothing to do with her looks. and by you telling her how awesome she is all the time is hurting your relationship. if you talk about how lucky you are to have her and how she is the center of your world, you my friend are in trouble.

remember as a social being(all humans are), qualification inside a social dynamic, in this case a relationship is completely determined by programming and tests. her test to you is whether or not she thinks you qualify. by you acting needy you are acting submissive to her needs.

ie. you are not showing alpha male qualites and instead she will be less attracted to you.

btw i do free seminars and night training if anyone is interested

he is very right! another trick that i actually learned from tom lycus...is using backdoor compliments! which means lets say ur girls says.....i think im fat...hunny what do u think? u dont say baby ur the most amazing thing blah blah but what u do say is "hunny forget what everyone says...to me ur perfect" this way u have her in ur palm for the most part....she will always be thinking hmmm somehting is wrong with me but atleast he likes me! its a bit more complicated but im sure u can find articles on this technique...i also will be hosting seminars for who ever is interested LOL j/k

Posted by Orbax on Sep-28-2005 02:48:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
Orbax ? wtf is a 'CURB STOMP' :S ... if ur gunna be a bitch then atleast threaten me with something i am familiar with

its making someone bite the edge of a sidewalk and you jump on the back of their head.

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 02:55:

like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u!

Posted by Ygrene on Sep-28-2005 02:56:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u!

Stfu and go post in the 'Meet Shay' thread. Your screenname is perfect for it.

Posted by medinaM5 on Sep-28-2005 02:58:

some girls are just plain dumb and aint worth the time...

i swear, i went to a concert last week and i swear ive never met hotter/stupider girls that just LOVE the dick

i told one girl i was related to joseph stalin, and she goes "oh what band is he in?!"

i just walked away..

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 03:04:

Ygrene no one told you to come out from under your rock. my screenname is fucking fine for any thread i wanna post in so stop thinking your some 'elite tranceaddict' and stop picking on the noob

Posted by Ygrene on Sep-28-2005 03:05:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
Ygrene no one told you to come out from under your rock. my screenname is fucking fine for any thread i wanna post in so stop thinking your some 'elite tranceaddict' and stop picking on the noob

lol, I'm not picking on you. If you read the 'Meet Shay' thread you'd get the joke.

Posted by igottaknow on Sep-28-2005 03:12:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
my screenname is fucking fine for any thread i wanna post in so stop thinking your some 'elite tranceaddict' and stop picking on the noob

hunny forget what everyone says...to me ur screenname is perfect

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 03:14:

that is so filthy :S and to think i was just about to eat,, blah there goes that idea.

Posted by Ygrene on Sep-28-2005 03:16:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
that is so filthy :S and to think i was just about to eat,, blah there goes that idea.

Do you at least get the joke now? I wasn't trying to be mean to you when I said that.

And lols @ no appetite. 'Meet Shay' can be used as a diet aid!

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 03:17:

igottaknow.. THanks u wanna be my friend? lol

Posted by Orbax on Sep-28-2005 03:26:

Youre weird. I dont like weird.

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 03:34:

im weird? =] nope not weird im UNIQUE and your jealous...
dont be jealous ill be your friend too

Posted by allcentury18 on Sep-28-2005 04:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Aquarian
^ good advice ^

Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive?

thanks. you're points are right on, her need to tell him how unattractive she feels is not out of closeness in the relationship. infact that just gave me a good idea. tomorrow i want you(thread originator) to approach your girlfriends BEST friends and ask if she has been complaining to them about anything related to her physical appearance. come back with answers, NOT SKUED and we'll evaluate. again thanks

quote:
Originally posted by Noree
he is very right! another trick that i actually learned from tom lycus...is using backdoor compliments! which means lets say ur girls says.....i think im fat...hunny what do u think? u dont say baby ur the most amazing thing blah blah but what u do say is "hunny forget what everyone says...to me ur perfect" this way u have her in ur palm for the most part....she will always be thinking hmmm somehting is wrong with me but atleast he likes me! its a bit more complicated but im sure u can find articles on this technique...i also will be hosting seminars for who ever is interested LOL j/k

thank you! your advice is applicable in your scenario. however our man here has already passed those simple tests and moved on to a far deeper test. i know the word test is probably throwing you off so i'll use... 'compatability factor' remember a basic drive in all species is the need for the best possible mate. although that is stripped down to its simpliest form, many things become clear when you look at it like that.

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
Uh...what girl wants to feel ugly? People have been pinpointing it, its largely an ugly duckling type syndrome. I guess if you're suggesting that I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't pretty thats a point to take into consideration, but I've dated women before who weren't particularly attractive by other's standards. So I don't think its an insecurity issue for her thinking the only reason I'm dating her is because she's hot. That's not it - or if you want me to be objective, "It is my opinion that looking at the situation objectively that this particular instance is not the root cause"

no i don't think you're grabbing on to the right points in the right context. the fact that you DATE is enough to prove to her, as long as you're not a complete wuss, that you are attracted to some degree. what she needs to figure out now is what level of attraction does she feel with a submissive guy like yourself.

i know you think you're being a gentleman by catering to her needs and acting like a mature person in this relationship. this is very male logical. however you are not looking at this outside your own reality. quit defending her and ask her whats really going on in a stern voice. am i getting thru?

Posted by Ibizadreamer AG on Sep-28-2005 04:32:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
igottaknow.. THanks u wanna be my friend? lol

Go back to BCF...

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 04:38:

haha oh please? wtf is BCF... such an overused abbreviation on this site hmmm...

Posted by Ibizadreamer AG on Sep-28-2005 04:40:

In Soviet Russia BCF knows you.

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 04:47:

lol ? am i in soviet russia nope therefore i d0nt care dnt talk shit 2 me c0z ur draining it mmmhmmmm this d0esnt need a reply so dnt bother

Posted by Allied Nations on Sep-28-2005 04:50:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u!

k.

Orbax = Beast.

Posted by Allied Nations on Sep-28-2005 04:51:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
haha oh please? wtf is BCF... such an overused abbreviation on this site hmmm...

LOL @ overused..

its only been in existence on this site since last sat. night!

Posted by squishymishy on Sep-28-2005 04:58:

considering im a noob n only joined what...? 2 days ago and most the posts ive seen have BCF in there somewhere its overused you think ur superior to me.. well lemme tell u something YOUR NOT mmmhmm lol

Posted by Orbax on Sep-28-2005 05:02:

sounds like citric. few people type that poorly.

Posted by Allied Nations on Sep-28-2005 05:03:

quote:
Originally posted by squishymishy
considering im a noob n only joined what...? 2 days ago and most the posts ive seen have BCF in there somewhere its overused you think ur superior to me.. well lemme tell u something YOUR NOT mmmhmm lol

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