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Its funny (ironic) that the women's movement (which is now pretty much mainstream canadian society) encourages women to stand up for themselves but then belittles men when they chose to stand up for themselves or encourage other men to.

Your defensiveness to peoples replies shows me that you are not over the relationship.... and the fact that people are telling you to move on is obviously something that you are having a hard time doing.

Being a woman (AND a sex and relationship therpist) I can tell you that this girl knew exactly what she was doing and is playin ya like a fiddle. Sorry you had a bad night, but perhaps you can learn from it and also from what everyone seems to unanimously be saying to you Hope everything works out.

The only reason I'm getting defensive is because people are telling me it's my fault she's done these things right in front of me, because some people feel "I" had some part in "her" actions. People blaming me because I was being a nice guy and not throwing her on the street like a $5 hooker. That's all.

I wasn't even expecting it to go this far I just needed to vent! Apparently I touched a soft spot

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Originally posted by Mortyman The only reason I'm getting defensive is because people are telling me it's my fault she's done these things right in front of me, because some people feel "I" had some part in "her" actions. People blaming me because I was being a nice guy and not throwing her on the street like a $5 hooker. That's all. I wasn't even expecting it to go this far I just needed to vent! Apparently I touched a soft spot

nobody is blaming YOU for anything. all we're saying is each person here has been given the right of free will. For every action there is a reaction.

you asked for our advice and our thoughts on the situation and the fact u decided to act the way u did,we're saying, actually made things worse. There is no wrong way to handle a situation but there are better ways to handle them. All we're doing is pointing out your mistakes, not judging you, so then next time a girl tries to play with ur head, you'll be able to see it and react differently towards it.

You got treated shitty, but u did nothing to change the situation. thats all we're pointing out. just personally im a lil more harsh with the truth then other ppl are.

actually u know what, why the fuck am i helping this kid out.


the fact is ur a lil bitch and ur ex exposed it. and the fact u came to an online forum for emotional support just made that lil bitch in you magnify by 100 percent.


heres some good hard advice. turn off the comp. call up the chick tell her to go fuck herself and ur done. never call her again. sit back down,unzip ur pants and dont stop staring at ur privates till uve grown a set of balls. then take two of these and call me in the morning.



and dont forget to pick up mine and diginut's book, make sure its not the sasha edited version, or else u might find urself a lil emotional and sucking large dick

off topic> yankeeBaby that is a HOT pic of armin

On topic> Mortyman forgive me but am so bad with names but I saw u post ur NYE pics and now I know who u are! and I remember meeting you ex that night. Pretty girl...and wow very fucking immature as I have talked to u enough to know you are a good guy and u have a good head on your shoulders...

and I am even more pissed off b/c u are a very good looking guy who is really sweet and it makes me sick that u have let this girl practically ruin the night for u!!

Honest to god...I do not beleive nice guys finish last...but fuck you really have to think about yourself for a change. She obviously has no respect for you...so why do u even bother.

I wish you all the best is Australia...and hopefully the next girl you meet will work out alittle better...and Gadamn that australian accent...fucking sexy!

Cheers!

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy her to go fuck herself and ur done.

funny eric....you of ALL people should know this does not work!

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Originally posted by Jayx1 And last i checked canadian isnt a race but is a nationality of many races.

hence my (??) "behind racist"



and NO, this isn't about nationality. this is about one guy. your generalization makes YOU look rather ignorant. however, i don't think from YOUR posts that all argentinian guys are like you (thank god for that). hell, i know from meeting you that even YOU aren't like you

every canadian i've met is um..well what ya know..different. some are suckers, some are assholes..most are somewhere in between. i've noticed the same for united states guys, and brazilian guys, and aussie guys and briish guys..and dutch guys (yum)

but then again, maybe argentina was special..or maybe your women were stupid. they would hafta be to put up with some of the shit you say

you of all ppl should know im the ta drama king. and with a situation with as much drama as there was, how in the world would i have been able to turn my back on it

Eric, for a sec I thought you were sane for once but you redeemed yourself with that second post. LMAO

Jay, your comments does seem a bit off. Canadian guys are told not to stand up for themselves? Where did you get this from?

Everybody takes a bit of shit, but then after a short while you start to (or at least I do) get reeeeeeaaaaaalllllllllly sick of it...

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Originally posted by spitty hence my (??) "behind racist" and NO, this isn't about nationality. this is about one guy. your generalization makes YOU look rather ignorant. however, i don't think from YOUR posts that all argentinian guys are like you (thank god for that). hell, i know from meeting you that even YOU aren't like you every canadian i've met is um..well what ya know..different. some are suckers, some are assholes..most are somewhere in between. i've noticed the same for united states guys, and brazilian guys, and aussie guys and briish guys..and dutch guys (yum) but then again, maybe argentina was special..or maybe your women were stupid. they would hafta be to put up with some of the shit you say

im not argentine, not even blood related to an argentine. Im a canadian. And generally speaking. Canadian guys are whipping boys. Ive seen it over and over again. You are right, not all of us are that way. But its safe to say that *most* are.

As for the stuff i say, if you notice the common theme in what i have to say is equality and self diginity. I know that these are evil things for males in canada to stand for but i make no apologies for it.

and mortyman: glad u didn't ditch her in TO.

that being said she shoulda slept on the couch, and u shoulda left her alone at the club to do your own thing.

she shouldn't have been grabbing at you when you were talking to other girls, and she shouldn't have been whoring infront of view (no, i have no problem girls handing out their #s to guys. i picked up my last 3 boyfriends and made all the first moves. but this girls motives were pure revenge)

but most importantly, you shouldn't be hanging out with her. u need space after a breakup. if there is no spaces, its only b/c (at least) one of you wants to get back together still

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Originally posted by EvilTree Eric, for a sec I thought you were sane for once but you redeemed yourself with that second post. LMAO Jay, your comments does seem a bit off. Canadian guys are told not to stand up for themselves? Where did you get this from?

take a look at examples from this thread for one. There are several people in here that think that he was "nice" for doing what he was doing. I happen to think that being nice doesnt mean being a sucker and standing up for yourself. But apparently that just makes you an asshole.

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Originally posted by spitty and mortyman: glad u didn't ditch her in TO. that being said she shoulda slept on the couch, and u shoulda left her alone at the club to do your own thing. she shouldn't have been grabbing at you when you were talking to other girls, and she shouldn't have been whoring infront of view (no, i have no problem girls handing out their #s to guys. i picked up my last 3 boyfriends and made all the first moves. but this girls motives were pure revenge) but most importantly, you shouldn't be hanging out with her. u need space after a breakup. if there is no spaces, its only b/c (at least) one of you wants to get back together still

agreed...

and mortyman should take his own advice in the title of the thread. Had he followed it he wouldnt be in the situation in the first place.

If this had happened to me i would have been the nice guy by driving her home and giving her a stern lecture all the way home on how to respect people. Then i would have returned to the party and had the time of my life.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 As for the stuff i say, if you notice the common theme in what i have to say is equality and self diginity. I know that these are evil things for males in canada to stand for but i make no apologies for it.

sorry to bust the bubble, but how you see your online persona is not how most perceive your onine persona to be. and again, you made this thread into something it had nothing to do with. you have the tendency to beat a dead horse, in inappropriate times (aka..here and now)

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Originally posted by spitty sorry to bust the bubble, but how you see your online persona is not how most perceive your onine persona to be. and again, you made this thread into something it had nothing to do with. you have the tendency to beat a dead horse, in inappropriate times (aka..here and now)

its very appropriate to comment about canadian guys here. Because hes a prime example of how many would react in this situation.

As for my online persona. I really dont care because people who know me know who i am and what im about. You can never get your true self across on an internet chat room and i dont even attempt to try to. This is just a place to express opinions. And opinions are a very small part of daily life.

If having a strong opinion is offensive, too bad. I really dont care.

i wish MORE people had strong opinions and weren't scared of expressing them. Maybe then our society would get more things accomplished.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 its very appropriate to comment about canadian guys here. Because hes a prime example of how many would react in this situation. As for my online persona. I really dont care because people who know me know who i am and what im about. You can never get your true self across on an internet chat room and i dont even attempt to try to. This is just a place to express opinions. And opinions are a very small part of daily life. If having a strong opinion is offensive, too bad. I really dont care. i wish MORE people had strong opinions and weren't scared of expressing them. Maybe then our society would get more things accomplished.

i personally don't think this was a prime example of how canadians would act. most guys i know wouldn't have put up with that. maybe you know only pussy guys

i don't care if you have strong opinions. i learn a lot from you. some things (rarely) i agree with, but for the most part, you help me form my own opinions on issues i previously haven't put much interest in. strong opinions are good. yours are good, albeit misplaced in this case

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Originally posted by spitty i personally don't think this was a prime example of how canadians would act. most guys i know wouldn't have put up with that. maybe you know only pussy guys i don't care if you have strong opinions. i learn a lot from you. some things (rarely) i agree with, but for the most part, you help me form my own opinions on issues i previously haven't put much interest in. strong opinions are good. yours are good, albeit misplaced in this case

well then on this issue we agree to disagree. Doesnt mean you are right or i am right (or wrong for that matter). Thats exactly why its called an opinion.

Im glad we cleared that up..

friends again? LOL

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Originally posted by Jayx1 well then on this issue we agree to disagree. Doesnt mean you are right or i am right (or wrong for that matter). Thats exactly why its called an opinion. Im glad we cleared that up.. friends again? LOL

friends still? of course

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy i say say u key her car and stalk her for 2 weeks taking pictures of her while she pees and posting them on the net.

+1, yeah what eric said


girl sounds like a real bitch. some of them are so heartless. move on brother!!!!!

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Originally posted by spitty friends still? of course

Damn. I was hoping for a fight to die involving giant badgers.

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Originally posted by spitty vivid is joking. diginut needs some more experience. and jayx1...wow you're a racists (?) sob!

Why is it that in every thread you presume to know all sorts of things about me? Get it through your head, you don't know me! Stop being so smug and patronizing toward me every time I say something you happen to disagree with.

And racist? Where the hell did that come from?

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Originally posted by EvilTree Damn. I was hoping for a fight to die involving giant badgers.

badgers?! we dont need no freakin badgers!

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Originally posted by Jayx1 A NOTE TO ALL YOU EMASCULATED GUYS OUT THERE... BEING A GENTLEMAN DOES NOT MEAN BEING A SUCKER

mortyman

handing a girl your testicles on a platter is the easiest way to make her lose all sexual desire for you as a man

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