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oh yea and welcome to the year 2006 where women buy men drinks and meet them at bars and restaurants and then have no strings attached sex. why dont they just lay on their backs right there at the bar and spread their legs.


sorry, i'm kinda old fashioned about that. i give just enough of an interest so that they know i'm interested, but if you want to take me out or something, u gotta say so...but i dont mind taking the lead a little. i guess u could say i'm 50/50, but i'm not really the type of chick to like buy a guy a drink or send over my number on a piece of paper or something. i'd rather just smile at him and hope he gets the point that i want him to come over and talk to me. i hate having to spell everything out.

ok, so my question is if he would have introduced himself and walked away would you have made the effort to go see him?

and fyi the all-nite-freak isnt a sexual reference, but more of a description of my afterhour behavior

i dont let women buy me drinks, im old fashioned when it comes to paying,but when it comes to romance i need chemistry.

random sportfucks were for when i was 19, believe it or not i might have a softer side most of you dont know about.TA is my outlet to get the inner prick out,because punching shit is sooooo1993

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Originally posted by Slylee sorry, i'm kinda old fashioned about that. i give just enough of an interest so that they know i'm interested,

that was the same thing i was saying in the first place.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak ok, so my question is if he would have introduced himself and walked away would you have made the effort to go see him? and fyi the all-nite-freak isnt a sexual reference, but more of a description of my afterhour behavior i dont let women buy me drinks, im old fashioned when it comes to paying,but when it comes to romance i need chemistry. random sportfucks were for when i was 19, believe it or not i might have a softer side most of you dont know about.TA is my outlet to get the inner prick out,because punching shit is sooooo1993

well how interesting that we can't stand each other and are so much alike


anyway, no i wouldn't have gone up to him because i honestly didn't know he was alive. for the first time in my life i wasn't on the prowl looking around for hotties...i seriously just didn't care and was there with my girl to have a good time. but when he came up to me, i was shocked that i hadn't noticed him yet because he is exactly my type, physically.

it's so cute when he tells me how he was nervous and kept chickening out to go up to me, and finally he was like, "fuck it i'm gonna go talk to her"

ok ok i'll stop now i'm sure most of you are gagging.

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Originally posted by StanVoid on craigslist get it?

omg u gotta hear something funny. i still talk to my ex on msn and stuff and we're still good friends...anyway, when i created that thread "post funny craigslist ads" i saw some really funny ones on there that i wanted to share with him, so i msg him some links and i was like telling him "look what i found on craigslist hahahah"

and he totally didn't understand it was a website (hadn't heard of it) so he thought i was showing him links to things that craig (my bf) looks at. and of course i was shwoing him personal ads from trannies n shit. and anyway, my ex was like, "umm, why is that funny that he's looking at that stuff?" and i was like, "HUH?"

and then i cracked up and explained to him what craigslist was and he was like OOOH!




just thought i'd share, i thought it was hilarious.

well you see, he is the love of youre life, but you wouldnt have chased him...

you would have missed out...
its not like i make women jump through hoops, but if they show me they are really interested then i go the extra mile to explore and make things interesting.

I have no time for women who have hidden or selfish agendas.

relationships involve 2 people not 1

and to love someone else you have to be able to be true to yourself, love yourself, and accept no substitutes.

i know and i'm thankful that he was paying attention to me. honestly though, i think i would have noticed him eventually that night and if i did i would have checked him out a lot and smiled or something.


who knows...i'll never know. i'm just happy he came up to a girl for the first time in his life that night and that girl was me

i could on forever about that night, and what his perspective on it was and mine...he thinks that i sort of connected with him before he approached me cuz he said it was like as soon as he said, "fuck it, i'm gonna talk to her" and got up, i turned and took a few steps towards him but still wasn't looking at him. but i was about to turn around as he tapped me on the shoulder. it was like at the same time. he thought it was weird.

They don't even notice me before the chloroform rag takes effect ...

ok too friendly now

fuck you slylee craig is a fag

At the bar, I usually go up to the guy and strike up a conversation somehow. Either I mention something about their clothes, their drink... anything to get him talking.

While he is talking, I calculate his repsonse and behaviour towards me, and then decide accordingly to either stick around and keep chatting, or move on.

I usually say something like "we should get in touch", or "I hope to talk to you soon", to give him the open door to ask for my number. If he doesn't, I assume he wasn't that interested and move on.

Anywhere else, I do pretty much the same thing. Talk about something relating to where we are, or something in the immediate situation. If I have NOTHING to talk about, or can't think of something good to say, I will do the "you look familiar" tactic.

But usually, I figure since I made the first move to show interest, the guy should reciprocate by asking for my number. I wont ask for his number unless he approached me.

Oh.. if I see a guy across the room (specifically in the bar,) and I catch his attention to give him a smile, and he seems interested, I will "coyly" meander off, but will plan to "bump" into him later, or pass his table.

I am very extroverted and proud of it. I have no qualms whatsoever about approaching guys. It's like a game for me

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak ok too friendly now fuck you slylee craig is a fag

phew!

I was getting worried there
a-n-f a hopeless romantic?

neverrrrrrr.....grrrrrrr

15 standing backflips... nude.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak ok too friendly now fuck you slylee craig is a fag

of course.


carry on...homo.

i like big black cox and lots of vinyl

no tip though

throw a potato at their head...they get mad at first, but in the end they see that was all in good fun.

its gotten me more butt than an ashtray and a toilet seat combined

Interesting reads.

Anyways, mmm the usual straight stare and look + the smile, always a flirt.

Anyways.. this is what happened to me once in a bookstore ( BORDERS ).. I was sitting down reading the monthly mixmag, and I noticed this deliciously perfect tanned blond chick, she walked into the Cafeteria, and then I just kept reading. The next thing I see is that she's coming tours my side, sits next to me, looks at me smiles as a Hello, seemed pretty cute. As soon as she sat, some guy comes up to her and says that he saw her from the time she walked in and just caught he's eyes, and asked her for her number right there, she replied with a nicely manner

" ooohh IM sorry I have a boyfriend " the guy said how lucky her boyfriend is and what not and he departed with a smily goodbye.

AS I overheard the conversation and watched as the guy left, the chicks turns to me and tells me " I dont really have a boyfriend " with a cute smile on her face..

As soon as that happened my sister came up to me ( whom I had come to Borders with ) and said that we had to go then..

Till this day Im still wondering why did she have to tell me that she didnt really have a boyfriend, did she want me make a move?!?!.. Oh well..

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Originally posted by l�cid i add them to my Top 8 friends on myspace.

*checks*




that explains a lot.







btw, enjoy Keane tonight

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Originally posted by LiquidX Interesting reads. Anyways, mmm the usual straight stare and look + the smile, always a flirt. Anyways.. this is what happened to me once in a bookstore ( BORDERS ).. I was sitting down reading the monthly mixmag, and I noticed this deliciously perfect tanned blond chick, she walked into the Cafeteria, and then I just kept reading. The next thing I see is that she's coming tours my side, sits next to me, looks at me smiles as a Hello, seemed pretty cute. As soon as she sat, some guy comes up to her and says that he saw her from the time she walked in and just caught he's eyes, and asked her for her number right there, she replied with a nicely manner " ooohh IM sorry I have a boyfriend " the guy said how lucky her boyfriend is and what not and he departed with a smily goodbye. AS I overheard the conversation and watched as the guy left, the chicks turns to me and tells me " I dont really have a boyfriend " with a cute smile on her face.. As soon as that happened my sister came up to me ( whom I had come to Borders with ) and said that we had to go then.. Till this day Im still wondering why did she have to tell me that she didnt really have a boyfriend, did she want me make a move?!?!.. Oh well..

Man guys are idiots.

SHE WANTED YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER DUMBASS!!!

Argh it frusterates me to no end that men just can't seem to pick up the most OBVIOUS signals. If a girl is all smiley and sweet with you, and mentions she doesn't have a boyfriend, SHE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND MAY POSSIBLY WANT IN YOUR PANTS!! Ask her for her number!

Yeesh.

straight stare, lower my voice an octave and say...

You're Gonna Get Raped

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Originally posted by Theresa Man guys are idiots. SHE WANTED YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER DUMBASS!!! Argh it frusterates me to no end that men just can't seem to pick up the most OBVIOUS signals. If a girl is all smiley and sweet with you, and mentions she doesn't have a boyfriend, SHE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND MAY POSSIBLY WANT IN YOUR PANTS!! Ask her for her number! Yeesh.

but aren't girls just as stupid for not being a little more forward? it frustrates guys to no end that girls seem to play stupid games. i agree with you, but i think it works both ways...

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Originally posted by Theresa Man guys are idiots. SHE WANTED YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER DUMBASS!!! Argh it frusterates me to no end that men just can't seem to pick up the most OBVIOUS signals. If a girl is all smiley and sweet with you, and mentions she doesn't have a boyfriend, SHE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND MAY POSSIBLY WANT IN YOUR PANTS!! Ask her for her number! Yeesh.

Yeah.. perhaps the Dumbest thing Ive donee.. crap Im stupid with picking up signals from girls.. idiot me

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Originally posted by Theresa Man guys are idiots. SHE WANTED YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER DUMBASS!!! Argh it frusterates me to no end that men just can't seem to pick up the most OBVIOUS signals. If a girl is all smiley and sweet with you, and mentions she doesn't have a boyfriend, SHE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND MAY POSSIBLY WANT IN YOUR PANTS!! Ask her for her number! Yeesh.

yeah even I got that one.

i get my girl advice on TA

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Originally posted by LiquidX Till this day Im still wondering why did she have to tell me that she didnt really have a boyfriend, did she want me make a move?!?!.. Oh well..

Wow.

*hums Sade - Smooth Operator*

i don't have to do a damn thing.

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Originally posted by LiquidX Yeah.. perhaps the Dumbest thing Ive donee.. crap Im stupid with picking up signals from girls.. idiot me

plz dont sacrifice your testicals for the sake of a past oppurtunity.

go out find a tan chick and get her fucking number.

and theresa the problem is some guys have low self esteem and refuse to believe that theyre actually getting symbols..

indicators of attraction are a statistic for me

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