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Posted by Psy-T on Mar-10-2007 03:31:

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Originally posted by La5eR
Well, I think of life as one great big causal reaction. Before I act on anything I think of the reprecusions tomorrow, 1 year, 10 years down the road. I take into account all variants of the resultant aspects. Yes I have heard from a few of my friends that the act of sex or a derivative thereof is an awesome feeling. But one needs to ponder the risks of such an undertaking. One runs the risk of contracting a dormant or active STI, the risk of an undesired genetic mutation of the product, or reputation loss if one didnt meet the standards of ones partner.

living is a 'risk'.

Posted by itsamemario on Mar-10-2007 05:23:

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Originally posted by La5eR
yeah Venom youre right, A one night stand would be awesome but even behind every female with an Emotionally strong fasad is an actual person with emotions and feelings so I choose not to hurt anyones feelings I am a lover not a hater or a person that likes to hop from one to another.

okay, i didnt read all the replies, cus its friggin 6 in the morning (So whatcha wanna do? I got a pocket full of rubbers and my home boys do too), but I know for a fact that many girls enjoy the carefree, no-strings-attached sex once in a while..

Posted by Arbiter on Mar-10-2007 07:06:

Re: Challenges of Asexuality

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Originally posted by La5eR
Ok, I consider myself as part of that 1% of the population that doesnt have a sexual attraction to either sex due to me having Tourette, OCD, and ADD.

On rare occasions I find myself gauking at Females and feeling a little arousal, call me a pervert or any names phrases that you can drum up.

Keep in mind that I chose the route of Asexuality due to me passing on my neurological disorders to my off-spring and not wanting them to have to go through the same hell I have went through over the course of my life time. Thoughts/constructive criticism are appreciated.

In your own words, you "consider [yourself] as part of ... the population that doesn't have a sexual attraction to either sex..." and you go on to say that you "chose the route of Asexuality." That doesn't add up to me. We don't choose whether or not we experience sexual attraction. The homosexual doesn't choose to be attracted to those of the same gender, nor does he or she choose not to be attracted to those of the opposite gender.

If, asexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation, and you are indeed of that sexual orientation, then there wouldn't be any choice involved. But I think that it is a choice for you. You choose to ignore your own sexuality. Now I could play pop psychologist and tell you why I think that might be, but to be honest I don't really care to speculate and I don't think you really want to hear it anyway. So I'll get straight to the point. Be honest with yourself. Face your problems and your fears head on; don't avoid them. Simple stuff, really.

Posted by ultrasonicc on Mar-10-2007 07:52:

Ah yes, the many challenges of Asexuality. Like...not being able to put your penis inside another human. Man, that's gotta be rough.

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