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Posted by gehzumteufel on May-07-2007 16:35:

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Originally posted by l�cid
women are doing a terrible disservice to both men and themselves when they fake orgasms. it's phony and pointless, imo.

afuckingmen!

Posted by Silky Johnson on May-07-2007 16:37:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
women are doing a terrible disservice to both men and themselves when they fake orgasms. it's phony and pointless, imo.

No shit. I never understood why any woman would do this. Mind you, taking into consideration how insecure most women are, it DOES make sense.

Posted by mid0l on May-07-2007 16:37:

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Originally posted by _Nut_
I don't do anything with meteorites, and there is no meteoriteology field.

That's why I like you. You're quick.

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As the girl climaxes all of the blood rushes downward. The tongue will seem cold due to a decreased amount blood (for a few moments). It is as simple as that.

I have a theory. Perhaps your bulbourethral glands produce liquid nitrogen. As this 'pre-cum' enters the female, it begins to freeze her insides, rushing upward, and the tongue will seem cold due to increased amout of liquid nitrogen.

Posted by l�cid on May-07-2007 16:42:

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Originally posted by jennypie
No shit. I never understood why any woman would do this. Mind you, taking into consideration how insecure most women are, it DOES make sense.

i mean, i can see why some women would do it. it's the easy way out and it's the "nice" thing to do... but if you're comfortable enough to let a guy stick his dick in you, you should be comfortable enough to be upfront and honest with him.

and it's even worse if you're faking it during sex with someone you're in a relationship with.

Posted by Silky Johnson on May-07-2007 16:48:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
i mean, i can see why some women would do it. it's the easy way out and it's the "nice" thing to do... but if you're comfortable enough to let a guy stick his dick in you, you should be comfortable enough to be upfront and honest with him.

Exactly. Plus, what about the woman's needs? What does that say about how she feels about herself if she doesn't care enough to speak up?? Low self-worth, imo.

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
and it's even worse if you're faking it during sex with someone you're in a relationship with.

Brutal.

Posted by drivingforce on May-07-2007 19:18:

i remember in my human sexuality class the few times I went the teacher mentioned men only being able to climax a certain amoutn of times, by that i mean actually cumming before the male actually starts cumming blood if you do it a certain number in one day, I dont remember the number though.

Posted by Spacey Orange on May-07-2007 19:45:

Re: Not cumming..

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Originally posted by trewqy
sucks. I dont know why u girls still do it if u know ur not gonna have an orgasm.

Has happened to me a couple of times and its frustrating to do it for like 3 hrs and u still cant finish the job. You finally get hungry and you start to get all limp and..sigh.

you should fake it. blow some snot on your finger and fling it her face while holding your penis in your hand.

Posted by _Nut_ on May-07-2007 19:55:

Re: Re: Not cumming..

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange
you should fake it. blow some snot on your finger and fling it her face while holding your penis in your hand.

That is similar to the 'Houdini'

Tap it from behind, pull out and spit on her back. She turns around upset for having a load on her back when you surprisingly unload on her face yelling HOUDINI!!!

Posted by MR STROKE on May-07-2007 20:06:

quote:
Originally posted by drivingforce
i remember in my human sexuality class the few times I went the teacher mentioned men only being able to climax a certain amoutn of times, by that i mean actually cumming before the male actually starts cumming blood if you do it a certain number in one day, I dont remember the number though.

Posted by Slylee on May-07-2007 20:14:

i think it's kind of harsh to say that women who fake oragasms are "phony". it has nothing to do with that. it has to do with the fact that they are being sensitive to their partner and feel bad for him, so they don't want to hurt his ego. now, i'm not saying that's the case for all girls who do this, but it was certainly the case for me when i used to fake orgasms with my boyfriends.

i know how impossible it is for me to cum, and i didn't want to get them so discouraged to have sex all the time, so i'd fake it, and then later come clean after i had my REAL orgasm. lol

but i've learned now and gotten wiser with age, and i don't do it any more and realize it is pointless, but i had completely good intensions for doing so back then.

Posted by stren on May-07-2007 20:18:

I fake orgasms, when I fap

Posted by l�cid on May-07-2007 20:33:

i didn't mean that women who fake orgasms are phony... just that it's a very silly and dishonest thing to do to someone you're in a relationship with. you shouldn't worry so much about hurting your guy's feelings or bruising his ego. that's totally not what sex should be about. it's about both people having a good time and pleasuring each other, and if you can't be honest about what you want/need, then you shouldn't even be having sex with that person to begin with.

i know it's hard for lots of women to cum, and it's not always the guy's fault either. simply telling him "sorry baby, it's just not happening for me tonight" or "i just can't seem to get over the edge" is not that hurtful. i mean it's not like you have to tell him "damn your dick is tiny!" or "wow you are a n00b at sex LOL!"

i dunno, i guess i've just never had a problem telling a guy if he's doing something wrong or if my mind/body just can't focus on an orgasm... i mean can you imagine how you'd feel if you knew your boyfriend was faking orgasms just to keep you believing that you're doing the right thing? that would make me feel like shit.

Posted by pvdAngel on May-07-2007 20:35:

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Originally posted by stren
I fake orgasms, when I fap

orly?

Posted by RJT on May-07-2007 20:36:

Any guy who has actually made a girl cum even once in his life will know if a girl is faking it, and that will hurt/piss them off a lot more than just being honest.

Unless you're having sex with inexperienced n00bs, don't fake orgasms.

Edit: Jamie, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Posted by iammesol on May-07-2007 20:44:

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Originally posted by RJT

Edit: Jamie, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Powerful words

Posted by Slylee on May-07-2007 20:58:

lol well ok fuckin sue me because i wasn't as mature when i was 19/20 as i am now at 25.

i was just more sensitive to their ego back then and wasn't mature enough to realize i was doing more damage than good.

oh well, u live and learn. like i said, i don't do it any more, so i guess that's the important thing.

Posted by l�cid on May-07-2007 21:02:

sorry Jamerz - wasn't tryin to give you a hard time, just wanted to clarify that i didn't think you were phony.

Posted by Slylee on May-07-2007 21:04:

that wasn't really aimed at you...sorry, i shouldn't have said "fuckin sue me". that sounded harsh.

Posted by l�cid on May-07-2007 21:05:

i WILL fuckin' sue you!

Posted by bas on May-07-2007 21:05:

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Originally posted by Slylee
that wasn't really aimed at you...sorry, i shouldn't have said "fuckin sue me". that sounded harsh.

Not really, coupled with 'lol' and '' made it pretty tame.

Posted by Slylee on May-07-2007 21:08:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
i WILL fuckin' sue you!

lol

hey i washed all your new clothes and i'm gonna mail them this week. i want to burn you a CD of some cool indie rock/electro stuff too, so i'll do that tonight and then get it all out tomorrow.

man, i got rid of so many jeans to give to you, but i went to marshall's over the weekend to get a big picture frame (mother's day present) and decided to browse around the clothes and found 2 pairs of PERFECT jeans. i am so excited about them. got a pair of Seven jeans for like $35. i think they're almost $100+ in the stores.

Posted by Slylee on May-07-2007 21:09:

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Originally posted by bas
Not really, coupled with 'lol' and '' made it pretty tame.

lol

bas, i love u

Posted by l�cid on May-07-2007 21:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
lol

hey i washed all your new clothes and i'm gonna mail them this week. i want to burn you a CD of some cool indie rock/electro stuff too, so i'll do that tonight and then get it all out tomorrow.

man, i got rid of so many jeans to give to you, but i went to marshall's over the weekend to get a big picture frame (mother's day present) and decided to browse around the clothes and found 2 pairs of PERFECT jeans. i am so excited about them. got a pair of Seven jeans for like $35. i think they're almost $100+ in the stores.

Posted by gehzumteufel on May-07-2007 22:52:

Posted by Aaron C. on May-07-2007 23:08:

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