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| Originally posted by jennypie I've been the other girl in group sex situations, and it didn't work out for the relationships either time. Being the other girl, I was VERY respectful to the situation, didn't overstep my boundaries, and let her/them have all the control....and yet it STILL didn't work out for them. Be careful. You may think you know what you're doing until it's all over. |
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| Originally posted by jennypie Oh fuck off, lol. Some of us prefer NOT to broadcast our entire sex lives to the whole world. It's called discretion and/or privacy, and it doesn't make someone a prude. |
HTP - no one is arguing that girls want/fantasize about threesomes too, but your statistics don't mean shit here. the thread starter implied it was his idea... he didnt say "my girlfriend really wants to have a threesome, omg what do i do?!"
it sounds like it's a situation that she finally just agreed to in order to please him.
LMAO @ this entire thread now
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| Originally posted by HardTranceProd Fuck off? lol? the one who posts about cumming and buttsex all the time?? puhleeeze... |
Jenny, buttsex is SERIOUS business. you shouldn't joke about that.
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| Originally posted by HardTranceProd the real dummy here is you, spending all your youth on this godforsaken stupid forum...  and getting your ideas about women and relationships from it... |
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| Originally posted by l�cid Jenny, buttsex is SERIOUS business. you shouldn't joke about that. |
i once got an invite for 3sum but turned it down. although it was for 2 guys 1 girl, which factored into my denny.
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| Originally posted by jennypie I've been the other girl in group sex situations, and it didn't work out for the relationships either time. Being the other girl, I was VERY respectful to the situation, didn't overstep my boundaries, and let her/them have all the control....and yet it STILL didn't work out for them. Be careful. You may think you know what you're doing until it's all over. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee just be prepared for the breakup afterwards and everything should be all good. hope it's worth it lol 3somes should only happen with people you could give 2 shits about emotionally. my 2 cents |
dam i missed alot lol, was in library for past few hours studying on aderole. Anyway....I never really pushed the matter about a 3some. I've mentioned it sporatically...but it makes me think if she's possibly just doing it to please me or actually is curious about doign it. I should probably ask her to be honest with me, because I really do care about her and our relationship is still great and I dont want this possible encounter to end it. Dammit why cant there be a simple answer and result of threesomes lol.
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| Originally posted by Moral Hazard Without question, the other woman involved should be of your girlfriend's choosing. Contrary to what Andrea has said, I would strongly caution against involving any woman that you already know and/or interact with on any regular or even semi-regular basis. Threesomes can bring forward all sorts of feelings, insecurities, jellousy, that you simply cannot anticipate. You may react differently to something this third party does, give her too much attention, seem too interested in the other woman, etc, and it may bother your girlfriend... conversly she may do the same. If any of these little problems that tend to crop up in threesomes does happen and it's someone you already know or have regular contact with they will be magnified. Play it safe, have your girl invite someone you don't already know and will likely never see again into the mix... that will mitigate any insecurities or jellousy that may develop (trust me, I wish I had incisted on this). Another tip... no matter what you may think; THIS IS NOT FOR YOUR ENJOYMENT EXCLUSIVELY, IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU. If you girl is willing to do this it's likely because it's something she wants. Let her take the lead, don't be pushy or demanding, and don't be surprised if there are times when you are largely ignored. Finally, if you really love this girl but the relationship has any sort of instability then don't do it. Threesomes can be good in a stable relationship where both partners are equally open to the idea and very secure in their standing with the other, however, if there is any instability or insecurity this will likely be the begining of a horrible downward spiral in your relationship. Unless you have a rock solid relationship, this is a bad idea. PS... Craigslist.org |
i love threesomes.
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| Originally posted by drivingforce aderole |
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| Originally posted by jennypie Yeah, I think these kind of things either happen or they don't. Ideally you want it to be "spur of the moment". Seems like if you have to really push for it to happen, it's a good sign that you just shouldn't bother. |
hmm this seems to be the place to ask
mostly asking mr. hazard, cause he's the one with the most experience it seems, but the question's open to anyone
as a couple, my (bi) girlfriend and i have thought about it, but i've never been quite sure if it made the most sense to pursue a straight or a bi chick
opinions?
i think you should try to find a bi girl. I think that's what your girlfriend would enjoy the most.
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| Originally posted by TheWhiteQueen i think you should try to find a bi girl. I think that's what your girlfriend would enjoy the most. |
that doesnt really happen in the real world. Besides, where the hell are you gonna find one to hook up with you let alone you and your lady.
i like where this is headed
rofl
that would be a bizzare 3-way
me, my gf, and tony danza's head on a clone of her body
My EXgirlfriend was keen on having a threesome for 2 YEARS, all the way from the start of the relationship she said she would love it.
It never happened, because we couldn't find anyone ... just a warning, searching for someone might drive you nuts.
She also said she loved to swallow and enjoyed anal, which we rarely did...
Knowing some ppl into this scene, I have to say it can be worth it but there are obvious pitfalls as well.
Namely, make sure that the girl you end up fooling around with is into you as well since if she's leaning towards women you may find the two doing their own thing without telling you later on -- and it becomes 'their' thing and 'their' friendship/whatever/etc.
But, hey, whatever happens, you'll have some good memories/stories, lol.
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| Originally posted by Swamper Knowing some ppl into this scene, I have to say it can be worth it but there are obvious pitfalls as well. Namely, make sure that the girl you end up fooling around with is into you as well since if she's leaning towards women you may find the two doing their own thing without telling you later on -- and it becomes 'their' thing and 'their' friendship/whatever/etc. But, hey, whatever happens, you'll have some good memories/stories, lol. |
She might have agreed to it but you guys have a serious relationship & having one can lead to many problems...maybe it won't but some people I know who have done it ended up fighting about it even breaking up after some time.
I guess this varies but I just think this should be left for two chicks you don't care so much about.
Your gf might end up getting jealous in the end
yo let her pick.
period.
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| Originally posted by Slylee swamper, i'm pregnant and it's yours. why haven't you returned my phone calls? we're on springer in 2 weeks, you better be there! |
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