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Posted by Slylee on Jul-23-2007 19:17:

i honestly don't understand why most people seem to think relationships are harder than being single/dating.

i guess if you aren't dating, then yea, it's true. but i hate dating and always having to look perfect, or think about when you should or shouldn't call bla bla bla. screw that. i prefer my buddy/boyfriend every day with steady sex and boring friday blockbuster nights.

no confusion, you know where you stand. what's so hard about that?

Posted by Slylee on Jul-23-2007 19:20:

hahah one time my ex was putting laundry away while i sat on the bed making fun of him for it (he didn't mind, he laughed at himself) and then i threw a pair of my capri shorts at him and demanded that he put them on and he did. he could barely get them past his knees but i was fucking dying laughing. then i went to grab the digital camera and he was like, "AHAH FUCK THAT" and tried to take them off in a hurry and almost fell.

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 19:20:

i agree...but some have that fear of being alone that will lead them to say anything you want to hear to be with you. The act never lasts.

Posted by dj tek on Jul-23-2007 19:23:

bout to hit up akkz' and watch a flick over some treez and unwind the wknd tiredness i coulndt fully do last nite... i fell asleep watching entourage..wtf..lol haha

Posted by Spike on Jul-23-2007 19:26:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN

perfect example of becoming what you hate

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 19:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i honestly don't understand why most people seem to think relationships are harder than being single/dating.

i guess if you aren't dating, then yea, it's true. but i hate dating and always having to look perfect, or think about when you should or shouldn't call bla bla bla. screw that. i prefer my buddy/boyfriend every day with steady sex and boring friday blockbuster nights.

no confusion, you know where you stand. what's so hard about that?

see that sounds wonderful... it's all the stupidity that we've all experienced that makes us skittish around the relationship word. i've been through some ridiculous situations and i'll admit i don't really have time for any drama-ness. I would love to get to the curl up in scrubs and watch tv point, after marathon sex. It's just hard getting there.

I know when you find the right person, there shouldn't be any effort. It should be so frikken easy that you ask yourself "Damn this is way too easy, WTF?"... Its just hard to find someone who is at the same place as you. Maybe that's the making it work, effort thing people keep talking about.

Posted by dj tek on Jul-23-2007 19:31:

word.. finding the person that connect with you mentally is the most important thing if youre looking to get into a relationship... if not you shouldnt even think of getting into one. its destined to fail.

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 19:32:

quote:
Originally posted by dj tek
word.. finding the person that connect with you mentally is the most important thing if youre looking to get into a relationship... if not you shouldnt even think of getting into one. its destined to fail.

yep... another friend said, "you don't start a relationship, one day you just wake up and find yourself in one..."

didn't believe it, until it happened

Posted by DJ_Eternal on Jul-23-2007 19:33:

Relationships have become second nature to me over the years. I've bounced back between relationships and shag-a-night phases, and I'd still prefer to be a in a relationship any day of the week.

I guess i like being that committed to someone, and when you find the right person, it's perfection.

Posted by EarnYourKeep on Jul-23-2007 19:34:

Posted by dj tek on Jul-23-2007 19:36:

i met my girl at a fucking rave both of us rolling face ! just happened to be that she was exactly the type i was looking for in terms of face/peronality.

i was looking for a cute japanese raver then...

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 19:37:

quote:
Originally posted by cheshirepk8
see that sounds wonderful... it's all the stupidity that we've all experienced that makes us skittish around the relationship word. i've been through some ridiculous situations and i'll admit i don't really have time for any drama-ness. I would love to get to the curl up in scrubs and watch tv point, after marathon sex. It's just hard getting there.

I know when you find the right person, there shouldn't be any effort. It should be so frikken easy that you ask yourself "Damn this is way too easy, WTF?"... Its just hard to find someone who is at the same place as you. Maybe that's the making it work, effort thing people keep talking about.

scrubs? in engineering....hahahaha...oh oh. I think i know you alt

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 19:38:

quote:
Originally posted by all-nite-freak
scrubs? in engineering....hahahaha...oh oh. I think i know you alt

um... probably not.

wouldn't that require me to have one?

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 19:40:

nvermd..im having deja vu...must be the chowda

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 19:43:

quote:
Originally posted by all-nite-freak
nvermd..im having deja vu...must be the chowda

haha.

it's all good. you must get confuzzled with all the NE girls you know.

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 19:50:

i blame the scabies...if you have scrubs you can maybe help me? I'll wear a dress and assume the Simms position

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 20:01:

quote:
Originally posted by all-nite-freak
i blame the scabies...if you have scrubs you can maybe help me? I'll wear a dress and assume the Simms position

Simms position?

i would google it, but i am at work and don't want to trip the filters!
kinda hard to explain to my boss "so yeah this dude who had a dirty dipstick..."

Posted by gehzumteufel on Jul-23-2007 20:02:

Posted by gehzumteufel on Jul-23-2007 20:05:

quote:
Originally posted by cheshirepk8
Simms position?

i would google it, but i am at work and don't want to trip the filters!
kinda hard to explain to my boss "so yeah this dude who had a dirty dipstick..."

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 20:06:

quote:
Originally posted by gehzumteufel

hahahahaha.... thank you.

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 20:09:

i thought you would know medical terms if you wore scrubs

my dipstick is new and improved thanks to medical technology and self imposed punani hiatus. I would never post anything NSFW...right guys?

Relationshits always tend to be bullshit because people misrepresent themselves due to that fear of being alone...alone rocks! Its cheaper and you don't have to meet parents and pretend you aren't fit for the mental institute.

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-23-2007 20:21:

quote:
Originally posted by all-nite-freak
i thought you would know medical terms if you wore scrubs

my dipstick is new and improved thanks to medical technology and self imposed punani hiatus. I would never post anything NSFW...right guys?

Relationshits always tend to be bullshit because people misrepresent themselves due to that fear of being alone...alone rocks! Its cheaper and you don't have to meet parents and pretend you aren't fit for the mental institute.

scrubs = all-inclusive term for comfy fitting pajama-type pants. Which surprisingly enough actually make your ass look really good if you find the right pair. they make me happy. when i am in comfy mode, i rock the scrubs.

i am a computer geek not a doctor. Computer Science + Computer Engineering.

punani hiatus?? oh jesus. so you will be even more ornery than normal.
i am scared to think of what will happen when you remove said hiatus.

ah see, both of my parents are psychologists so i am quite skilled at the pretending I'm not fit for a mental institute. actually, it's made dealing with people a little easier. i realized when i got older that i really really should have listened to them about some previous boyfriends of mine... hindsight is 20/20 i guess.

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-23-2007 20:24:

the punnani hiatus is over...i just don't chase it like before.

I'm a pro at pretending im not insane until they catch me in their mom's room singing showtunes with her panties on my head.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-23-2007 20:26:

Why is it that the people who are perpetually single and/or in and out of relationships are always the ones giving the most advice?

Posted by Slylee on Jul-23-2007 20:28:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Why is it that the people who are perpetually single and/or in and out of relationships are always the ones giving the most advice?

probably because they're the ones who have learned a lot through trial and error?

and i don't see any advice in this thread...just opinions on relationships v. dating

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