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Originally posted by hypronix I h8 mind games! they screw up so many relationships... grrr! a friend of mine said they are a must in relationships, to make it interesting (opinions?), but I just think U lose trust in the other and that special feeling U have in a relationship, especially when it gets deeper and deeper... but I guess that's the way things go unfortunately. hyp

people play mind games cus thats just the way we are- animals
its like wanting what you cant have, you want it but when you get it u dont want it.... know what i mean?
people play mind games so the other person doesn't know what they're thinkin (ie "i like you") cus once they figure out that they can have the other person they dont want them anymore, its all bullshit, but thats how we are

anyway just be yourself (anyway, who else do u wanna be ) and things'll work out


(BTW DROP THAT HOE)

later

hehe girlfriends, hmm good things!!! fuckin ages since i had one like!


anyway hehe. god help the women who ever tries mind games with me, mwuahhaahhaha!!!

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Originally posted by DJ RozzeR My Girlfriend is a nyphomanic and she loves trance , so im the happyiest manin the world :]

oh, you're so lucky! But don't think this relationship will last for long...

mind games..................
i dont like them but sometimes im forced to play them b/c you really dont want to be confronting him straight up, often because it's either a touchy issue or it's something you wouldnt really want anyone to tell you but maybe kinda hint on it
the world would have been such a better place if we all could just be honest with each other, but truth sometimes hurts and must be covered up with mind games and sweet lies

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Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR anyway hehe. god help the women who ever tries mind games with me, mwuahhaahhaha!!!

I've been mind-gamed by the girl I was trying to pick up recently and I'm seriously thinking of giving it up. I was so angry, I still am. I hate when someone plays me! It's one of the worst things that occurs between people, in relationship or not.

So Ste: 100% agreed to what you said!

I know that the female TA's will probably disagree with me here or get offeneded..but here I go anyways: Treat them like shit!!

I was a real asshole to girls...and it was successful. I got tired of that...and became a really nice guy...I fell in love. But girls don't like or want that..they only say it because it sounds good. They want a guy who seems like a challenge that they can try to conquer... not someone who they easily can have. That's why players always get the girls..while the nice guys always finish last. Suxx, but it's true. I recently got out of a 4yr relationship...and TONIGHT... I've decided to go with what worked for me best, and that was to be an asshole. Thank you world, and especially females... u've just turned another nice guy into a major fuckin prick!!!

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Thank you world, and especially females... u've just turned another nice guy into a major fuckin prick!!!

jesus.

are you guys seriously all so fucking clueless?

do you think its only girls that hurt? every single guy i have met has fucked with me on some level in some way. last person i dated, like i already mentioned, was flat out using me for sex, lying about it, fucking several people behind my back. so yanno, i could say the same thing.

thank you world, and especially males.. for helping me turn into more of a misanthrope than i already am, and turning me, a nice girl, into a trustless, cold person.

do you really think saying shit like that will accomplish anything?

PEOPLE hurt PEOPLE. and yes, as a girl, i find it complete bullshit what you said. you are making a gross overexaggerated stereotype about females which i agree with ZERO. i do not want asshole men.. i want nice guys

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That's why players always get the girls..

the last guy i just mentioned, was a total player. do you really think i went out into the world saying "yes, i want someone who will use me". looking back on it, i realize that i let myself believe the shit he told me, because he did what no one else did, treated me like i was a special person. would i have rather had some nice guy do it? hell yes.. did they ever? no. the reality is that most players or "bad boys" have confidence, and will actually approach you, and know the lines to feed you to suck you in. but guys never think about that. they just think "oh, girls MUST want these bad boys.". WRONG.

you knew this would offend the girls on ta, yet you said it anyways. nice one.

but yanno, keep furthering this argument tho. you are just helping me more and more realize why i despise men and why i don't even want to be involved with them again. keep it up.

First off....WOW!! u're up late. Oh wait...u're in Washington... so it's not as late as out here in Toronto....

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Originally posted by sothis PEOPLE hurt PEOPLE.

I agree with this.... I guess I'm just a bit drunk and upset because I started to think how much I actually loved that girl, and that she fucked me over like this...after so many years. I guess when u care for someone u don't really notice all the things u do for them until it's over and people point it out to you.

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most players or "bad boys" have confidence, and will actually approach you, and know the lines to feed you to suck you in.

U've hit the nail on the head with this one. 100% When I first met my ex I was an asshole looking to be converted, I wanted to settle down. I approached her with the confidence of cassanova, and had all the lines and moves down packed. But once I realized I was in love with her...the act ended..and so did the mystery I guess...or the challenge. I never cheated on her once in 4yrs..never even tried. As a dj u get some opportunities...not alot since I aint' bigtime..but a few here and there. I'm just really bitter about how it all turned out... I'm sorry to hear that u got screwed over... but maybe he was a nice guy who got hurt and decided to take it out on you. The world if screwed period!! Nice PEOPLE finish last in general...guy or girl. Which, really suxxx major ass, because so many people claim to search for a nice girl/guy...but never find them until we've been converted into the stone cold assholes and bitches.

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I guess when u care for someone u don't really notice all the things u do for them until it's over and people point it out to you.

yep, and ive had this happen too, and im a girl, talking about a guy.. where i dont realize till afterwards how much shit i put up with.

both genders would say the same thing.. how evil the opposite gender is.. and its all true. i cant say one is worse than the other, because to be honest, i am a misanthrope in the most clear definition of my word, and i basically hate everyone, so i cant say guys are worse than girls or vice versa. i think both genders fuck with the other equally as bad.

i just hate reading stuff acting like its only girls that are evil, especially considering all the godawful personal experiences ive had to go through with guys that has helped my misanthropic behaviors even more.

heh yea i am up late. scryed 23 just got released (im somewhat of an anime freak) and ive been on irc all night getting it.. just finished watching it.. sad episode.. so now im goin to bed, gonna get 4 hours of sleep before class :/

i believe in good things will come to those who are good....i've ALWAYS been nothing but a good guy, true i've had my share of crap happen to me, but i move on and always find the good in things...i'm friends with EVERY one of my exgirlfriends.....and now i've finally found someone who appricates this "good guy" mentality, and each day i do my best to treat my gf in the best possible way i can.....some people aren't like this, but this is how i am.....if i can make my gf happy, if i can put a smile on her face, if i can make her laugh, then i am truly happy *end of sappy crap*

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Originally posted by jeronemango Well its my time to vent some anger,, my gf seems to think talking about her robbie williams all the time is a good thing,, talking to me on the phone and playing his shit in the background really doesnt turn me on... and these constant games of trying to get me jealous by saying all these guys like her,, really why the fuck do some women do this?? and then to go on and say this model from hugo boss wants to meet her,, ive just had enough why oh why!!!!! second time in a row i have had these problems.

Hey man I know where you are coming from. My woman has been driving me up the wall last couple weeks. She is on one of those trips where she is looking to start an argument over anything at all. Best solution I use ignor her, just YES BABY and still do what I think. Chris Rock said once "You can't hit a woman, but you can shake the shit out of her." If she continues her crusade, I think I just might have to do that.

Dude, fucking girlfriends suck fat ones. i was with my gf, for like, 1 &1/2 years. everything was chillen. and she starts gettin gay on me. gay? you ask? yes, fucking gay asa pink goose. EXAMPLE.. she bugged on me, cause my TWELVE yr old COUSIN was sittin on my knee. oh yea baby, not only do i fuck 12 yr olds, i make sure im related to them. I duno ppl. Gf's are WAY to much drama. so after 3 weeks of BS. 2 days b4 i went on vaca, i dumped her ass. relationships suck fat ones. but now im with some cute girl tracy, cuteset little bottie you ever did see. hahaha. i duno. i guess im just to young to be in this long term relationship bullshit. 18 and all. ok, thats my 411.

payace
-juno

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Originally posted by Stylez I recently got out of a 4yr relationship...and TONIGHT... I've decided to go with what worked for me best, and that was to be an asshole.

didn't your ex post on here?? i can't remember the name though...

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Originally posted by DJ Juno Dude, fucking girlfriends suck fat ones. i was with my gf, for like, 1 &1/2 years. everything was chillen. and she starts gettin gay on me. gay? you ask? yes, fucking gay asa pink goose. EXAMPLE.. she bugged on me, cause my TWELVE yr old COUSIN was sittin on my knee. oh yea baby, not only do i fuck 12 yr olds, i make sure im related to them. I duno ppl. Gf's are WAY to much drama. so after 3 weeks of BS. 2 days b4 i went on vaca, i dumped her ass. relationships suck fat ones. but now im with some cute girl tracy, cuteset little bottie you ever did see. hahaha. i duno. i guess im just to young to be in this long term relationship bullshit. 18 and all. ok, thats my 411

Well I am 23 and my girlfriend is 28. You would think that there is some maturity there since she is way older. NOOOOOOOOOO NO fucking way. She tells me that I am a baby and I act immature. I act immature! She is the one that constantly starts shit over every possible thing. It is impossible to get through to her. It comes in one ear and goes out the other one righ away. FUCK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

Southis.....keep going......most guys on here are CLUELESS......i like ppl of your knowledge.

*sigh*

I agree 100% with what Sothis and Stylez are saying, what I just want to know is WHY is it sooooooooo hard for people to be honest?? For fear of hurting the person? It only hurts them MORE in the long run if you play mind games and fuck with their head anyway! That's what I never understood...sure the truth hurts but doesn't a lie hurt even more and lead to a greater waste of time in the long run? I mean all of the mindgames etc I find are useless for me anyway but I do understand why ppl use them because they want to avoid "hurting" the person, just TELL them how you feel and that will hurt them the least if you are upfront. Man...why can't more ppl be like that?

I've found this:

Being nice guy = having lots of nice friends

Being nice guy = having relativley few girlfriends

Being nice guy = something that most woman seem to and say that they want

Being nice guy = girl you love going from bad relationship to bad relationship, getting hurt by guys, turning to you for support, getting over him, finding someone new (who isnt you and also hurts her) until she has been hurt so many times that she doesnt belive in love anymore.

Being nice guy = life of effort & pain


Doesnt mean I'm going to stop though.

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess didn't your ex post on here?? i can't remember the name though...

...Gawd no!!.. that would suck. I tried to get her into the Trance scene during our 4 yrs...but to no avail. She'd never come on here.

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I've found this: Being nice guy = having lots of nice friends Being nice guy = having relativley few girlfriends Being nice guy = something that most woman seem to and say that they want Being nice guy = girl you love going from bad relationship to bad relationship, getting hurt by guys, turning to you for support, getting over him, finding someone new (who isnt you and also hurts her) until she has been hurt so many times that she doesnt belive in love anymore. Being nice guy = life of effort & pain

I've found this:

Being nice girl = having lots of nice friends

Being nice girl = having lots of friends who are guys, who think of you as one of the guys, nothing more

Being nice girl = something that no men say they want, ever.

Being nice girl = attracting guy after guy who can view vulnerability, openness, honesty, and abuse/manipulate you for it, until YOU have been hurt so many times that you dont believe in love anymore.

Being nice girl = life of effort & pain

-yet another response from sothis, trying to prove it goes both ways

Sorry, I didnt mean to imply that it doesnt go both ways, its just that I can only speak from experience, and I am a guy after all.

kr00t0n

Well...I think that we all concluded one thing, and that is that love is fucking shit.

and sothis; sorry, but you proved a while ago that it can go both ways, so stop trying. Its getting annoying.

This whole love thing is only fucked more cause of these "players/sluts" who only go for sex, or people (in my case, a girl) who don't know what they want, and when they finally decide what they do want...you happen to not be it, and they just cut you off, after stringing you along for so long, making you believe that they do want to be with you but they need a little time...and then BOOM! Just when you get so emotionally close to them...they slam the door in your face and tell you its never going to work. Nothing more. Ruin all your hopes...your belief that you've found someone who is perfect for you...love sucks.

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Originally posted by Stylez ...Gawd no!!.. that would suck. I tried to get her into the Trance scene during our 4 yrs...but to no avail. She'd never come on here.

Ok my bad, very very sorry!!

I didn't wanna make you feel even more horrible.

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so stop trying. Its getting annoying.

and its getting annoying that people are still responding implying otherwise. those are the people im talking to, not you. thanks.

but, ok.

*leaves this conversation for good*

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Originally posted by sothis and its getting annoying that people are still responding implying otherwise. those are the people im talking to, not you. thanks. but, ok. *leaves this conversation for good*

Ok, I never told you to leave, first off. Secondly, you have to understand that the people you're "talking to" are speaking from their own perspective. I'm pretty sure that most of them are fully aware that guys hurt girls as much as girls hurt them. Thirdly, this being a public forum and all, since you didn't specify who you're talking to...your posts can be aimed, read by anyone, and responded to by anyone. I'm sorry for getting involved in "your" conversation. Next time use PM's or private chat...thats what they're there for.

Well said

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