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Originally posted by l�cid if i wake up in the middle of the night and realize Sasha (my kitty) is not snuggled up next to me, i get really uneasy and find it hard to fall back asleep. sometimes i'll even get out of bed and go find him and bring him back with me. he's been a snuggler ever since he was a kitten, and almost every night i'll wake up to him burrowing his little nose under the covers so he can curl up in my arms. it's ridiculous the way he cuddles sometimes... like he actually forces me to spoon him and throws himself onto my face/neck/shoulder/chest area to be close to my heartbeat. i love it.

lol i do the same thing w/ my dog

also fledz, i'm totally not going over there. and i call big spoon. or at least, if i have to be little spoon, you have to tuck that shit away

I remember in grade 10 religion class, we learned about maslow's hierarchy of basic needs. one of the five was:

Needs of Love, Affection and Belongingness
When the needs for safety and for physiological well-being are satisfied, the next class of needs for love, affection and belongingness can emerge. Maslow states that people seek to overcome feelings of loneliness and alienation. This involves both giving and receiving love, affection and the sense of belonging.

And yes, I would agree. Living alone and stranded is not something I would want to look forwards to, in fact, one of the last things, along with death.

More on human needs here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs

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Originally posted by Lira Here, I'll summarise the whole thing: iammesol finds a girl and says "Yo, wanna be my girl?" She says "Yeah, sure. So, what do we do?" iammesol - "You know, we hang". Her - "Oh, cool" iammesol - "Yeah" Her - "Yup" 2 months later iammesol - "Wanna kiss?" Her - "Oh, cool" iammesol - "Yeah" Both - *slurp*

lol... not exactly, but if that's how you view it

I love touching. Everyone in my family does. But in Poland we hug, kiss, lay on each other, it's no big deal.

Here in the US it's weird, because my first reaction is to kiss on the cheek but 1 of 3 things happen - 1. People think you're into them. 2. People are confused. or 3. People freak out. So now I just kind of stand there and kind of judge the "warmth" of someone else.

I lay all over everyone, I don't care

I've cuddled with just about every friend I have, boy or girl.

And don't even get me started on how much I like touching before, during, and after sex. I also love when my guy gives my ass a nice grab. Nothing sexier than the grab-ass-pulling-you-in-close touching.

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Originally posted by squirrelly I love touching. Everyone in my family does. But in Poland we hug, kiss, lay on each other, it's no big deal. Here in the US it's weird, because my first reaction is to kiss on the cheek but 1 of 3 things happen - 1. People think you're into them. 2. People are confused. or 3. People freak out. So now I just kind of stand there and kind of judge the "warmth" of someone else. I lay all over everyone, I don't care I've cuddled with just about every friend I have, boy or girl. And don't even get me started on how much I like touching before, during, and after sex. I also love when my guy gives my ass a nice grab. Nothing sexier than the grab-ass-pulling-you-in-close touching.

I think this is the European way period. I have never known anyone from Europe to NOT be this way. Russian friends, a couple French friends that were here on an exchange program of sorts, and the German exchange students I met in high school. It is just common place for them.

True.

I just like to wrap myself around people. Literally. lol. I've got long ass legs, they stretch far. I'm throwin' my legs across SOMEONE!

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Originally posted by squirrelly I love touching. Everyone in my family does.

i love being around family members where i can hug them and openly say "i love you" and mean it and know that they mean it when they say it back.

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Here in the US it's weird, because my first reaction is to kiss on the cheek but 1 of 3 things happen - 1. People think you're into them. 2. People are confused. or 3. People freak out. So now I just kind of stand there and kind of judge the "warmth" of someone else.

i think it's so adorable when someone from outside the US wants to kiss a cheek or kiss a hand as a form of greeting. you just don't see that often enough!

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I've cuddled with just about every friend I have, boy or girl.

same for me. although most of my friends are boys so people sometimes take that the wrong way.

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Originally posted by l�cid same for me. although most of my friends are boys so people sometimes take that the wrong way.

Yeah tell me about it. I have 2 girlfriends, the rest are boys. And I've spent the night with all of them lol (not sex, just sleeping). I'm a cuddle master.

I hate those surveys that are like "who have you kissed in your top 8?" I'm like "uh... all of them?"

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Originally posted by squirrelly True. I just like to wrap myself around people. Literally. lol. I've got long ass legs, they stretch far. I'm throwin' my legs across SOMEONE!

SLUT!!!!!!!



lol jk..really though, I love hanging out with my non-US friends because they are usually not so up tight about stupid shit like this. It is a nice change from the idiotic stuff we have to deal with in the US.

I just cuddled with my best friend of 5 years for the first time a few weeks ago.

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Originally posted by jennypie I just cuddled with my best friend of 5 years for the first time a few weeks ago.

male or female? we need visuals!

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel SLUT!!!!!!!

Yeah I get that a lot.

No jaykay - but people do look at me funny.

I'll cuddle with you Jenny. Cuddling with me has to be naked tho.

i dunno i would be kind of upset if my girlfriend was sleeping in the bed with her guy friends.. i say 7/10 times a move is made and some sort of sexual stimulation occurs

it goes both ways.. if i tell my gf that i was sleeping in the same bed as a girl "friend" of mine.. she'd be stupid to think that nothing would have happend

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit i dunno i would be kind of upset if my girlfriend was sleeping in the bed with her guy friends.. i say 7/10 times a move is made and some sort of sexual stimulation occurs it goes both ways.. if i tell my gf that i was sleeping in the same bed as a girl "friend" of mine.. she'd be stupid to think that nothing would have happend

Well I don't do it once I'm dating someone. I stop the sleepovers. That's what the new guy is there for!

Haha, female!

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit i dunno i would be kind of upset if my girlfriend was sleeping in the bed with her guy friends.. i say 7/10 times a move is made and some sort of sexual stimulation occurs it goes both ways.. if i tell my gf that i was sleeping in the same bed as a girl "friend" of mine.. she'd be stupid to think that nothing would have happend

get the fuck out of my thread!!

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Originally posted by squirrelly Yeah I get that a lot. No jaykay - but people do look at me funny. I'll cuddle with you Jenny. Cuddling with me has to be naked tho.

LOL yeah. I think it is just a whole taboo that doing things that for whatever reason have been reserved for couples here in the states, when done with someone you're not dating. Pretty stupid imho. One of my best friends is female and I have slept in the same bed as her after a party or whatever many times. Ain't no big deal.

I flirt all the time too. With men AND women. I never knew I did it until several people brought it to my attention... it's all the years I was bartending! Whoever picked up the tab, I flirted with! Now I just do it to everyone.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Well I don't do it once I'm dating someone. I stop the sleepovers. That's what the new guy is there for!

lol

i would hope so

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Originally posted by dj_alfi get the fuck out of my thread!!

get teh fuck out of my house!

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Originally posted by squirrelly I flirt all the time too. With men AND women. I never knew I did it until several people brought it to my attention... it's all the years I was bartending! Whoever picked up the tab, I flirted with! Now I just do it to everyone.

If you were a dinosaur you'd be a Skankasaurus Rex.

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Originally posted by squirrelly I flirt all the time too. With men AND women. I never knew I did it until several people brought it to my attention... it's all the years I was bartending! Whoever picked up the tab, I flirted with! Now I just do it to everyone.

*note to self, if you ever meet Sara, she is NOT hitting on you*

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel *note to self, if you ever meet Sara, she is NOT hitting on you*

nonsense!

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Originally posted by squirrelly I love touching. Everyone in my family does. But in Poland we hug, kiss, lay on each other, it's no big deal. Here in the US it's weird, because my first reaction is to kiss on the cheek but 1 of 3 things happen - 1. People think you're into them. 2. People are confused. or 3. People freak out. So now I just kind of stand there and kind of judge the "warmth" of someone else. I lay all over everyone, I don't care I've cuddled with just about every friend I have, boy or girl. And don't even get me started on how much I like touching before, during, and after sex. I also love when my guy gives my ass a nice grab. Nothing sexier than the grab-ass-pulling-you-in-close touching.

hahahahaha I experience the same thing
In Polska we greet with a cheek-to-cheek kiss
After spending a summer there, I come back to Canada and greet someone like this (male or female) and they are always like "did you just kiss me?"

This is how it goes in europe: (from my experience)

someone young/around your age - kiss once
middle-aged - kiss twice (both cheeks)
Babcia or Dziadzio (aka OLD) - gotta go in three times

Say my cousin and I are out shopping - we might walk around holding hands. That's just how it is. When she came over here a few summers ago, everyone totally thought we were lesbians.

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