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Originally posted by Slylee i said it first. why do people always overcomplicate things? lol especially women. i mean i'm sure i've been guilty of it too sometimes but for the most part, i usually listen to my female girlfriends gripe about something that has a very simple solution and i tell it to them and they are like

I guess because its not always as clean cut as that, and generally, whatever my close friends tell me, I'm still more likely to listen to my heart, foolish as that may be. I'm pretty sure Im not the only one.

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Originally posted by stace I guess because its not always as clean cut as that, and generally, whatever my close friends tell me, I'm still more likely to listen to my heart, foolish as that may be. I'm pretty sure Im not the only one.

I think the problem is that most people disregard the simple and/or correct answer because it's not the one that serves their psychological/emotional needs.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I think the problem is that most people disregard the simple and/or correct answer because it's not the one that serves their psychological/emotional needs.

Aye, I think so, I've done it many times. I've put up with so much crap from guys recently because I like then and I must have thought that if I bent over backwards to fit their world then things would be perfect. Mind you, that was back when I was a little bit broken. Im not that foolish anymore.

Stupid emo Stace.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I think the problem is that most people disregard the simple and/or correct answer because it's not the one that serves their psychological/emotional needs.

this is true. i didn't necessarily mean love/relationship advice, i just mean everything chicks gripe about in general lol

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Originally posted by eRRaTiK lol! pic or stfu!

you ask and you shall receive....


http://www.roadsideattractions.ca/jumbo.htm

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Jumbo the Elephant (part of the P.T. Barnum circus) was killed in a rail yard in St. Thomas in 1885 (run over by a train).

to expand, the story goes that jumbo stepped in front of a train to save a 8 year old boy. I think this is total horseshit as elephants are pound for pound probably one of the dumbest creatures on the planet. Therefore Jumbo was probably trying to make friends with the train until.....


































































































































*SMACK*

love. dreams can always be a part of that love. whereas i don't think you can necessarily get love out of your dreams.

/mind of a single guy

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Originally posted by tubularbills love. dreams can always be a part of that love. whereas i don't think you can necessarily get love out of your dreams. /mind of a gay guy

true.

both persons should talk to each other in person.

I think ultimately they both know what needs to happen, but both are in love with the other and are having a hard time dealing with the reality of it.

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Originally posted by Theresa I think ultimately they both know what needs to happen, but both are in love with the other and are having a hard time dealing with the reality of it.

Reality is giving both a hard time and someone needs to make a first move.

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Originally posted by Axer Reality is giving both a hard time and someone needs to make a first move.

It's hard to make a move when one person says

"so, if we can't find a place to meet in the middle, I suppose that's it?"

and the other says

"Breaking up is not an option. I want to marry you."

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Originally posted by Theresa It's hard to make a move when one person says "so, if we can't find a place to meet in the middle, I suppose that's it?" and the other says "Breaking up is not an option. I want to marry you."

Your call hun

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Originally posted by Theresa I think ultimately they both know what needs to happen, but both are in love with the other and are having a hard time dealing with the reality of it.

Being in love does not make two people compatible.

People grow and change over time, and it is possible for two people to have been together and in love for over 6 years, only to have their lives go in different directions, resulting in them breaking up for no other reason than that they are no longer right for eachother.

......and sometimes it gets to the point where you can hurt the other person beyond belief because you care so little for their feelings and feel so little for them/resent them being in your life because of these differences....

Something like that hey.

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Originally posted by stace ......and sometimes it gets to the point where you can hurt the other person beyond belief because you care so little for their feelings and feel so little for them/resent them being in your life because of these differences.... Something like that hey.

Stace: 15, Kr00t0n: love

When did this become a competition?

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Originally posted by kr00t0n When did this become a competition?

It isn't, I just wanted to recognise the pot shot at you.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard It isn't, I just wanted to recognise the pot shot at you.

Eh, there's not much I can do but accept them, even if I was just trying to answer the thread

There has been karmic retribution though, I've already gotten my just desserts. Ironically, delivered in exactly the manner Theresa has been discussing

Not really the same though, is it?

Unless Kate went off with a friend of yours? In which case I take it back.

Anyway, Im done sniping, Im not a bitch it's just that sometimes I just cant help it.

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Originally posted by stace Not really the same though, is it? Unless Kate went off with a friend of yours? In which case I take it back. Anyway, Im done sniping, Im not a bitch it's just that sometimes I just cant help it.

No, it's not the same in a direct respect, but it doesn't mean it hasn't messed up my whole life at the moment.

Not much one can do but soldier on, things always seem their worst when they happen. 10 years from now, many things will have been forgotten or seem irrelevant when looked at with an objective, clear mind.

Everything happens for a reason, but that doesn't mean anyone has to like them.

Sometimes it's not so much the thing that has happened that leads to the most pain, more the way it is handled by those causing the pain in the first place, lies and such like. But I am sure you know this.

Anyway I'm done, I guess it takes more energy to hate and all that.

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Originally posted by stace Sometimes it's not so much the thing that has happened that leads to the most pain, more the way it is handled by those causing the pain in the first place, lies and such like. But I am sure you know this. Anyway I'm done, I guess it takes more energy to hate and all that.

Very true, but people make mistakes and hopefully learn from them.

'Love' certainly never really seems to pan out as it is expected for anyone. Maybe it is all made up crap that humans invented as a reason to stick together now that we are living more than twice as long as we did 100+ years ago.

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Originally posted by stace

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Originally posted by kr00t0n

Way to make my thread awkward.

Thanks a lot you guys!

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Anyway, I guess it just sucks that you can love someone so much, and not want to lose them, and yet know at the very same time that you're not really meant to be together. It's hard to let something go when you don't really want to lose it to begin with.

Logic battles emotion.

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Originally posted by Theresa Anyway, I guess it just sucks that you can love someone so much, and not want to lose them, and yet know at the very same time that you're not really meant to be together. It's hard to let something go when you don't really want to lose it to begin with.

As I stated earlier, if you're having this problem then it's not really love.

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