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Originally posted by StereoPrincess or you may strive to be a better person for the one you like.

makes sense

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess dude, sorry to say but with your personality and sense of humor, you should pretty much do/say the opposite to whatever your intuition tells you. i wish you luck.

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But seriously bro, it's not rocket science if your asking for advice on TA your prob. not ready to meet people.

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Pack condoms, you never know how far the first date will go.

Condoms are for sailors and gays

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Originally posted by ego007 Condoms are for sailors and gays

When in doubt bust it up with some astro glide....IDNB (in da bum no babies)

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy dude im all about the protection on randoms. If i havent known you for a little while, im putting on a condom. Vivid rule #1. I know my boys can swim, theyre like michael phelps off the go. backstroke right to the egg in record breaking times

if i haven't know you for a while i'm giving you firecrotch and teaching lessons.

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Originally posted by jsibilin I usually take them to the mall to do some shopping and maybe drinks after. Square one is great place to go for dates and there is a nice Irish pub there.

Step one: Do not take your date to the mall.

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Originally posted by Skipper Step one: Do not take your date to the mall.

actually she was the one who suggested we go shopping. She wants to pick out stuff for me to try on and pick out some new wardrobe.

i guess i can't wear t-shirt and jeans anymore!

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Originally posted by Capo di tutti But seriously bro, it's not rocket science if your asking for advice on TA your prob. not ready to meet people.

you are prob right.. i should crawl in a hole and never come out...

matty u got a gf.. whered did you take your girl on the first date?

anyone else.. first date stories???

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Originally posted by jsibilin actually she was the one who suggested we go shopping. She wants to pick out stuff for me to try on and pick out some new wardrobe. i guess i can't wear t-shirt and jeans anymore!

When a girl leads you to believe that shopping for new clothes for you is a date, it's really a pre-date. She has not yet decided to date you. She's just trying to see how far she can make you look like she wants you to look.

Dinner is a great first date. Alcohol + conversation. What the hell else do you want to have when you're trying to get to know some one?

I met one of my exes at sq 1 and we had coffeee on the first date; we had been talking online for a month. I think the mall is an alright idea, definately gives you a lot things to see and talk about....and you can always proceed to your car afterwards for some "action" (i didn't do that of course being the gentleman i am )

Other first "dates" included, drinks at West 50, coffee and then walking around Port Credit, thai lunch, my hotel room in Cancun etc.

Seriuosly...don't be a pushover. Listen to Activate. Be funny and treat her like she's your annoying sister and make fun of her (but dont' go overboard). Don't get all gah gah. Just make sure you at least try to go in for a kiss on the lips at the end. She'll most likely be waiting for it if you played your cards right and be looking all dreamy and shit. Otherwise you're out of the game if you get some cheek nonsense and a quick bye (maybe not always, but more than likely).

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Originally posted by Skipper When a girl leads you to believe that shopping for new clothes for you is a date, it's really a pre-date. She has not yet decided to date you. She's just trying to see how far she can make you look like she wants you to look. Dinner is a great first date. Alcohol + conversation. What the hell else do you want to have when you're trying to get to know some one?

activity. it needs to be an activity. you don't know someone until you are sharing a moment with them. When you have that expeirence in common, talking and finding other things in common are alot easier.

Putting a smile on a girls face works wonders and you dont feel you rin a fuckin interview

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Originally posted by jsibilin you are prob right.. i should crawl in a hole and never come out... matty u got a gf.. whered did you take your girl on the first date? anyone else.. first date stories???

i HAD a gf lol...I recently took a girl out shopping, it was cool actually i wasn't into her in the end, but she had fun at the Guess store, she bought her own stuff, i got to chat on my cell while she changed, complimented her when needed and we parted.

I dunno dude, dinner is always good...summer is my season to give date advice...ROM is a good backup, unless she dosen't have a brain or patience

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Originally posted by Skipper Dinner is a great first date. Alcohol + conversation. What the hell else do you want to have when you're trying to get to know some one?

Yo, you know what. OR at least sum hed action. Under the tables of course, no one has to know! lol

"wanna get drunk and make out?" always works for me

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Originally posted by Nobbie Q Just make sure you at least try to go in for a kiss on the lips at the end. She'll most likely be waiting for it if you played your cards right and be looking all dreamy and shit.

actually.. if you're really digging her, and she's into you, don't try and kiss her on the mouth. you gotta leave her hanging and wanting more. It's more fun that way. Make it known you want to see her again, a nice little kiss on the cheek and that's it.

and this is assuming you're into her. If you're just in it to try and get laid then who cares.

you have to stick 2 fingers in before you kiss her, because if you don't she will think you are clingy.

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Originally posted by elFreak you have to stick 2 fingers in before you kiss her, because if you don't she will think you are clingy.

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Originally posted by Capo di tutti

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Originally posted by Skipper Step one: Do not take your date to the mall.

lol. i actually like that idea.

maybe not to the mall but somewhere where you can walk around and look at neat stuff. maybe even try on funny outfits. sounds fun to me!

Step one: Stop worrying so much


Go out, do whatever, have a good time. Avoid any serious contentious subjects during conversation. Try to get her to talk about herself. If she opens up about something, keep asking about it to keep conversation flowing.

I'm not a big fan of mall-dates, but it CAN work if you don't act like her personal assistant. No matter where you go, or how you dress, if you make her laugh and show her you got a good head on your shoulders, you should be off to a good start.

If it takes you 2 minutes to realize she's damaged goods and you want out, get her to try on something sexy in her favourite store and bounce yer ass outa there quick-times!

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Originally posted by jsibilin anyone else.. first date stories???

I took my ex on a small cesna to see the downtown toronto at night.(I obviously didnt fly it but was sitting with her in it)...perks you get for being brown and having brown pilot friends LOL

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess lol. i actually like that idea. maybe not to the mall but somewhere where you can walk around and look at neat stuff. maybe even try on funny outfits. sounds fun to me!

The mall can be good if you go in with the right attitude (ie: make fun of EVERYTHING and go into any store to find more things to make fun of), you're not there to buy things, you're there to interact with your date. I took a girl to a Chapters/Starbucks for coffee and making fun of books and she talked about it for MONTHS afterward because she was used to the typical dinner/movie first dates that guys kept taking her on. At it's core, it doesn't matter where you go. You just have to try and make it different (see: more interesting) from a typical hang-out with a friend. I think the key is having unique things to look at and talk about in between 'real' conversation. A trip through the same-old stores (ie: ACTUALLY shopping) in the mall has a high potential to backfire.

step 2: at 27 u should not be asking first date advice but be giving it...i guess this will give u some experience to do so..

Step 3: Only indulge in penetration relationships...

step 4: Sex with no anal = Fail!!!

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