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Posted by josh rising on Nov-12-2008 20:53:

just move in with a gay guy instead. so much easier / better. you'll thank me for it!

Posted by colonelcrisp on Nov-12-2008 20:56:

quote:
Originally posted by josh rising
just move in with a gay guy instead. so much easier / better. you'll thank me for it!

that sounds like a huge pain in the ass

Posted by josh rising on Nov-12-2008 20:57:

quote:
Originally posted by colonelcrisp
that sounds like a huge pain in the ass
exactly. sounds great huh?

Posted by colonelcrisp on Nov-12-2008 21:06:

sign me up!

Posted by daphunky1 on Nov-12-2008 21:49:

Alrite back off. You can't rush a good thing.

Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-12-2008 22:20:

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
Alrite back off. You can't rush a good thing.

Of course you can! So what if it fails miserably if you do? Enjoy it while it lasts

Posted by daphunky1 on Dec-05-2008 21:25:

Update:

Well we've now lived together for almost a month, and I must say things are pretty awesome. Nothing has happened between us but we do get along really well, and we hang out a lot. Pretty much whenever one of us isn't working (she's actually sleeping 5 feet away from me right now). We are pretty much fully integrated into the other's life. So I still have a pretty massive crush, I'm just scared to act on it, for fear of ruining a really good thing...and with the way things are going I think it's only a matter for some positive results. I'm not in a hurry though, it's just been fun having an awesome friend around all the time.

oh ya, and there's been no "issues" with the fact that she moved in. After a couple days it was like it was never an issue at all.

So ya...I'm stoked.

Posted by noikeee on Dec-05-2008 21:27:

congrats, you're on the friends ladder

Posted by Lira on Dec-05-2008 21:32:

quote:
Originally posted by noikeee
congrats, you're on the friends ladder

Posted by daphunky1 on Dec-05-2008 21:47:

Well when we came home form partying last night we passed out on the couch spooning for many hours. First time something like that happened. I don't do that with friends. We weren't that wasted either.

Posted by Lira on Dec-05-2008 21:59:

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
I don't do that with friends.

Then do the rest of the stuff you don't do with friends! What are you waiting for?

Posted by jonas on Dec-05-2008 22:21:

Just rape her in the ass and get it over with. She's French. She'll understand.

Posted by gehzumteufel on Dec-05-2008 22:55:

Just fucking ask her out already. ffs before you get to deep in the friend label.

Posted by squirrelly on Dec-05-2008 23:01:

dude, you are just a friend. Aaaaaaaand you're going to stay that way.

Posted by gehzumteufel on Dec-05-2008 23:07:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
dude, you are just a friend. Aaaaaaaand you're going to stay that way.

It is possible to salvage. If he does it NOW and doesn't wait. Otherwise he is doomed.

Posted by infiniteJEST on Dec-06-2008 00:21:

When she's sleeping, put your cock in her mouth and start ringing a bell.

Posted by squirrelly on Dec-06-2008 00:24:

quote:
Originally posted by gehzumteufel
It is possible to salvage. If he does it NOW and doesn't wait. Otherwise he is doomed.

eh, not really.

Posted by gehzumteufel on Dec-06-2008 00:35:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
eh, not really.

It is. You may not think so, but it is still possible. Again, he can't wait to do it though.

Posted by Lira on Dec-06-2008 00:58:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
eh, not really.

Just a friend? If my fiancée "spooned for many hours" with a friend that had a Y chromosome - and lived with her! - I'd throw all my silverware at them!

There shall be no spoon!

Posted by squirrelly on Dec-06-2008 01:01:

that's different - it's your fiance!

When I was single, I had one particular friend who spent the night at my house EVERY NIGHT for months at a time, and we'd spoon.

Nothing EVER happened between us. And nothing ever will. We're each others type, and now are bff, but we were just non-sexual companions.

Basically, a couple without all the good stuff.

NOW, I would NEVER do that.

A) because I'm in a relationship

and

B) because my hubby would shoot him first, then me, with the rifles under our bed. no joke.

But no seriously - spooned every damn night, never ended up even kissing.

Posted by Yohan on Dec-06-2008 01:13:

fuck. this dude needs to tell the girl that he likes her. no pussyfooting and get a straight answer.

Posted by squirrelly on Dec-06-2008 01:15:

He might get a pity lay (if he's good looking enough) on the nights she's SUPER wasted - but that is if he's lucky, and her self esteem is low enough.

Posted by Yohan on Dec-06-2008 01:39:

this friend ladder business really blows

Posted by MSZ on Dec-06-2008 01:55:

you a jive ass bitch

Posted by Groundhog Boy on Dec-06-2008 02:12:

quote:
Originally posted by daphunky1
Update:

Well we've now lived together for almost a month, and I must say things are pretty awesome. Nothing has happened between us but we do get along really well, and we hang out a lot. Pretty much whenever one of us isn't working (she's actually sleeping 5 feet away from me right now). We are pretty much fully integrated into the other's life. So I still have a pretty massive crush, I'm just scared to act on it, for fear of ruining a really good thing...and with the way things are going I think it's only a matter for some positive results. I'm not in a hurry though, it's just been fun having an awesome friend around all the time.

oh ya, and there's been no "issues" with the fact that she moved in. After a couple days it was like it was never an issue at all.

So ya...I'm stoked.

Sounds like she thinks you're gay and not a threat.

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