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Originally posted by Slylee my mom told me that recently when my nephew was staying at her house, he was in the bedroom supposed to be getting dressed (just had a bath) and my mom was getting dinner ready. he comes out in the kitchen completely naked and goes, "mimi...i think i'll have dinner like this"

Little kids do not like clothes and seem to run around naked whenever they get a chance. My parents told me I used to play in the backyard completely naked out in the sun when I was really young, banging on stuff with a little hammer they got me.

also, it's better to have kids and treat them right/raise them properly because when you're old and need to wear diapers yourself, who's going to take care of you?

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Is that what you did or something?

hahahaha, new rule: you have to be out of the house first before you're allowed to complain about children.

of course i do.

I think my best friend having a baby totally fuked me up. I def don't want one NOW - so I will just enjoy seeing a part time baby. I just wish I could see her more

gotta finish school & work a few years..

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Little kids do not like clothes and seem to run around naked whenever they get a chance. My parents told me I used to play in the backyard completely naked out in the sun when I was really young, banging on stuff with a little hammer they got me.

yea i have a couple of moments like that with my nephew not wanting to put clothes on when i was with him. i was like, "u want everyone to see your little weiner you weirdo?" and he would crack up and be like, "YES!"

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Is that what you did or something?

nope. i've always told them that when i leave i'd always be home for all the holidays, i still want to travel to them even when older, i'd never lose contact with them. hell, i txt both my parents & some of their txts are pretty funny i think coming from a hispanic background, i've closely knit to my family. so no.

I'm not sure. Kids love me, and I like them too. But, is life something I'd wish to someone else? Would I want to raise a child? I think I may end up adopting a child that is already in this mess we call world, rather than spawning a couple of brats to replace myself. It's hard to choose a future, let alone choose a life.

So far, I chose not to choose life. The reasons? There are no reasons. Who needs reasons when you can steal a well known monologue from a European film to illustrate your point?

I am hoping I never have to wear diapers in old age. None of my relatives have had to so far and all have been mentally sound until death, so my chances for a good old age look decent.

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Originally posted by Slylee also, it's better to have kids and treat them right/raise them properly because when you're old and need to wear diapers yourself, who's going to take care of you?

Bahaha, as if people do that now. It's pathetic the way people dump their loved ones off onto the health care system. I understand caregiver stress and all that, but ffs have people no sense of duty to family anymore? Fucking NA is fucked. I'm glad I was raised by a European.

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Originally posted by yukii meh, yeah, babies are useless at that stage. after 2 when they can talk, they are obnoxious or think they can fool you with shit & think the world revolves around them & have panic attacks if you don't buy them a doll they fell in love with .20 sec ago. bleh- i don't want to put up with that.

Wrong.

lol your generalizing here is hilarious

Any kids like what you just described up there likely have very stupid parents who only know how to quick fix problems when it comes to their children. AKA they are lazy, dumb, and should not have children.

My baby cousin will play quietly for an hour by himself with a pair of socks. My bf's two-year-old niece adapts so easily to any situation as long as you sit down with her and explain what is going on (i.e. "We have to go to this place and we`re going to be in the car for a little while and then Aunt Ania is going to take you to see the puppies AFTER")

If you are a loving guardian then the child will love you back and trust you and your rules. It`s lazy parents that don`t explain things to their children who have problems when their kids develop a monstrous sense of entitlement. Rewards are earned.

Yukii should just stfu when adults are talking.

yea as much as my mom drives me nuts, i will never put her in a home. in fact, after i have kids and they are talking and walking, i would have no problem having my mom live with us full time in a guest house and be the nanny so i can still work.

haha, i guess you're right ania.
bc all those kids i babysat were from the army..
don't want shit to hit the fan & say that kids from the army are like that, but hell, almost all i babysat for 98% of the time were like that.

the only kids that were nice & polite & i could play with perfectly were the kids that live in front of me here in the US, not in the army..

who knows, maybe im making another assumption. but if i have kids, it's only going to be one, & i hope he/she turns out like those kids here that i babysat, they're pretty damn awesome, the rest sucked

yeah. don't fuking bother.

even in general psych you learn about child development.

I agree with Ania: Kids are awesome, except for that difficult phase that starts when they're 5 years old and finally ends when they're 60

i babysat tons when i was living in japan on a marine base and the kids were fine a couple of them were brats but they knew better than to pull that shit with me.

everyone's kids always behave more around me than their parents, it's funny.

the difficult age at 5?

yea right. i'm the most scared of teenage years. THAT is when it gets really tough and they become obnoxious little fucking know-it-alls. lol man my teenage kids are going to HATE me (and then love me later).

idk, i guess kids just aren't for me. what someone might think as 'cute' or 'brightening smile/laughter' i probably wouldn't recognize. lol just being honest here. but for those who love kids, that's awesome, maybe when i grow up more & maybe some maternal instincts kick in my perspective will be different, till now, im good.

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Originally posted by Slylee the difficult age at 5?

That was supposed to be a joke

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Originally posted by Slylee (and then love me later).

Heh...

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Originally posted by yukii when i grow up more

That would imply you've done growing up to begin with. You have a long way to go, honey.

oh lol

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Originally posted by jennypie Bahaha, as if people do that now. It's pathetic the way people dump their loved ones off onto the health care system. I understand caregiver stress and all that, but ffs have people no sense of duty to family anymore? Fucking NA is fucked. I'm glad I was raised by a European.

My mom and I were JUST talking about this today. She makes soups and stews and takes them over to our next-door-neighbours because they are a very old couple who always have food delivered. She's really big on home-made stuff and she misses her mother in Poland so this is her way of coping, I think.

Anyway she told me that today, she went over there to give them a pot of soup and their 400pound cow of a daughter was visiting and she and her obese children were sitting in their family room watching TV. I thought my mom's blood was going to boil over when she was telling me this. She can't believe that this couple's fat lazy middle-aged daughter won't cook a simple meal and bring it to her old parents who can't make food for themselves.

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Heh...

i've had enough of your shit hal

go quote someone else for a change.

Lis was always the "i'm NEVER gonna have babies" type of girl. ALWAYSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Now - she wouldn't trade it for the world. She made a beautiful post in flta

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Originally posted by FallingMoon haha guys I gotta say when you decide to have kids, life will transform into the best thing ever and even though it's tough cuz kids are no cakewalk...it's the most rewarding experience you'll ever know! She makes Anthony & I smile/laugh everyday. ok let me also share a cute one, lol I'm kinda sorta really obsessed with her hehe

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