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| Originally posted by jennypie The thing is that people think attraction/interest is automatic, but it isn't. After the lust and infatuation phase end, it becomes a conscious decision to have desire for a partner and build intimacy with them/take in interest in them. That's the "work" that people in long time relationships are always talking about. It doesn't have to be hard, however. |
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| Originally posted by jennypie The thing is that people think attraction/interest is automatic, but it isn't. After the lust and infatuation phase end, it becomes a conscious decision to have desire for a partner and build intimacy with them/take in interest in them. That's the "work" that people in long time relationships are always talking about. It doesn't have to be hard, however. |
This isn't a suggestion, by any means, but rather an observation.
When a very serious issue arises and tests your relationship - a fight, a problem that keeps resurfacing, a broken promise - if you are pushed to the very edge and think that it might be over, but then through some means, your relationship is saved ... mind-blowing sex 
jesus died so that we would never have to think of you sans underwear...stop it.
If it's just sexually...and you have sex often, go without it for a little while. When you do it again then chances are you will appreciate it more because of the sexual tension that has built between you in the meantime.
Re: Losing interest in your partner: When it happens, What to do!
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| Originally posted by Energy_3 How many of you have lost interest in your other half, sexually. And, what do you do. How do you maintain a strong sexual relationship? how can we curb this lack of appreciation or lack of interest. Just keep your head high and keep at it? |
Re: Losing interest in your partner: When it happens, What to do!
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| Originally posted by Energy_3 How many of you have lost interest in your other half, sexually. And, what do you do. How do you maintain a strong sexual relationship? how can we curb this lack of appreciation or lack of interest. Just keep your head high and keep at it? |
I suggest cheating.
sometimes relationships just run their course, no matter how hard you try you cant get that attraction back, at that stage its just a long goodbye
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