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Posted by chinamon on Mar-04-2010 17:57:

quote:
Originally posted by LKD
the guy that delivers to my place from pizza hut drives a G35


damn... you pakis must tip each other a LOT.


Posted by LKD on Mar-04-2010 17:58:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
damn... you pakis must tip each other a LOT.


he's rice like you


Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-04-2010 18:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Cro_Addict
Yeah I understand that, but again that is not my issue. That is an issue between the employee and the employer. They should pay the employee more money. If they don't, well again not my problem.

The excuse is used that all services would cost more and in restaurants the food would cost, etc if the people were paid more. Well fine then raise the price of the food/service. I just don't like the feeling of guilt put on customers to feel like they have to subsidize the employees wages.


you clearly don't grasp the full meaning of working for minimum wage (servers) as well as other people in industries where tips are involved tipping a server at a restaurant is a globally known practice - depending on how much you like the service, you tip accordingly
if you don't like that - go to self-serve places

tipping bartenders are places like Guv is somewhat ok if they actually make me a drink as opposed to openning a bottle of Rev.. I'm not gonna make a fuss over leaving a few $$ for someone who is nice to me and provides speedy service too (waiting in line ups for a bottle of anything is uber annoying)

Cabs - I usually just round it to the next dollar

Hair stylists - my lady is self-employed so I always leave $5 behind since her prices are ridiculously low and I pay no tax on that

at the end of the day - if you don't want to, don't tip. Noone will yell at you for that.


Posted by LKD on Mar-04-2010 18:03:

quote:
Originally posted by FunkyCrew
tipping a server at a restaurant is a globally known practice -


known but not practiced in most parts of the world

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tip_(gratuity)


Posted by chinamon on Mar-04-2010 18:07:

quote:
Originally posted by LKD
known but not practiced in most parts of the world

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tip_(gratuity)


yeah. when i was in china we left a tip at the table of a nice restaurant and they chased us as we walked out the door to give it back to us. i said "just put it in your pocket and dont tell your boss." but she kept trying to put it back in my pocket. so i started doing this at all restaurants just to see their reaction. sure ehough they all chased me as i left.


Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-04-2010 18:13:

quote:
Originally posted by LKD
known but not practiced in most parts of the world

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tip_(gratuity)


practiced everywhere I lived before


Posted by Joe Drust on Mar-04-2010 18:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Cro_Addict
So who cares if they got paid $2 an hour. Not my problem. That is a problem with their employer who pays them shit wages. So I as a consumer have to subsidize their wages while the owner of the restaurant rakes in the money because he pays shit.

What about other jobs that don't get tips? People do it not because they actually care to, but mostly because it's a "social standard".

For example the pizza delivery guy gets a tip. Meanwhile when I worked at Shoppers drug mart delivering prescriptions back when I was in University, I got no tips. For an 8 hour day I was lucky if I had $2 in tips. Why? Because people are not used to getting that service, and don;t think twice about not tipping for it.


Its not the same. You dont understand the business that you are talking about. You would pay for it either way. "I" the employer does not pay "shit wages" as you say and we couldn't afford to do otherwise.
Want the same level of service but not have to tip ever? Then be prepared to have to pay a lot more for your food.

I know all of us restaurant people operate gold mines and we sit in offices counting our gold bars while we pay our servers shit wages as you say.

We live in a tipping culture and a service industry business model that operates within that culture. You can choose not to tip, but you will always be the exception. Good luck trying to change it.


Posted by love_child on Mar-04-2010 18:26:

CUE SCENE


Posted by chinamon on Mar-04-2010 18:30:

quote:
Originally posted by FunkyCrew
practiced everywhere I lived before


you sound like the way my mom talks.

if she sees 3 people doing the same thing then she automatically says EVERYONE does it. you've lived in a few countries and now tipping is practiced globally.


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Mar-04-2010 18:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Joe Drust
Its not the same. You dont understand the business that you are talking about. You would pay for it either way. "I" the employer does not pay "shit wages" as you say and we couldn't afford to do otherwise.
Want the same level of service but not have to tip ever? Then be prepared to have to pay a lot more for your food.


I would be more then prepared to pay more for my food then feel obligated to tip someone. The reality is that restaurants wouldn't increase their prices too much because they would loose too much business.


Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-04-2010 18:37:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
you sound like the way my mom talks.

if she sees 3 people doing the same thing then she automatically says EVERYONE does it. you've lived in a few countries and now tipping is practiced globally.


quote me when I said it's practiced? lol
and yeah bitch please - there is a difference between seeing people in Toronto do something and being at 2 different continents and observing things
I said it's known - meaning everybody knows about that, but I know for the fact that in Europe people hardly do it (like France for example, and UK)
when I lived in Europe, we'd only really tip at out fave places we went for family dinners every week or so
or if we tipped at a big party/birthday dinner


Posted by Joe Drust on Mar-04-2010 19:39:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
I would be more then prepared to pay more for my food then feel obligated to tip someone. The reality is that restaurants wouldn't increase their prices too much because they would loose too much business.


Your right we couldn't raise them much.. people are the most price sensitive they have been in years.
But some other things would change.
Restaurants / clubs cannot afford to absorb a 15% increase and be able to operate as they do now. (In the current model)

FACT this year the cost that we will absorb for the minimum wage increase will be equal to the capital we need to build two new restaurants...(corporately) those restaurants would employ around 60-90 people each. (which sucks - random thought)

No disrespect is intended in my posts so please dont take any.

One question though what is it that you dont like about "feeling obligated" to tip.
In the end as it is now you have a choice, right?
Is it just a personal thing that you would rather not have to actively rate / reward / or thank based directly on your experience?


Posted by kotsy on Mar-04-2010 19:40:

Was just about to post this. This scene changed my life :haha Buscemi is the man!

quote:
Originally posted by love_child
CUE SCENE


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Mar-04-2010 19:51:

quote:
Originally posted by Joe Drust
One question though what is it that you dont like about "feeling obligated" to tip.
In the end as it is now you have a choice, right?
Is it just a personal thing that you would rather not have to actively rate / reward / or thank based directly on your experience?


You are right....it is a choice but society has made it the norm to tip...regardless of how good the service. The reason I feel obligated to tip is because the wait staff isn't paid fairly for the work they do. If they were paid fair wages then I wouldn't feel obligated to tip but I probably would still tip for a job well done.


Posted by acronym on Mar-04-2010 20:00:

I'm not sure if this has been mentioned but servers don't normally get paid minimum wage. They get paid a servers minimum, which is below minimum wage.

So the problem doesn't really lie with the owners/employers, rather with the law makers.


Posted by smuncky on Mar-04-2010 20:07:

quote:
Originally posted by kotsy
Was just about to post this. This scene changed my life :haha Buscemi is the man!



i wanna watch this movie again now.


Posted by Abercrombie on Mar-04-2010 21:06:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
I would be more then prepared to pay more for my food then feel obligated to tip someone. The reality is that restaurants wouldn't increase their prices too much because they would loose too much business.


Reminds me of what Moevenpick used to do... add a 10% "service charge" to each bill, and hope the customers still tip. Staff complained to the newspapers years ago that Moevenpick was pocketing the charge and not distributing with the Staff. They admitted it saying it's to help offset costs and making prices seem lower. They got rid of it eventually when Richtree took over.

I wonder if the practice has come back now that Moevenpick moved back in the Richtree locations???


Posted by Cro_Addict on Mar-04-2010 21:10:

quote:
Originally posted by FunkyCrew
you clearly don't grasp the full meaning of working for minimum wage (servers) as well as other people in industries where tips are involved tipping a server at a restaurant is a globally known practice - depending on how much you like the service, you tip accordingly


I do grasp the concept fairly well. I am expected to subsidize wages. Again like I said I do tip, but do not agree with it.

quote:
Originally posted by Joe Drust
Its not the same. You dont understand the business that you are talking about. You would pay for it either way. "I" the employer does not pay "shit wages" as you say and we couldn't afford to do otherwise.
Want the same level of service but not have to tip ever? Then be prepared to have to pay a lot more for your food.

I know all of us restaurant people operate gold mines and we sit in offices counting our gold bars while we pay our servers shit wages as you say.


First I would be glad to pay more for food. I was just Australia, and food was much more expensive in restaurants, but guess what the waiters were paid a good wage and tipping is not a custom.

Oh and second, I wasn't trying to imply that restaurant owners operate goldmines while screwing the little guy. I understand the business requires alot hours, dedication and very hard work.


Posted by exstasie on Mar-04-2010 21:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Abercrombie
Reminds me of what Moevenpick used to do... add a 10% "service charge" to each bill, and hope the customers still tip. Staff complained to the newspapers years ago that Moevenpick was pocketing the charge and not distributing with the Staff. They admitted it saying it's to help offset costs and making prices seem lower. They got rid of it eventually when Richtree took over.

I wonder if the practice has come back now that Moevenpick moved back in the Richtree locations???



...so what you're saying is...that you were suppose to tip at Richtree as it wasn't built into the price?

Wonder if they'll move back now that its Moevenpicks again.


Posted by Abercrombie on Mar-05-2010 01:46:

quote:
Originally posted by exstasie
...so what you're saying is...that you were suppose to tip at Richtree as it wasn't built into the price?

Wonder if they'll move back now that its Moevenpicks again.



Exactly.

Managers have been trained to respond to customers who object the service charge. Simply tell the manager, they this is a self service restaurant and you refuse to pay for serving yourself. The manager will remove the service charge without fuss.

The story made it all over the papers several years ago. It used to be called "gratuity", but staff lawsuits (because they didn't get any of it) changed that to "service charge", and they remove it on a reactive basis.


Posted by bigfatandugly on Mar-06-2010 18:00:

TIPPING...

i work in the service industry, and i make a gratuity based income.

first, NOBODY deserves a tip. i don't care who you are or how good the service you provide is. a tip is a way of the person or people you are serving of saying 'thank you'. thats it. anyone who thinks they deserve a tip for the work they have done or service they have provided is mistaken. thats what your wage is for. if you don't like it go get another job that pays a better hourly, end of story.

that being said, do i like to run my ass off and get stiffed on a tip? no. do i take it personally? yes i do. i'm not going to lie. but nobody forces me to do my job. if i don't like it i know where the door is.

yes, there will be some who choose to show their appreciation by leaving a gratuity, and there will be those who don't. those who do leave a tip usually recognise the type of service you have given them and it is a good tip. so in the end it all works out in the wash even if you do not receive a tip for your efforts some time. but nobody deserves or should expect a tip. that is ridiculous.


BFU


Posted by bigfatandugly on Mar-06-2010 18:14:

BY THE WAY...

the whole 'forced gratuity' thing is bullshit. a club or restaurant adding 5-10% onto someones bill is a crock of shit. it is a club or restaurants way of saying 'i'm too cheap to properly compensate my staff for the work they do, so on top of charging you for the food and your drinks , i expect you to pay my employee too'.


BFU.


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Mar-07-2010 00:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Joe Drust
I know all of us restaurant people operate gold mines and we sit in offices counting our gold bars while we pay our servers shit wages as you say.


I laughed out loud.

As far as my opinions on tipping. I don't mind tipping at all. In fact, I like a bit of control in rewarding good service. I generally tip 15% rounded up. More if the service/food was above and beyond, less if it was a disgrace.

The only thing I don't like is that you don't always know if the tip you give goes directly to the person or if it's a tip pool. Personally I'd prefer if it went directly to the person, but I believe the norm is tip pool in Ontario. I actually read a lil while ago from Dubai or somewhere, and the author was astonished that tips in most places are pooled and that his money wasn't going to the person he gave it to. I always thought that was the norm!


Posted by chinamon on Mar-07-2010 01:24:

last night i ordered two shots of belvedere which came up to $16.. i tipped $14. now thats one hell of a tip.


Posted by The Highroller on Mar-07-2010 01:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Cro_Addict
So who cares if they got paid $2 an hour. Not my problem. That is a problem with their employer who pays them shit wages. So I as a consumer have to subsidize their wages while the owner of the restaurant rakes in the money because he pays shit.


If you go out for a meal and pay $30 for a meal, and leave a $4.50 tip, the total cost of the meal is $34.50. That tip contributes to a server's income, which is also comprised of wages, putting them at a certain wage level.

If you did not tip, the total cost of the meal would remain the same. The average tip that gets left (15%) would be added to the price of the meal in order to keep the wage level of a server around the same. Restaurants would have no choice but to do this, because a given level of job effort (i.e. the effort of fulfilling what is required of someone at their job) demands a given level of wages. If the wage level drops, and the effort level stays the same, servers are no longer being compensated adequately for the level of effort they put in. This will cause them to flock to another job that requires the same level of effort, but compensates them adequately for it.


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