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Originally posted by Meat187 Whore Tactics 101: When your man is busy and doesn't have much time for you, don't blame him! Instead spoil him and be as nice as you can, making him feel guilty and emotionally obliged to make it all up to you. This way you can successfully suck out his independence, manhood and life energy.

Precisely!

Because all we really want is a lazy, indecisive, spineless fag



Sorry Fleisch... I see several flaws in your reasoning.
You're not thinking like a woman. You're thinking like a man who is trying to think like a woman.

Thereby, you fail.

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Originally posted by Ania_xox Sorry Fleisch... I see several flaws in your reasoning. You're not thinking like a woman. You're thinking like a man who is trying to think like a woman.

No no no, the problem is that you don't understand how a man who is trying to think like a woman thinks, because you're thinking like a woman who is trying to think like a man who's thinking like a woman.

Thereby, you fail.

Swallow his pride.

There was a thread on the female equivalent of 'sausage fest'

Which one was the winner? it was srs lols

I think it was clam bake.

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Originally posted by jennypie I think it was clam bake.

Fucking lol

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Originally posted by Ania_xox (I resent that phrase btw, Fledz. I will have you know that I have a completely calm demeanour, most of the time)

Hehe I know, it was tongue in cheek

Also, wtf at IGK saying they should break up!? So when you're going through a rough patch, you're meant to lose the people closest to you? That's just fucking retarded IGK you fucking moron. I hate when people randomly hate on you for stupid reasons but you deserve all the abuse and hate you're getting in this particular thread you monkey.

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Originally posted by jennypie Well, speaking from personal experience - my bf is totally different than the majority of the guys that posted in this thread. He would definitely want a lot of sex. Sex is his answer for just about everything. He is very introverted as well, and doesn't really express himself verbally - but it's so obvious when something's up. I always talk to him regardless. Despite what these people say - talk is therapy. Getting your shit out in the open helps you to actually deal with it and find ways to move on, set goals, etc. Sometimes just saying how you feel sort of sets it free from your mind, too.

Sounds like me.

Sex + attention (as in talking, spending time together, etc) are 10,000x better than being left alone when I'm in a bad mood, for me.

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Originally posted by jennypie I think it was clam bake.

That was mine

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Originally posted by Ania_xox It's true. I just want to make him food and clean his den so that he'll fuck me senseless at the end of the day.

i once came home after a long stressful couple of days of work to an empty, clean house and a note that said, "dinner is done; it's in the fridge". i microwaved it, ate it, jerked it, and went to bed. awesome night.

Goddamn, Max is a good dog.

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Goddamn, Max is a good dog.

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Originally posted by Fledz Hehe I know, it was tongue in cheek Also, wtf at IGK saying they should break up!? So when you're going through a rough patch, you're meant to lose the people closest to you? That's just fucking retarded IGK you fucking moron. I hate when people randomly hate on you for stupid reasons but you deserve all the abuse and hate you're getting in this particular thread you monkey.

you mad.

I wouldn't be happy in the relationship she describes and would find someone else. She's the one with the problem asking for advice. Could it be she's angry because I'm direct and close to the truth. Most people aren't interested in a solution to their problems they either want sympathy, temporary relief or a quick fix that doesn't involve them having to change.

I'm not in any way angry or offended. I'm ok with my opinion whether you agree with it or not.

So in a 2 year+ relationship, when it comes to fight or flight, you are urging her to fly away?

IGK, do you have a girlfriend?

Go to HAL!

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On So in a 2 year+ relationship, when it comes to fight or flight, you are urging her to fly away? IGK, do you have a girlfriend?

I'm guessing he's reading between the lines, observing that after two+ years, there's some underlying problems in their relationship if she doesn't know how to handle a simple dilemma and has to come to the CoR with the issue.

At the risk of giving a serious answer... Ania needs to become a little less clingy while things are being sorted out and her boyfriend needs to either deal with his work-life stress and possibly sacrifice some of it for time with her and his own health. Its one thing to become involved with work, but he needs to leave it at work.

This thread is now clearly about Fledz unleashing his rage upon the internets once again.

Re: Musings for the sausagefest

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Originally posted by Ania_xox My significant other in life has been very bummed lately; he's working a helluva lot and he's very deeply invested in both jobs so a leave of absence is not an option. This will go on til the end of June and stretches beyond the scope of our relationship so it's nothing that I have to analyze or "fix" Both of his jobs are intense and emotionally draining and I'm just trying to be there for him and he tells me I'm being great but I want to do more. He gets a bit introverted when he's stressed about his work so I don't want to push him about it when we do have the odd hour or two together.

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Originally posted by Ania_xox We've been together for 2 years and the lines of communication have always been open and excellent; yet right now I feel like I'm single and playing games with my own boyfriend.

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Originally posted by Ania_xox When I'm not dedicating my free time to him, I'm not overly busy. When I'm not busy, I fill up my schedule with social things. So several times this week I have peaced the fuck out and gone to another city to spend time with old friends, hung out with my girlfriends, gone to some conferences, worked a lot on my summer research, plus I work like 3 times a week. I just don't want him to feel that I'm living my life without him. Again, I would love to talk to him about this and see how he feels about all of it, but I'm not going to because he really doesn't need a deep, reflective conversation right now.

No, he's Dr. Philling her. Oh shi- don't. Just don't.

But really? Wow, intermittent time management issues in a relationship? You don't fucking say. Sounds like every long-term relationship, ever. You either find ways to cope with things the best you can, or you don't. That's the game everyone plays when they become close to someone else. Sometimes consulting the peanut gallery is what it is, but sometimes hearing everyone's perspectives will help you realize what your own really is. It's obviously up to her and she is not saying 'hey cor, decide my future for me', she is just putting herself out there so that maybe someone will step up and relate their own experience to which she might be able to draw upon.

If he's worth it, Ania, don't give up on him. That's obvious. Everyone goes through their rough patches, but you can probably trust that things will change at some point, perhaps by your doing and perhaps not, but if you trust him and love him, you are already prepared to deal with this in the best possible way. Vague guidance, I know, but trust is the crux - and the gamble - we all take, when we love somebody. If your response to change is to run away, well, that speaks volumes about your ability to be with someone when the romance takes a turn.

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On IGK, do you have a girlfriend that doesn't wear velcro shoes?

I guess I have to spell it out for you, IGK.

I love my boyfriend very much.

I do not want to leave him.

He talks to me about it quite a bit about both jobs, often breaking the rules about what he legally can and cannot share, so I have a thorough understanding of what he is going through right now.

I am worried about his mental health and happiness during this stressful time.

I was looking for suggestions from a plethora of men, online and IRL.

I am making educated decisions based on my in-depth knowledge of my boyfriend, combined with my own ideas, plus suggestions from other people.

It's a weird time, so I feel it calls for some slight changes.
Nothing to run away from

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On IGK, do you have a girlfriend that isn't in .jpg format?

Yeah? What do you have against velcro shoes, Bas? Sneakers, to be exact. Dick.

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